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11. 08. 2008. I'M TAKING A BREAK FROM THE ADVICENATORS FOR A GOOD WHILE. I HAVE WAY TO MANY OF MY OWN PROBLEMS WITH MY OWN LIFE RIGHT NOW. IF YOU REALLY THINK I'M THAT GOOD THAT I CAN HELP YOU, EMAIL ME.


BE BACK AROUND CHRISTMAS.


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I'm 15 years old (turning 16 next month) I'm about 5'7 and I weigh around 150 lbs. Am I overweight? What are some good exercises that I could do to lose weight? I really want to flatten my stomach, tone my arms and legs, especially my thighs and tone my butt. And what are some things I could use to motivate me?

You aren't over weight at all.

Your perfectly fine. & Cardio is something fast that tones everything, if your looking for something to motivate you. (:

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what type of shirt is this?
all i can make out is couture
but its a men's shirt.

http://img222.imageshack.us/my.php?image=001aa0.jpg
this link should work (:

Uhm, it looks like either a hell of a lot of tattos, where the color on the camera didn't come out right;

or a red face all over a shirt.

:/

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what's the difference between the marley and me book by john grogan and the marly like no other book?

Marely & me is for younger readers, apperently. I went to like ten sites to read reviews and info about both books, and came up with that.

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I need a homecomming dress any ideas with good websites that have reasonably priced dresses? Stores more rare would be greatly appreciated.

It really all depends on the price range, style/color you want, and design.

I'd try;

jcpenny.com
dillards.com
macys.com
sears.com
ebay.com
amazon.com
davidsbridal.com

almost anywhere has beautiful dresses, you just have to find one for you.
& you'd have better luck acutally going to a mall, to make sure it fits.

Best of luck, have fun at the dance. (:

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Hey! does anybody know where they sell capelet jackets? rope belts?

I have no idea if this is what a capelet jacket is, but here is what I found.

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=6538483

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=6538479

http://belowcostdesigners.wordpress.com/2008/06/16/ming-wang-capelet-knit-jacket-sz-xl-35-great-online-designer-discount-clothing/

http://www.thisnext.com/item/E54D9956/Trina-Turk-Espresso-Capelet

http://googlescanners-360.com/2009/1/freescan.php?aid=880290


I hope something helped. :/

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hey there.... i have a very stupid kind of question which is in my mind for 2-3 years.....
i go to gym almost regularly and have been listening to people there saying that if you really wanna improve your performance at gym then u should completely stop masturbating.. i try to control myself a lot of times but still end up doing it atleast once a week (oops)... so can anybody tell me what is the real truth and is there some special time when we should never do it relevent to gym activities.
P.S.- m a male of 19 and m considered as a bit more then average in aspect of gym capabilities and am going to gym since i was 16 ... so its like 4 years.

I've never really heard of such a thing.

From what I've been told/heard/searched.

Masturbating is good for you.

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does anyone have quotes on friendship or losing friendship???
if so write me back!!
thanks.

drifiting :

Some friendships, no matter how hard you try, never recover the joy they once had. But if you feel pain of regret or remorse when you think about a lost friend and do nothing about it, you'll never know what might have been.




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I think I got a lot of friends but I don’t hear from them. What's another night all alone when you're spending every day on your own?
- Simple Plan -




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But thoughts they change, and times they rearrange; I don't know who you are anymore.




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Some friendships die because they aren't moving forward. They die from stagnation or plain neglect. You promised to call but didn't. You knew it was your friend's birthday, but were too busy to celebrate. When we're busy, we only do what comes easy, and even good friendships aren't always easy. Lack of attention and concern is sure to cause a rift. And when it does, it almost always catches us off guard, when we least expect it or can least handle it: when we're going through stressful times that make us less attentive and less able to respond—which is what caused the neglect to begin with. That's why it can seem that the best friendships break precisely when we need them the most.




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Even with the best intentions, growing apart might just be an inevitable part of growing up. It’s no one’s fault, so there’s nothing to feel guilty about. It’s just the way things are.
- Second Helpings -




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Remembering all our memories, and it’s times like these that I miss you most, remembering when we were so close.




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And I wonder where the friendship went. What about the days and the memories we spent? Now it feels like I’m being replaced. Now it feels like I don’t know you.




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And slowly as the days go by, you lose friends you never thought you would.




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I saw you today and realized how far apart we’ve grown. I know I should talk to you and ask you how you’re doing. And I really wish I could. But it’s just occurred to me that we’re strangers now. You don’t know me anymore, much less want to, and it’s okay that you’ve moved on. I know that everything’s different now. I’ve been staying strong.




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Some say that time changes. Best friends can become strangers.
- Good Charlotte -




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Lately you haven't been a good friend and I'm kinda tired of staying here waiting for my best friend to pick up her phone when I'm crying. It's not what I expected my best friend to be like.




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The biggest mistake you can make is to drift from someone you once had the time of your life with.




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To forget a friend is sad. Not everyone has had a real friend.



Best friends:

Everyone has a 'best friend' during each stage of life, only a precious few have the same one.




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Through the tough times, there's always going to be those people who pretended to to be there for you when it was convenient for them. Then there's those who never left your side in the first place. Through everything they stayed there and made things seem so much better. It's these people you never forget, and it's these people you stay with when they're going through tough times themselves.




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No matter how serious life gets, you still have to have that one person you can be stupid with.




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Best friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway.




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Our lives have taken us in so many directions since we first became friends, and yet our friendship has remained a lasting bond that keeps us from drifting too far apart. We've been there for each other in good times and bad, with support and sympathy, laughter and love. As I think about our friendship, I realize it is one of the things I cherish most about my life, and today, I just wanted to make sure you knew it too.




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There's nothing more valuable than having someone in your life that reminds you of who you are.




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We're going to grow up and things will change, but I’ll tell you one thing, we're going to stay the same.




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There's friends, then there's best friends. There is a difference.




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Our lives have taken us in so many different directions since we first became friends, and yet our friendship has remained a lasting bond that keeps us from drifting too far apart. We've been there for each other in good times and bad, with support and sympathy, laughter and love. As I think about our friendship, I realize it is one of the things I cherish most about my life, and today, I just wanted to be sure you knew it too.




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A best friend shares the good times and help you out by listening during the bad times.




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You know she's your best friend when she openly hates the guy you have a crush on, and when you become boyfriend and girlfriend, she shuts her mouth and smiles nicely at him.




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A true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes the smile on your face.




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We didnt make promises that'd we'd be best friends forever. We didn't really need to - we just knew we'd always have each other.




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Best friends are the ones who have been through what you've been through. They understand where you're coming from and where you're going. It's always a challenge to stick by a friend who's making choices we disagree with and are sometimes even dangerous, but it's at these times that our friends need us most.




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Here's to a summer of late nights that wrote the storyof our friendship, and here's to the bond between us, stronger than anything we've known before.




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We'll grow up, we'll move on but we will always be best friends.




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Because life is an ugly, awful place to not have a best friend.
- Sarah Dessen -




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A best friend is not someone you tell your life to, it's someone who lived through it with you.




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You'll always be my best friend, you know too much.


General:

Every friend you'll ever have will eventually disappoint you. Count on it. That doesn't mean that every offense of a friend requires forgiveness; some slights need only be overlooked and forgotten.




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You have four years to be irresponsible here. Relax. Work is for people with jobs. You’ll never remember class time, but you’ll remember the time you spent hanging out with your friends. So stay up late, go out on a Tuesday when you have a paper due Wednesday. Spend money you don’t have. Drink 'till sunrise. The work never ends, but college does.
- Tom Petty -




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Never forget the people who made you who you are.




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I don't care how much trouble I could get in. I don't care how much people talk about us. I don't mind if everybody ends up talking shit. I don't think I've ever had so much fun in my life.




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My point is, there are a lot of people in the world. No one ever sees everything the same way you do; it just doesn't happen. So when you find one person who gets a couple of things, especially if they're important ones...you might as well hold on to them.
- Sarah Dessen -




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Once in a lifetime you make a friendship that lasts forever.




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Once again, honesty is always the best policy. Even if it seems like being honest will mess everything up, possibly even destroy a perfectly good friendship, it is always the best way to go. In the long run, you won’t regret it.
- Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul on Love & Friendship -




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It's that kind of friendship you can't put into words, but it doesn't matter because you don't need anyone else to understand.




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Don't confuse the people who are always around with the ones who are always there.




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She's learned that things hardly ever work out the way you want them to. She's noticed that there are always people who will let you down, and stab you the second you turn your back. But she's also learned that there are people out there who help make it better. Some people call them friends, but she calls them family.




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Friendship is what gets you through the bad times and helps you enjoy the good times.




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It's funny how many things have changed this year. How many friends I've cycled through, and how many have been there all along.




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As we grow up we don’t lose friends. We just learn who our real ones are.




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Parents start you off on life, but friends get you through it.




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Our roads may split and drift apart but we’ll always remain friends at heart.





I take no credit for these.

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OKay so i got a live pinkie (like one day old mouse) for my snake to eat. Its been a day, and my snake hasn't eaten it. So i really want to save this mouse and help it survive. I don't know what to do... so please help me

Since I myself have no idea, I found this website that might help you a little bit.

http://www.petloversonline.co.uk/mice.htm

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what type of shirt is this?
all i can make out is couture
but its a men's shirt.

I'd love to help, but the link doesn't work.

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Okay, since like ever I've always been the guys best friend. Theres been prettier girls then me, and thats who my friends go for. Most of my friends are guys. I've always been flat chested, like a board and it would sometimes bother me when someone pointed it out, but then i just realised-- Whatever.
Well over the summer I went from like nothing to a C. I don't honestly know how.. but I did. And my Mom also said that I got curves.. [embarrasing..] No one failed to notice the changes over the summer and its weird. because most girls went through this like in the 6th grade, and im going through it in the 8th but now all the 'friends' I have which are guys are diffrent around me. I'm really into sports, and we usto always play football, and Im not good at it but I can run. They catch up with me and Im dead.. and I dont care that they tackle me but some either tackle me to hard and claim I got hurt cuz "She has those huge tits to worry about now." or are way to soft. Yeh Ben actually said that to me and I was like =XX Im not into makeup, or skirts or any of that and they didnt care before... but now I guess there flirting with me. My only girl-friend Becky says that they all are- we can choose our seats this year and Im always at the guys table and they're always poking me, and love to make me scream from some reason. Its all diffrent, and it used to be okay to walk into a room full of guys where I knew they were my friends. But now they look down my shirt, compliment me constantly, which isnt so bad but i cant walk into the room without known There The Oppiset Sex. its weird.
I dont know how to make things go back the the way they were... =[

I hate to say this because I know it isn't the answer you want, but you can't change how your body looks. Try wearing a spots bra, it smashes them, but not by much. Whatever people say, Don't let it make you feel bad. Don't let it make you feel weird, guys like boobs. And you always growing. You don't just grow boobs in sixth grade, you grow until your twenty one, so whoever says rude things about it, needs to stop. And just tell them that.

Hope things work out!

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this swimsuit?

http://www.wearyourbeer.com/corona-extra-thin-halter-tone-gold-bikini-p-894.html

Go back to that website, click add to cart, then above the picture of the swimsuit it will say SHOPPING BAG ; click that then you will ee the swimsuit in a small box, (make sure the size is right.) click checkout. then you have to register, and type your address. (:

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Hi, I am in a school, as a freshman where religion is a big issue with me....because I am seventh DAy adventists, and I got to A catholic school, ( i know, i know, but this fact is besides the point). I am not sure when I need to have service hours completed by, and what extracurricular activites I should take, and how many a year....I know grdaes and SAT scores are very important, but they dont just look at the smart part....please advise me If u know....I really need the advice

You search your college on here:

http://www.collegeboard.com/


and it tells you absoulty everything you need to know.

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what phones do you recommend from verizon?

I have Verizon Wireless, and hate it. If you can switch companies, I would. But that is just my opinon. :X

I have the "old" Choclate, and HATE the touch screen, but what you like and what I like are different. (:

If I had to pick a few phones I'd go with the:

Samsung Glyde�

Motorola MOTO� W755

LG Chocolate® 3

LG VENUS�




Those are my favorite, but it all depends on if you want a flip, slide, or touch, and your price range. Hope you find one that you like. (:

Oh, and here is the website where I was looking, just in case you don't know it.


http://www.verizonwireless.com/b2c/store/controller?item=phoneFirst&action=viewPhoneOverviewByDevice&deviceType=Phones&sortOption=priceSort

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Hi, I am slim and am trying to put on some wait. I am trying to exercise So that I can maintain a tight looking body. Ass, Abs, Thighs...etc. I have been looking into some exercises that workout my abs and butt but what other muschels should I be focusing on. Should I work on my chest, calves etc. I know I should work out all my body but I am more focused on toning the "sexy" parts of a women. Remember i am trying to gain weight so I am trying to stay away from serious cardio. Any suggestions?!?!?! Thank You

I wouldn't know from experience, but since no one is answering I found this.

http://www.wikihow.com/Gain-Muscle-Fast-in-5-Easy-Steps

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Okay, i apologize in advance for vagueness, or for this being a rather..dumb?..question.
Here it goes;
this year i'm participating in this off-campus hands-on school program through MY school for culinary arts that earns you credits for college while giving you actually experience in the kitchen.
i started this past wednesday and there was this guy who caught my eye immediately. but i'm always too shy to talk to guys on my own, so when my friend dragged him into our conversation, i took advantage of it. he seemed genuinely interested in what i was saying and joked around and made really good eye contact a lot and i was trying my best to be semi-flirty by making good eye contact also, and addressing him directly and that. he just totally got me interested in and attracted to him, (he's got the prettiest eyes.) but anyways. come to find out he's being switched into the morning program, so he won't be in my class anymore. i don't even know if he'll still be there on monday, but if he is, i would hate to miss an opportunity with a nice guy.
my question is; would it be creepy, weird, or simply too soon to ask him for contacts, like his cell number or whatever since he's going to be switched out of my class? and if it's not..what are some ways i could do that without it seeming...too forward and creepy..?

i'm 17/f if it matters/helps, :] thanks so much.

This isn't a weird question. (:

It isn't creppy or weird to ask for his number at all! Just simply ask, hey wanna trade numbers? Or do you have texting? Simple enoughh. (:

Good luck !

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Okay so it is friday today, and my boyfriends birthday is next friday. I am leaving for a trip that weekend and i still have to get him something. we have been dating for a year and 4 months on the 22. (today is the 5th) so,. any ideas????

He is 19 years old.. uhm.. so yeah.. i really need your help!!
Thank you so much everyone i apprechiate it ooober much!

Something you make yourself is always better.

I know tons of people who make a scrapbook from love quotes, and pictures with each other.

I've seen an I love you frame, from any type of design store, cheap and cute.

Any type of thing he has talked about recently, you could buy.

You can personalize cups and t-shirts, that are very cute.

Hope I gave some good ideas. (:

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My math text book is sooo gross! Need something to cover that nasty thing up. What are the price ranges?

You can make your own for free from a brown paper bag, it's easy to do.

http://specialchildren.about.com/od/schoolissues/ht/bookcover.htm


Or Walgreens or Walmart sells Jumbo book covers for like, three dollars.

But there isn't a way to hide the pages, incase I mis-understood your question.

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I'm 14 & a sophmore
so there's this guy I've liked since freshmen year
but he's really concieded obnoxious & loud around every one
but wen we r alone he really nice & a genuine charmer
idk if I should tell him cus idk itd b kinda weird rite

It isn't weird.


Maybe he just wants attention from more then one person in your class (:

try talking to him more, and flirting always works.

Best of luck.

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I live with my grandparents and my pap really wants me to stay in majorettes(baton twirling) he won't let me quit. i know some parents get this way because they want to cheer for you but he never cheered and he had never gone to more than 2 games. my grandma is with me about quitting but he is hardheaded and you can't get through to me. i talked to him, try to look at his prospective and all i got was him being hardheaded and unreasonable also his only reason for wanting me in it is "i don't raise quitter." and that's not true his kids quite everything and i quite a few things myself so... what do i do how do i quit with honor?? And i honestly can say i have said everything and done everything plus i get nothing out of it anyway so HELP!

If you want to quit what you do, and your mature enough to make the choice, quit.

If you don't enjoy it, don't do it.

Your dad doesn't understand baton twirling anyways, and you AREN'T giving up.

Listen to your heart about what you want to do, not your dad. Your dad doesn't have to live with the choice you made. Just tell the coach you quit, then tell your dad. If that is really want you want to do.

Hope everything turns out right. (:

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When i wake up in the morning, my face is always so swollen. You can tell in my nose more than anything else. i hate it! i just want to wake up and look normal, but i wake up looking like i just got punched in the face or something. I think it might be because of allergies or sinuses or something. but what can i do to wake up without all of this swelling? I am so sick of it.
Thanks.

Talk to your doctor about a prescription.

Claritin, Allegra or Zytec.

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