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Q: sense some girls are different does that always mean a girl likes guy

Well,it always depends.
For me,I hit my guy friend's,but I don't like them.Me personally,I never hit a guy I like,because I hate it when guys who likes me hits me flirting.

Q: 15 year old male i am gay and i have a boyfriend of 4 months we are happy togther and i haven't told anyone that i'm gay especially my parents i'm worried how they will react they are christians i'm not sure how my friends will react we think we should keep quiet for awhile what do you think? i've known for sometime that i like guys i love my boyfriend that is normal isn't it?

Yes.It's totally normal to love your boyfriend.And honestly,I think that you guys should follow your hearts.I'm not really sure if you should tell your parents,but you should tell your friends.And I feel that if they can't accept that,then they aren't truly your friends.And if you do tell your parents,they should also accept you for you.Hope it goes good.Let me know how things turn out please =).

Q: The subject is fairly self explanatory.
I don't go out very much and I don't have a lot of money. (that makes me sound like a hobo. I'm not a hobo. just saying.)
But are there any home remedies that can be used to.. what's the word? help? To solve acne problems? Something like that.
But yeah, if anyone knows of anything like that, that can help that'd be great! :)

Well,you could go to a dermetologist,or just your doctor,and they'll probably ask what your doing for it,and they might give you a prescription for it.

Q: This is some of the things my bf does:

1) When I'm texting/calling someone when I'm with him he asks me who I'm texting/on the phone with.

2) He reads my texts over my shoulder.

3) If I talk to another guy he gets very jealous and upset. We were at a party the other day and I was talking to a guy there off and on and he told me he got very jealous and felt I was ignoring him.

4) He's very jealous of my gay (guy) best friend because we hang out a lot and I've known him for years.

4) If I text him back at a slow pace he gets very angry with me, but if he takes long to text back I'm not supposed to be mad at him..

5) He always wants to do what HE wants to do.

6) We live about an hour from eachother and he always makes me go out there to see him bc he doesnt feel like driving here.

7) If I go out with friends he always, in a mean tone, asks me what I did and for details, etc.

8)If I leave his house and we don't talk for about an hour (through texting) he'll text me to see what I'm doing.

There's more but that's the majority of it....

Heck yea he's controlling.Especially if he gets jelous of your gay guy friend.

Q: Well i am a virgen and My boy friend is one too and he always talks about how he wants to lose it well I said soon and he said how soon and i said whenever (Dumb answer) And he wants to do it in about 4 days Help!!Idont no what to do So plz leave a comment telling me what i should do !!

If you don't want to lose your virginity yet,don't.Because if you do,and didn't want to,your going to regret it.Just tell him the truth.

Q: We have been together for a year and a half, things are slowing a bit. We both know it and neither of us want it. I would love some great ideas for nice surprises. I have done flowers and letters and all that jazz but i would like something different. I am going to sneak letters and treats into places she may find them, just to give her a nice thing, but some ideas for days or things.
BTW it can't be something over night as her parents are very strict, have to bare that in mind.

Well,that's really sweet of you.But something I find really romantic or sweet,is to leave her secret notes.If the school has lockers,then everyday,you can leave a note on her locker,or desk telling her how much you love her.

Q: i have a guy who sayd we are friends all his friends and mine say there is something more. should i make the first move or wait to see how he feels?
im 15 and i need to know before i embarrass myself

I was in this same situation.You might just want to wait.I waited,and he eventually told me he loved me.I waited for 3 years.But if i would have asked,he would've said no.So sometimes it's best to be patient.

Q: ok i like this really cute guy at school and im not sure if he likes me back but we talk alot and we tell each other things that most people dont know about us? how can i figure out if he likes me back and i also have forgotten what he looks like since i havnt seen him in sooooooo long do i still like him or not and how can i find out if he likes me without having to ask him?

i need help in the nest 5 minuts please!!!!!

help me!!
fluffy

Well,sometimes if my guyfriends like this girl,they will send me to go and ask if she likes them,and vice versa.But Have one of your friends ask him if he likes you.

Q: well i like this guy and he just asked me out and hes moving in 5 days and ya soo i told him i would think about it but i dont know what to say please help :S

I totally understand you,because my boyfriend is in Texas,and I'm in Illinois.But it might work for you.Just tell him why you don't think it would work.And if you do think it will work,then go for it.

Q: I am 13 and i am pregnant. I took a pregnancy test that I stole from a store and it was positive. I already know i am way to young for sex. But we did use a condom it just broke. I can't tell my mom because she doesn't even know that I like boys yet she still thinks that I think boys have cooties. Abortion is out of the picture 1. I can't afford it 2. I could never kill a child. But i am just so scared I didnt tell the dad yet and not my mom only my best friend. I don't know how to tell them so please just tell me what to do or give me potions or opinions but please don't lecture me on how stupid I am for having sex I will get that from my mom it has been 2 weeks. Thanks for the help

Well,first of all,I can tell you that your parents are going to probably freak out.They did it when my sister got pregnant.But first,you can just tell your mom you need to talk to her about something really important,and then tell her.But if you wouldn't be to sure about that,then you can write her a letter telling her.Writing my parents letters about things always seems to help me,and help the situation a little better.Hope it helps

Q: hi .... there are two things i dont like much of my personality i am a shy person and very honest, i do tell lies but never to my parents i always follow their rules. i am a teen and my firends always tell me is fine to lie to them but i just dont feel good by lying and its really frustrating because i feel like i am total geek and about the shy thing i just sometimes when i met people especially guys,dont know how to begin or end a conversation please help me should i change? how can i begin a conversation???
thanks

That's definately a no-no.You never change who you are.Don't let your friends pressure you into doing anything you don't feel comfortable about doing.And maybe the guy's just as scared as you are.But you can start by talking about mutual things.

Q: Hi everyone, I'm thinking about getiing side bangs and I'm not sure if they get annoying and are always in the way... Are they ever a bother?

Well,I had side bangs,and I only wore them for 2 days.I'm getting them again,because then I was younger.But for me,they weren't a bother.But everyone's different.But if you get them cut,and they do get in your way,then you can just pin them up.