i was gofing around with my boyfriend while all of a sudden he got all wierd and started grabbing covers and all. so i ripped the covers awayto get him goin again and he revealed... well, he had a giantic boner. instead of laughin or bein grossed out i just ran away and haven't talked to him much. im 13, and i dnt knoe... i wasn't expecting it. why do you think that happened?
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Is he the same age as u? sometimes guys just think like that. he might just want to "show off" (you know)? ..
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My boyfriend was living with me for a while, and he just "moved out" today. I can't call him, but I really miss him a lot, I don't know, I just need a way to miss him less. What do I do? We're still going to see eachother and stuff, it's just going to be less than when he lived with me. (He had to move out because my dad never knew he lived here, and he was really mad)
maybe you could give him a picture of you and he can give you a picture of him. I know its not the same like seeing in alot in person but it does help. Maybe you could talk to him on AIM, and you will see him soon.
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my boyfriend got me this really nice watch for christmas and im supposed to be giving him his tommorow but i have no idea what to get him!!! helpp..
what kind of stuff is he into?
maybe you could make him a cd with love/christmas songs, a skatbored, football, a cd he wants, clothes.
you can tell what to get him by his personality.
good luck!!
Happy Holidays!
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This kid in my school, Danny, he knows I had an eating disorder problem, so I lost a really lot of weight; but everytime he sees me he makes some sort of rude comment. They all tend to be toward my weight. For instance at lunch I asked my friend if they had any money I could borrow because I left mine at home, and he said something rude like "What for lunch? Looks like you've eaten enough". Which totaly goes over my head because I've lost about 60lbs since the begining of last summer. So, how should I confront him, or should I not even bother I know theres got to be a way to shut him up without having to bring the principal into it or anything like that. Or should I just resort to that?
I think you should just tell him,"leave me alone or were not friends so just shut up" or something like that. You can yell or whatever you want b/c it is very wrong what he is doing. If that doesnt work maybe you could tell someone (the pricipal,a friend,a parent,an older sibling) someone who will stand up for you.
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Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!!
Well, if you still want to be with him and he is treating you bad, you can just break up with him but still stay friends. I dont think it is right to go out with a guy who treats you badly. But you can still stay frinds with him like talk to him on the pfone or on AIM or something like that.
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I would assume this would go under mental health, cause I am sure it is all in my head.
Everytime I get extremly upset, I get really nausous feeling. I am in the middle of a pretty bad pending breakup (only time will tell what will happen with that) but everytime something happens that would upset me, or I dwell on something that may have upset me in the past, I actualy do get sick. I dont go one day without throwing up, and recently, I feel nausous all the time, so I cant eat, therefore getting dry heave. What can I do to stop getting sick?
I think you should stop thinking about being upset. Just take deep breathes when you do and think about the good things in life. And i also think you should talk to your doctor. You should`nt be sick everyday.
good luck!!
**feel better**
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My daughter does not want to know me and is trying to exclude me from the rest of the family i am heartbroken she cant see that i love her and my other children she is married and has children of her own please find me some answers as to why this is happening
I think you should talk to your daughter. Tell her how you are feeling. Tell her you want to be closer to her, espeically around the holiday season. Just tell her how you feel.
good luck!!
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I have a rat and my brother gave me another one and put them in the same cage and they started fighting and one of them has cuts under his chin so I was wondering if I should just let them heal or do something about it.Thanks
I think you should put them in 2 seperate cages. Then they wont fight.
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im sort of taking everyones advice.. everyone told me to talk to him and i did.. and he told me to wait for him.. and i tried doing that.. but im finally letting him go.. im changing my life now.. im letting more and more go.. and im just being more open with people.. i realized that i shouldnt just be there when he needs me.. and maybe i was moving to fast.. so now im just letting go.. and im actually happy.. im meeting a lot of new people.. and he is now telling me that he wants to go out with me.. but i dont want to.. cause im having fun right now.. im living my life the way i want to.. now how do i tell him that im not into him anymore.. i mean ive told him.. but i think that he thinks im lying.. and ive told him.. and ive told him millions of times.. and he doesnt seem to understand.. and its like im having new guy friends.. and most of them are starting to like me.. i mean its kool that one or two of them like me.. but man.. im kind of not used to this.. i know it might sound weird.. but im not really wanting all of this attention.. i mean yea i changed.. but i didnt change myself for everyone to talk to me.. like they do now.. i feel like im losing some people this way.. and im gaining others.. so i guess im asking more then one question...
how do i tell the guy that i really dont want to go out with him?? and get him to really understand??
how do i get all of the new guys to stop likeing me.. without telling them to stop liking me??
should i be happy that im getting new friends?? but then at the same time losing old ones??
and anything else that is in that.. please help..
I think you should say this to this guy:" I dont like you as more then a friend, we are just friends and nothing more. So please stop bothering me" something like that.
And as for your guy friends. You can have guy friends but if you dont want them to like you then just dont flirt with them or anything like that. But be nice to them, just dont make them think you like them.
I think you should be happy you are making friends. Its ok to make new friends and keep the old friends. Just when you make new friends, still keep in touch or hang out or call your old friends. Mmaybe your new friends and your old friends and you can all hang out together.
sorry this is so long
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My boyfriend and me have been dating for a month. I was a virgin when we met he was surprised that I was. This weekend there was a party at my friend’s house and I invited him to come with me. We both got wasted and stoned. All night he was asking me to have sex and I kept saying no. I didn’t want to loose my virginity well I was drunk and stoned. I wanted to do it when I was ready as well. When I was in my friend room alone he came in and locked the door behind him again he asked me to have sex I was so drunk at that point I was about to pass out and so I said yes. So now I feel really bad is this a good thing?
Well it really depends. Did you really love this guy enough? I dont know how old you are but maybe it was too early. But whatever feels right, must be right.
good luck!!
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i just went to the doctor because i was having this problem at night where i cant do anything but breathe (kinda long story)and the doctors said i have someting called absence seizures or something and they said i have to get a "brain scan" or "mri" done..whats an MRI?? i heard that its a big black thing, and im really scared..i feel really uncomfortable with the problem to and i hate it... i dont wanna go to the hospital and stick my head into something...this is really bad, and im 14 and STILL somewhat frightened of the dark!! does anyone know anything to help me?? someone just please say something anything will help! thanks
An MRI can be scary at first. it doesn`t really hurt. But that depends what you are getting an MRI done 4. It looks like a big tube (its metal) that you go into.
good luck!!
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Hummm, Soo for the soccer team we have to buy gifts for people and it is supposed to be secret...Hints the name Secret Santa..The girl that I picked is really stuck up and I know absolutely nothing about her.. What should I get her.
If she thinks she is all that, get her some, glitter hair gel or body lotion, makeup -(eyeshadow,lipgloss,blush..stuff like that)
good luck!!
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Ok I have a guy i like and who likes me or so my friend says. All 3 of us were in 3rd period and she sits nect to him and asked him if he liked me and he said yea sort of. then she asked him would you ever go out wit her he said i dont really know her. I am SoOo Shy and i dont know how to talk to him cause i dont know what to say to him and i guess hes shy too cause he doesnt really talk to anyone. So how do i start a conversation with him?! Like some tips!! HELP! I'LL RATE YOU HIGH!
ask him how his day is going. Or if your in school ask him if you can borrow a pen or something. ask him what sports he likes to play or what kind of things he likes to do. Dont be shy bc he might like you just as you might like him. but to find that out you got to tell him how you feel about him. So i think you should tell him how you feel. (after a few days after you get 2 know him)
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with an average income, how much would you spend on your 15 year old child?
thanks
mostly with a 15 year old child they want cell phones or tv`s 4 their rooms, electronic stuff.the most I would probably spend (if its electronic) 80$ or if its something not that expensive then like 50$
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hey i'm goin out with this boy named Orlando and we've been goin out for about 2 months and 2 weeks and i liked him alot for those 2 months but now im not sure if i do anymore...whenever we hang out its like we're friends, not more than that. I've had my friend Chris try to like tell him that i want to hold his hand and stuff and it still doesnt help. i'd get embarassed if i tried to talk to him so i'm not gonna try and talk to him. I kinda want to dump him because if we dont act like we're goin out and we just act like we're friends then i dont see a point in goin out...but i dont know how to tell him. i dont want every one to run up to me after i do it and say "omg you dumped him? why?" and "i cant believe you dumped him!!" and all that stuff...i'd feel totally bad. What should i do? dump him? and if i do dump him how should i say it?
I think you should dump him. If you dont like him you should not go out with him if you dont like him anymore. Some things you can say to break up with him are:
"this is not working out between us, i hope we can be friends" or "i dont think we should go out anymore, hopefully we can be friends" stuff like that.
good luck!!
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Hey guys! I'm burning my boyfriend a CD for Christmas and putting a bunch of love songs on it. I need a few more and I'm running out of ideas. I was just wondering if u guys had any good suggestions. Thanx so much ! I rate high.
you can put some christmas songs on there. and for some love songs you can put:
"with you" by Jessica Simpson
"pieces of me" by Ashlee Simpson
"A moment like this" by Kelly Clarkson
"the sweetiest sin" by Jessica Simpson
good luck!!
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I met this guy over the summer from Germany and he is super awesome. I used to like him but now he's like a really really cute brother to me. He's my best friend. My other best friend likes him now and I am getting jealous. Does this mean I still like him or I am just jealous to be jealous.
If you like this guy i think you should tell him that you like him. If your friend likes him too just talk to your friend about it. Im sure she will understand. Its ok to be jealous once and a while. but not all the time! so if you like this guy i think you should tell him.
good luck!!
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okay... i really like this one guy... but whenever i talk to him .. i dont know what to talk about!! i need good things to talk about!!! anything!!...helppp!
ask him what he did today. ask him what sports he likes to play. ask him what his favorite thing to do is. stuff like that. Who know...maybe you 2 will have something in commen.
good luck!!
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well i like this guy...and i guess he sorta likes me... like a little bit... i want him to like me enough to go out with me...how do i do that? how do i tell him i like him? how do i get him to like me moore!! i need hellpp!!
I think you should first get to know him a little bit. ask some of his guy friends what he likes to do (or something like that) then start to flirt with a little bit. Then maybe 4 days later tell him how you feel. just tell him that you like him. Never be afraid to speak up 4 yourself.
good luck!!
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My ex boyfriend Chris claims he loves me but than we get in a fight and he says he doesn't and than I will talk to one of his friends and than him and I will start talking again and he will tell me how jealous he gets when I talk to his friend. I don't understand why he gets jealous and why he loves me one minute but not the next. Please help. ASAP. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo
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I think you should just ask him :"what is going on with you? you say you love me one min. and the next, you say you dont love me. whats wrong?" or something like that. Just ask him y he is acting like that.
good luck!!
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