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i don't know wut to do ???
hey !! im 13/f
so ive known this kid lets call him "jim" for about 2 years . and this year were in 8 grade.
ive liked for almost a month now *since school started* and i don't know if he likes me . So many girls like him and were good friends so i don't want to exactly tell him that i like him because it might ruin our friendship but how can i like tell/show him that i like him without telling him i like him !! how do i get him to kind of notice me as more than a friend ? and i might be moving in a month or in a year ... we don't know and i at least want him to know that i like him before i go !
and does it mean something that wenever were both online and i IM him he ignores me ?
and also lately hes been ignoring me at school.... does this mean anything ?
signed
hopeless girl
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i get exactly what you mean, because this happened to me a little bit back. but anyway, you can definitely show him without telling him! ask him to hang out a bit more, and ask if he cares if its just the 2 of you. or try flirting with him a little more. i dont know where you stand with kissing and all, i know some girls your age have already been pretty far, but i know at 13 i didnt just kiss randomly. but anyway you could just kiss him on the cheek or something when u hug him or whatever, just flirt with him like you would if you liked any other guy! in my opinion i think you should just try to talk to him, and ask him who he likes, and then he will ask you and be like i dont know if i should tell you cuz you might laugh or somethingg... then he willl be like oh no i wont laugh i promise, then tell him and say i just wanted to let you know that before i leave, but either way you go about it will be good i think:-) and i definitely think he needs to know before you move, becuase he could like you too and you could find that out after you leave and completely regret not telling him! how horrible would that be :-(
anyway about him ignoring you, there could be many different reasons for that. one being that guys are just stupid like that, ecspecially at this age. two- maybe he's mad at you for something, or maybe someone told him something that made him not want to talk to you. or 3 he could possibly like you and is just to shy to talk to you? the only way to find out is to ask him, pull him aside in school, or call him, do something so he cant ignore you, imsure you can find a way to get an answer from here hun.
i hope this helped, if you need anything else just leave me another comment in my inbox, i'll be happy to help! let me know how it goes too!
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