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is it right
well am 15 and well i liked my cousin' cousin and he isnt nothing from me cuz that my uncle's side sooo yea i really like him soo yea i really dont know what to do should i go for it or back off cuz i really do like him and he doesnt have my bllod in him and his 14 and i always have liked him since we were little and i think he likes me back but i dont know if i should go fot it and am gonna see him this sunday soo should i go for it and yea we r going to the movies at city walk and my uncle is going my two cousins and thier cousins (him) and well please tell me what should i do???
p.s i hate when mean ass people answer soo dont even bother!!!
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well I think that u should kinda flirt with him and then see wut his reaction is then if it is bad dont go for it but if it is good then go for it!!
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im sorry if this is mean...
that is just wrong its not normal at all. sure, he's related to u be marrage but hes still family and thats just plain WRONG.
P.S. ew
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ok, I am gonna tell you what you should do, lots of people feel this way about family and it is hard to make a decison about that kinda stuff. Ask him cousin to cousin if he feels the same way then tell an adult you can trust,this will make you feel better and not so odd liking a family member, if he dosent feel the same way you should look somewhere else because there are plenty of fish in the sea!!!! Trust me.
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Hi There,
In a situation like this, it's not uncommon for feelings to develop, especially if you're close in age and share similar interests.
Whatever you're feeling is fine. It's how you choose to act upon such affections that matters, so try not to feel guilty or ashamed. The key is to consider the long-term implications of getting it together with someone you're related to genetically. Quite simply, you will always be family, which can cause untold grief should you become involved in a romance that goes wrong. Relationships fail for all kind of reasons, of course, but you can expect extra pressure from the way people respond to your relationship notably family and friends.
If you do find yourself falling for anyone who shares your nearest 'n' dearest, consider turning to somebody outside the situation (a trusted friend or telephone help line) and open up to them about it first. You'll find just talking through the situation will make your feelings more bearable, and help you to realise that they can be overcome.
Only you can decide on the next step, of course, and much will depend on your circumstances (such as whether the other person is aware of your affections or feels the same way). If it's a crush then be clear with yourself that it is just a fantasy and even enjoy the feelings it brings. It won't last long, especially if you focus on meeting people outside the family. Ultimately, if it is something you feel unable to resist be sure to avoid making any decision in the heat of the moment.
Goodluck, I hope that wasn't too mean
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you going for it if you like the guy. If you like him let him know you are interested. :)
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