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Q: What is your favorite perfume? What perfumes do guys like best?
One of the guys i was with this past summer, went CRAZY whenever i had the perfume LILU on from PacSun.. Another good one is Amor Amor by Cachrel, it's more of a designer perfume, but smells AMAZING, its one of my personal favorites. And i would stay away from CURVE, i've heard many guys say they dont like it... But CURVE CRUSH on another hand, they love.

Q: Ok so a little while ago i was brushing my teeth and the thing that connects my wire broke off. Like how its glued and stuff, it just broke off. Im worried because they say it can start decaying really bad or whatever but i wouldnt think it would be that fast or even that part. But i have an orthodontalist appointment on Wednesday so should i just wait until then or have my mother call and ask about it? Thanks.
I just got braces off... but you should call if it is bothering you, if its not bothering you, 3 days of waiting to go won't hurt anything. dont worry about it. if it is bothering you have your mom call
xoxo

Q: Do pink and black go good together?
definitely.. for like a whole year thats all people wore was pink nd black hahah and its still in

Q: How can you usually tell if your in love?
you'll just know..

when they are all you think about and you always want to be with them

amazing feeling

Q: What are some decent image-hosting sites (other than photobucket and freewebs)?
www.tinypic.com

Q: 14/f... just wondering if 34B is small for my age. Please help - I'm really worried!!!
No, thats not small.. about normal..I'm only a 32B and im 15. Dont worrya bout being small..worry about being too big cuz thats the thing that would suck the most and that you'll have problems with later in life.You're fine dont worry

Q: Okay, My name is melissa, and i'm fifteen. Theres this guy at my school who keeps calling me fat. He says that i'm obese and that i should just stop eating!!! The problem is, that i'm 5,4 and i'm 105 pounds. I dont think that's fat, and all my friends say i'm stick thin....but, i dont know. If he calls me that, do other people think that? And...if not, how do i get him to stop?

Please help! I rate high!

~Melissa~
You are DEFINITELY not fat at all! haha I'm 5'3 and about 100, and i'm one of the smaller girls in my grade. 105 is really thin for being 5'4. Don't listen to him. Guys get a kick out of making fun of girls and making them self conscious of themselves. He's just being dumb. Just tell him to knock it off becase you know you aren't fat and its not getting to you. I have learned that guys will only keep doing something or saying something if they know it bothers you. and if it doesn't bother you, or at least they dont think it does, it will get old to them and they will stop.

hope i helped!

Q: if someone u know has diabeties and u accidently/purposly drink out of their cup that they drank out of, what could happen if anything?no smartass answers nd btw, this aint for me
diabetes isn't a contagious disease. It's something that goes wrong in their body organs, it can't be passed

Q: 15/f

I've had a really upset stomach for about 2 weeks. I've been throwing up and then just dry heaves. I can't eat much, I used too eat like normaly and then some. But now I barely have a sandwhich a day. I don't know what's up or what too do.

Any advice?

Should I just go to the doctors?
It's probably a flu or something. Go to the doctors hun they will be able to tell you for sure

Q: i got my belly button pierced 2 months ago and its still red/swollen i think its infected wat do i do? i heard u arent supposed to put neosoprin on it? what should i put on it, and can i treat it without removing my belly ring?
Well mine got infected, when its infected it will bleed and puss, if so its an infection, if its just red and swollen it may just be irritated..

but no do not put neosporin on itthat will make it worse. if it is infected lay down on your park so your stomach is flat facing up and pour peroxide in it, it should bubble,and that is good because it is cleaning the infection from it. and DO NOT TAKE IT OUT, it will be hardto get the ring back in, and the hole will grow shut trapping the infection inside of it and you DONT want that to happen. trust me on this one, i got this advice from the doctor.

Q: I straighten my hair, but I always still have these little hairs that stick up around the top of my head. But there's A LOT of them. Does any one know any hair products that could get rid of this?
There is one product that will beat anything else you try..

its called smoothing milk and its by garnier fructiese, i have the same problem, and it works AMAZING. and its only like 3$ so cheap and the best there is


goodluck xox

Q: does anyone know how to juggle and if so can they explain how to do it?
I know how to juggle, but you can't really explain it.. someone kind of has to show you in person. I suggest trying to find someone that can show you in person and help you physically

Q: is there anything i can do about my scars on my forehead? I got them when i poped my zits.
I'm not sure exactly what it is called, but i know i just saw a commercial about this on tv the other day thats like a face mask/peel that is supposed to remove acne scars. there is also creams in stores that are supposed to faden scar marks i believe, but again i can't give you the name of it. Not much help, but there is stuff you can do about it

Q: (16/f) ok so this guy caught me playing with my breasts and other places in the washroom at school and now hes threatening to tell everyone unless i go out with him and let him fuck me whenever he wants. what should i do?
Even though this is an embarressing situation, you need to tell someone, you can leave out the part of what he caught you doing, but just say he is threatening you and all of that.. thats the best thing to do in this situation i believe. BEcuase you cant give in to him and let him basically rape you, and im sure it would be embarressing for that to go around school.. good luck

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What is the point of making up a stupid question, so people will answer you, and you give them bad feedback?

Q: hi. Im going into 6 grade.. and i wont tell my age cuz i dont wanna get banded.. but anyways .. Jan.19 2005.. i went for a check up at the doctors.... and i wieghed 86.. pounds.. and i didnt care.. but i went yesterday (aug 27 05..) to check my azma or whatever.. and she weighed me for somereason .. and i weighed 100.. and i dont wanna weigh that i want to weigh like 90 .. for now.. what can i do.. my mom says theres nothing to worry about. Your tall .. not over weight.. and well i still dont want to be 100.. any help?

xo
Alright well, around your age its not unheard of to gain 15 pounds in a year because of body change and all that awesome stuff, also because of growth spurts and all of that. And your mom could be right about the tall thing because the taller you are the more you weigh. I'm 5'3 and i weigh 100. But I'm also one of the skinniest girls in my grade and doctors tell me I'm underweight, but i thought i would put my height and weight out there so u can compare yourself to that, feel free to put other questions in my inbox

Q:

hey !! im 13/f
so ive known this kid lets call him "jim" for about 2 years . and this year were in 8 grade.
ive liked for almost a month now *since school started* and i don't know if he likes me . So many girls like him and were good friends so i don't want to exactly tell him that i like him because it might ruin our friendship but how can i like tell/show him that i like him without telling him i like him !! how do i get him to kind of notice me as more than a friend ? and i might be moving in a month or in a year ... we don't know and i at least want him to know that i like him before i go !

and does it mean something that wenever were both online and i IM him he ignores me ?
and also lately hes been ignoring me at school.... does this mean anything ?

signed
hopeless girl
i rate really high i promise !
i get exactly what you mean, because this happened to me a little bit back. but anyway, you can definitely show him without telling him! ask him to hang out a bit more, and ask if he cares if its just the 2 of you. or try flirting with him a little more. i dont know where you stand with kissing and all, i know some girls your age have already been pretty far, but i know at 13 i didnt just kiss randomly. but anyway you could just kiss him on the cheek or something when u hug him or whatever, just flirt with him like you would if you liked any other guy! in my opinion i think you should just try to talk to him, and ask him who he likes, and then he will ask you and be like i dont know if i should tell you cuz you might laugh or somethingg... then he willl be like oh no i wont laugh i promise, then tell him and say i just wanted to let you know that before i leave, but either way you go about it will be good i think:-) and i definitely think he needs to know before you move, becuase he could like you too and you could find that out after you leave and completely regret not telling him! how horrible would that be :-(

anyway about him ignoring you, there could be many different reasons for that. one being that guys are just stupid like that, ecspecially at this age. two- maybe he's mad at you for something, or maybe someone told him something that made him not want to talk to you. or 3 he could possibly like you and is just to shy to talk to you? the only way to find out is to ask him, pull him aside in school, or call him, do something so he cant ignore you, imsure you can find a way to get an answer from here hun.



i hope this helped, if you need anything else just leave me another comment in my inbox, i'll be happy to help! let me know how it goes too!



xox

Q: Is it illegal to take someone else's medicine that was prescribed to them?
Yeah it is illegal, thats just like someone giving regular drugs to you, because it is something that COULD HARM YOU. Worse than being illegal, it is very dangerous to take someone else's perscription pills. If you are asking for you, please reconsider it but if you aren't and just wondering, yes it is illegal hahah:-)

Q: ok well im thinking of starting softball again, but now since i have my period it will be alittle different. i dont want to use pads because its too shall i say messy? but ive never actually used a tampon before, so i was wondering if i could have some info about it, and how do i get some with out asking my mom.. cuz thats always a hassle.
i rate, thanks for those who help
When i first started getting my period, i didn't want to ask my mom anything about it either, most girls don't because when we all get our periods its kind of embarressing, but in a year or so we all grow out of the stage and realize everyone has it, and become more open with it. But until then..

go in your moms bathroom, and get the tampon box, there is PLENTY of information on there about how to insert it and everything else you need to know about tampons.

Now to get some without your mom knowing, you can either just take some from her tampon box, or ask your friends for some, there are also machines in public restrooms you can get tampons from forlike a quarter or so, and the school nurse gives free tampons..

I reccomend using plastic applicators over cardboard. They are much easier to use and a lot more comfortable in my opinion.



Good luck!

Q: Okay well i wanna srighten my hair but i cant seem to find a srightener that works. Can anyone recommend any good ones that work on thick hair.
less than $69.99 would be great. Will rate 5's for fast good answers that work.
I get one by Vidal Sassoon, thats have wide gold ceramic plates. I only paid 25.00 for it, but i got it at a place called Save Mart, i dont know if you have one where you live or not. But it works amazing on thick hair, because i have extremely thick hair and its the only hair striaghtner i will use!! hope this helped, if you need to know anymore about hair products for thick hair or anything i can sure help, i've tried everything to get my thick frizzy hair perfectly straight and smooth so i can sure help you out babe!

Q: Hey, I was just wondering what you guys thought about a freshman in highschool dating a senior because i've really started to like this guy and he likes me too. Is it too big of an age difference? Will people start spredding rumors about me "giving" him something for him to b going out with me?
It's only 3 years difference, and it might seem like a big difference now, but most people marry with a bigger age difference than that anyway. But it's definitely not to big of an age difference, beause girls mature faster than guys anyway, so most girls do start to date 2 or 3 year older guys in high school. And I'm not going to lie to you, people MIGHT start to say stuff, beacuse it hsa happened to me and a bunch of my friends when we dated older guys. but you really can't let it get to you, because you know its not true, and the people who will probably most likely say it are either guys in your grade or girls in his, and they are just jealous. Don't let what otherpeopel say interfere with it, because i definitely think you should go for it!! GOOD LUCK HUN!

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