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I'm Christina 25 years old I give very good advice when it becomes to being questions about being married,babys,pregnancy,abuse,career,adhd,depression,life,ect

Ive been through a lot in my life 14 years of counseling and sex therapy my life wasn't always perfect i was adopted by my grandmother as a child didn't find out til i was older my mother was living with us and she got away with things when i had my daughter at 20 I had no choice but give her to a family my mother was abusive to me yelling at me i was taking care of my grandmother but i was living at home i was engaged to be married but every thing didn't turn out right the man i loved lied to me so I had to change and not be life my family be mature move on and get away some family can be controlling that it can ruin your life that the best thing you can do get out get counseling I I graduated high school in 2003 and then i went to art school at art instruction school and dress making design i became a plus size model help from a friend I might have not had help in some ways of life but friends were the best in my life i looked at their life and that what i wanted my grandmother was just getting old when i reach a certain age my mother did drugs that one resin I left my sister were the same I wanted to to be their they wanted me to be like them well i did not want to be white trash so i toke some lady classes to be classy,graceful,independent this made me more of a women of my image and people like you when you have good manners good taste and can carry a conversation and can get along if you want to change you can god is one of the people that help me through every thing I might have had to give up on things but some times you have to make them better you might end up with nothing but along the way you get the things you need but things do not come free in life and you just cant sit their let in come to you. you have to get out and do it your self or you will not live the dream. god gave us all a talent live it do it become it never give up . my mother killed her self and overdosed on pill i was their and my grandmothers deathbed at least I seen her before it was time for her to go she was a good women she gave me good advice she and her husband owned a bar my grandmother was married twice but her first husband died then she was widowed and was poor then a man came in her life she lost her son at his age 13 my grandfather past away also but my grandmother was hard working women she would get work done if you didn't she could do any thing Im like her she didn't go to art school her dad wanted her to. but she got married instead well i did the art thing for her i got it from her her teaching me and showing me as a child as i will always love her never give up the people that showed you life and love its the main key to life I grew up having adhd still l have it to this day dosn't mean your dume it mean you got talent and you always have ideas running throw your head walt disney,the guy who mad charlie brown all had adhd woppie goldberg,mary kate and ashley,ect no ones is alone in some we we are the same but we all different image is nothing never compare you self to ant one be your self be healthy exercise eat healthy and you'll be happy thank you for reading this have a good day. my webpages myspace/ANNAIKA my email chrissibug@yahool.com

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i am an 18 year old girl who has always had issues with confidence and self esteem. ever since i was a little kid all i did was draw. i guess the only thing ive always consistently done and been good at it is art. and now im going to school in new york for design. ive moved from los angeles to chicago, so this new city doesnt really scare me, but i feel like now that im anticipating these changes i should try and tackle the real issues about my personality.

im really easily manipulated by people in countless different ways. they always come over to my house because i let them even if i dont want to. they hustle me for money and drugs. (i do the same drugs). these people are my friends, and all of us do the same things to each other, but i feel like everyone takes advantage of my niceness and no one listens to me or takes me seriously. i feel like i have a lot to offer to people (and guys), but no on ever takes the time to see it.

ive been told that my independence scares guys and people in general. i get told i dress well and that i'm pretty, but no one even looks at me. i feel invisible most of the time. and awkward. there are some guys i would love to get to know better but dont know what moves to make without being too forceful. note, i am so terrified of rejection because all through elementary school people just called me ugly and a freak.

i need to learn to hustle hard and find my way. someone please help me use people to my advantage, and find another half.

stay away from people that do bad things find new friends if your good at art go in at fares in your town sell your art go to meetup.com dont let people walk all over you always think postive nerver negative ok do somthing for your self get your nails done your hair done no ones perfect never compare your self to others it makes you feel week say im pretty im going to have a good day ok hope this helps

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My best friend had an abortion almost 2 months ago now and it's really hitting her hard. She dreams about the lost baby all the time, and everywhere she goes it reminds her of what she lost and "the life she took." I'm scared she may do something drastic because she continues to talk about suicide. How can I help her get through this, learn her lesson, and move forward? I've suggested a therapist but she doesn't want to go to see anyone like that--she says she feels that she can't trust them.

Like I said, she's talking about suicide and I'm really worried about it. She's always crying and talking about how she "murdered" her baby. I've never had an abortion (never will) so it's hard for me to relate, I guess. I just need some help so I can help her...that's all.

I went through the same thing I did this a frw years back because ex of mine was so mean that he was controling me but thiers ways to help going to counsiling and trying to move on not try to think of bad things and bring god in your life can help to. some times it not people falt we all are sinners we get a second chance on life abortion takes all every thing out of your life you think your worthless and you think you wish the baby was stil lher i use to cry but i wasnt my falt i was forced and told if i didnt i get killed or they take it way no one can tell you what to do it the girls body not the mans she need to get out thier get a hobbie get her nails down go back to school we all make mastakes just dont let it be another second time if a girl has a baby thier family that want babys they pay them to to live with them till they have the baby so no one will bother see you gota think what best for you and a baby moving on is the best go to college learn somthing new start dating dont rush your life wait tell your ready when you find a guy learn to get to no him take time 2 years mabe youll get married then you can say im pregant that when your happy and not sad so look in the mirror and say im good person and i need to move dont let people walk all over me i pretty i can do this think postative not compare your self to other be you

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I'm 17 years old currently going into my Senior year in High School. I come from a low income family and I was thinking of joining the army for college scholarships. I love math and science, especially chemistry. I'm scared for student loans and was planning on going on the path to becoming a doctor because I love helping people, but the cost of medical school is too costly. I don't like English much, but reading is fun when it has to do with learning anything I'm focused on. I'm really considering the Air Force or Army at this point due to our economic crisis right now. Please any tips or sources of scholarships will help. Thank you all.

PS: My classes next year will be English 4, Economy/Government, Calculus AB, Physics, French 3, and probably ROTC.

I usually maintain the 3.4-4.0 GPA.

some girls model to get money for college or even strip or make thier own websites to show of thier bodys on ebay and sell pictures im not saying its bad but this how I got my life you dont have to do for the rest of your life dosnt matter models come in every size trust me people make alot doing you just have to look in to it. the army is a big thing and might be risky i alomst did but thier is more to life surving for this country to waste on that my dear you can do better ok.

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What are some ballet and jazz dance dvds where you can teach yourself moves like:

double pirouettes
Standard fouette turns
Toe Touch/Russian
Grand Jete
Switch leap

Stuff like that, were it's step by step?
I want to continue training but I don't have the money for classes right now.

Thank You

you can bye them at book stores at borber for cheap you seem them by the casheres and every were hope this helps

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So I've decided to take extra good care of my body, which includes eating healthy foods, remembering to take my dietary supplements, deep conditioning my hair, and flossing after lunch and dinner, and excercising. But also this includes taking care of my intimates. This is a subject I've never talked about with my mother, and I recently learned that washing the area with just plain water is not enough, you should use a mild soap on the external area. Well, I have been using a body wash, but I don't think it's meant to be used on the vaginal area. I have heard of Summer's Eve Feminine Wash, and that it is made especially for the area and doesn't irritate or upset the pH. Is this product a douche or a soap (internal or external)? Is it safe to use? What are some other ways I can keep the area clean, healthy and fresh?

Oh, and I do know about the yogurt trick (applying sugar free, fruit free, live culture yogurt internally to your vaginal canal to add more good bacteria to help clean it from the inside out and keep it healthy). I also know about the pineapple trick (eating it will make you taste better). Are there any more tips like this?

Oh and it is probably important to note that I do have a funky smell and sometimes a funky discharge (which doesn't depend on the time of month). However I am very sure I don't have an infection because I've had this ever since I hit puberty and I have never had any discomfort, itching, burning, or oddcolored discharge ever. I do swim, however, and I'm pretty sure that its the chlorine that threw my pH out of balance killing off the good bacteria, which is why I'm starting the yogurt treatment as soon as I buy some.

just use soups with with no perfume in them

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so say im spotting or w.e it is right now and i want to take a prego test would it not work....? and im wondering ive started the pill a month ago and i have been getting realllly irreuglar periods lke ive got it no like every week three days very light then not at all for five days then at the end of the week i did light again and now i got it again and itslike kinda heavier and its been like two days now its lil thou so... whats that?

just go to a health deparment and no one has to no ok or go to planned parenthood if you are pregant you have a lot to think about its your body you can give the baby to a family keep it or abort it it up to you it your life but if you want a future its going to be hard with a baby because its alot to hadle hope this helps ok.

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So, I want my breasts to be bigger, without implants. Can I get Fat from my thighs but into my breast? I know they take fat from your butt for your lips
so would this work? and how dangerous is it?

well thier ways to have bigger by exersizing to make them firm amd having babys make them bigger

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so me and a guy that i really like are "just friends." he lives 3 hours away and came down to see me last weekend. it was really great hanging out with him. we stayed up all night kissing, cuddling, and talking. i thought that we were "talking" but he let me know very clearly that we're just friends. i really don't understand. he says he wants to be with me but the distance makes it hard and he will miss me too much and that i'm the only girl he wants to be with but i don't get why he changed his mind so fast. two days ago he was fine with us going to date and now he's completely changed. i want to be with him and i don't want him to be a friend with benefits. he says that we wants us to be closer before we date because then a relationship will work and be better. he acts like my boyfriend now and i'm really confused. any advice?

well some guys do that cause they dont want to settle down they want girls to come and go or mabe is a nice guy

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what do nudists do when they get their period?

they probly just use a tampon

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19/f
I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, borderline personality disorder, insomnia, ADD, and severe depression. I am on four different medicines right now. Trileptal for bipolar disorder.
Trazodone for depression and insomnia.
Lamictal for bipolar, and Adderal for ADD. I have been a self medicating pot smoker for 8 years now and it has worked pretty well. Weed calmed me down when i had spouts of anger,made me happier,and more hopeful for my future. but weed also made me feel less dedicated to those around me and more like a different person. I am a lot less social and I used to be miss social. I started adding these four meds about a year ago and Within the past 7 months or so I have started noticing significant changes. I am slowly becoming stupid. My brain is slow and I cant grasp even simple things. My ADD has worsened and I cannot remember anything whatsoever. I never eat much anymore and my body just rejects food. I have also become much more irritable. I get headaches all the time and I'm constantly weak. Because of this I failed all my courses in college and have been suspended. I have never had this problem before. I am a smart girl and have always loved school. Although these meds have multiple side effects, they seem to help with the suicidal tendencies and mood swings. My question is along the lines of should I quit meds and smoke or should I stay on the meds and only smoke occasionally?

i have add my self and use yo have insomia witch made me worry about every thing and i still suffer from depession well i think i might know because my therpist is doctor to she has put me on concerta but to help you to boost things and get things done some times they have to higher the dos of your meds to help you to be social concerta HAS HELPED me alot the lower dos didnt help but im more out and about and i take lexapro for my deppression lexaprp dosnt make people moody conterca makes me happy i have to take 54 mil grams for concerta and lexapro 20 mil grams put i have to take half in the morning and in the atfer noon you really dont need 4 meds because bipolar i understand can be stressful the mds i tae they hafe said help people with the same thing you are just diffrnet dont smoke the weed its just going to make your brain less work meds can help like i take talk to your doc about getting on tow like mine higher the dos and you gotta wake up ealeir be happy you gotta wake up and say in the mirror im a great persion im goingto get out thier but you got to help your self to that the only wat do things you like to do get your nails down if your happy with your self the stress will stop and help you get out and not be shy it will help you also to stop thinking bad thoughts they say that new abilfy is allso a second meds if you anti deppesent isnt working enough so ask you doctor ok hope this helps

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my question?

well, okay, lets see. theres this guy i met a while ago online, i've seen him on webcam, heard his voice, everything. he lives an hour away.
im in love with him.
and he's in love with me.
i've been waiting for him to come visit, but a few days ago i met a really interesting guy.. he's not exactly all in looks, but even after only a few days, i really really like him. he's nice, sweet, caring, and a really good kisser (we got drunk and had a makeout session)
he says he really likes me too.

im talking to the online guy right now, and im telling him i do love him but i dont know if i can wait for him.
the other guy doesnt know about the online guy.

i have no idea what i should do.

dont try it ok i just got my heart brocken by the guy i meet on line som work some dont ok

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hello, i'm 19/f and i weight about 145. my friend is also 19/f and she is about the same height as me (5'6") and weighs around 108. i've been exercising everyday for two hours and even been taking ephedrine pills and i have not lost weight at all. i've also been doing crunches and i've seen no results. however, my friend has been also working out less than i have and she's already got a 4 pack! (it's only been a few weeks). i'm just wondering why i can't seem to lose weight and it's so easy for her to get a 4 pack so soon. thanks in advance.

you you walk a mile or do 5 34 minon a trad mill it can help but try eating light foods like fish chicken and turkey stay a way from pop eat fruit and veggies no candy or sugery thing it will make you gain more by doing a hundred sit ups 3 times a week and running for 34 mines 3 times a week it helps if you run 5 miles you lose 500 calores you 3 miles 300 calories you got do it slow and stretch before exersing ok dring lots of water stay way from greasy foors and fried foods try grilled try eating oat mea l no this stuff my boyfriend the chef im the model hope this helps

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Heyy, this isnt a really serious question or anything. Lets start off by saying that im 15 and in my junior year I wanna become treasurer of student counsel so that senior year i could be president.
So here are my questions:
1. How could I meet more people?
2. Whats a catchy phrase? ( my name is jessica btw)
3.How could I get people to vote for me?

Thankssss in advance (:


you want to be school treasurer and the school president this means you need to get more invold with school activtys and try to learn to give speeches and make posters this means you have to work hard and have friend help you, for one you might need to change your self to helf your cofedence and be a leader to be a leader start asking people question and make a list and print them out and hand them to the hole school as what would you like to change and what would be good for the school. this mean you need to change your manners being coming a lady learn to walk in heels wear stylish clothes you can read this on y blog about being a lady and being classy and independent. you need to get out thier people love to see new things make fund raisers make brownys sell them at basketball games ask the school first at every event do what you can to make a diffrents people love this make buttens with your name and face on it give out goddies if they vote for you. dont be snobie ether. go get your nails done get a tan I no this is not being mean im not changeing you this is not for the mean time like when you see people out thier in the world you have to do your best and people are going to look up to you so you need to be a good role model go shoping at debs in the mall or what ever get some outfits or somthing to bleld in to your sorces be your self one girl i no made a angel halo and wings and wore then to her speech this is some fun and being funny peoe love laughter so think of way to inpreces like a eatting contest or a game night at the school or somthing be fun alsays ask friend for ideas make your self a think like miss america would were put on thier your name vote for jessica the girl with a plan trust me i no this my friend works for the pto and my self had career in my life were i have to do thing hope this works ok

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16/f
ok well where do i start. i really think theres something wrong with me. that i am not noticing as much as others.

well heres the thing. my ex knows me better than i know myself and helps me realize so much about myself.

we were talking last nite and he was telling me to ignore people that get on my nerves. well i said, u know me, i cant ignore things. and he said "not being able to ignore things is a blind version of sumbody not knowing themselves, meaning no one does." and i totally agreed.

i DONT know myself. at all. and its really becoming a problem. thats part of the reason we broke up, because he thought that i was changing for him and for everyone else. which is true. but i cant stop doing it. i dont know who i am so i try to act like other people.

he also said, " i love you, but you act so different around so many people i find myself going who is she really? i was unsure of the girl i fell for." and i do it unconsciously sometimes and i no that i change for everyone. its like im trying to make everyone happy and impress them. as in im a different person to all of my friends. like when i met my best friend i started dressing just like her. (shes black) and i totally changed my style and started talking differently and acting like i didnt care about anything kind of like her. i am a really caring person but when i talk to her im just like yeah who gives a fuck, whatever, who cares. and i like the type of person she is so its not like im unhappy being like this because all this changing just kind of comes natural to me because i like impressing people so much. but it happens all the time, ive changed to be like different people many times.

i went through the jock, skater, hippie, and many more phases. im currently stuck in the "gangster" phase. maybe because my best friend and ex are black.

i dont know. but the thing is, i want to be friends with EVERYONE so i act like how i think the person would want me to act. i am part of every different cliche and i act different in every one of them. with the gangsters, i talk like im black, i wear ghetto clothes, and act like i dont give a fuck about anything. with the stoners i wear my bob marley stuff, talk really slow, and act chill with everything. with the popular people i always crack jokes, wear abercrombie, am really caring and act a little bitchy at times. i change like every month, but i still keep all my old friends, i just gain alot of new ones too but i dont think they like me for the real me, even though i dont even know who that is.

and believe me ive become amazing at this changing and i am friends with everyone in the school because im so good at doing this. but i need to stop. its ridiculous and i feel like im being fake. its become a habit and almost like a game. ive become friends with girls that my ex once dated, just so i could keep tabs on him. ive become friends with girls so they will hook me up with guys. ive become friends with guys to make girls jealous. i havnt become friends with half my friends just because i like them as a person. but i want everyone to like me and i love being so popular. i dont know what to do. like my ex said, if i dont know the real me, no one does. please helppp

you need to be your self you do no your self what stuff do you like to do what music do you like to listen to who do you have a crush on what one of your main goals in life what are one of your talents these are question to find out who you are if you wake up you have a name you parents gave it to you your parents brought you up as a baby they no you more then any one. but if you act like other you will forget your self. you are dont you want to be you yes thier are cliches in high school but yes its ok to be what you want but do it in your own way see this why you have lost your soul in your self.If your good at making people smile and laugh when you give jokes. don't conpare your self to others because every ones diffrent when you do you get stressed out and worry if i act like her will I get this in life trust me we all want to be somthing but do it the right way. you need to learn to love your self and be cofedent in your self then you will be happy with the people around you then your way been will change.and try learing manners and how to be a lady this has helped women face thier problem wth life with friends.school,career ect I have did this because of my career it was requrired. never let people walk all over you and you dont need to do somthing just because that person said you had to if it hurts you dont remeber school is about learning because ones your last year of high school every one changed the stoners and the loser pretty much make somthing of the thier self then the prepies my self was not hat popular but I still tryed but I just keep my head high didnt let any thing get in my way so it would not bother me after I got of school I went to art school became a model and a web designer because I didnt worry about what the hell people were thinking me I was thinking about my future if people cant understand you then they are not real people the main key in life never give up and when some one gives you advice take it. if you listen to people they wil listen to you its showing people respect and its not good to be bitchy this a sign no ones what to be around so you ned to work on this as you get oler men dont like bitchy women they will leave they dont put up with crap. just get invold with school activaty this wil help like drama school decarating ok hope this helps you ok.

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so after a 10month relationship saterday night i got dumped. its hard to say it was expected but i dont really know. my mother found out we were having sex or thought we were and decited that i was going to stay inside till i turned 21 im 17 about to be 18. im not going to say i lost her trust because i dont think i ever had it. if i ever asked her if i could go out and lets say it was 8pm she would say its too late. i would always have to leav around 7 or 6. and than i would have to come home at 11pm than she would be mad because most of the time we never went to parties or clubs... im like because i have to leave when its getting good...so whats the point of paying to go if im leave befor the show starts. so yeah i was stuck at home for a little more than a month. when i asked her if i could go out friday she said not till i was 21 and than i was really mad and we got into an argument.. than she said she wanted to talk to him. i said fine ill tell him to come over. than she changed her mind and said no because my dad was home and she didnt want him to find out. so i was like than what do yu want.. after a wile she came and said we were going to his house. i said no because my mom takes things way out of line and she wouldnt be able to control herself and would have made a really big deal. saterday when we called me he said i would be better if we brake up because there were too many problems. with my mom and work. that he was comeing out of work late like at 8 and my mom always bitched about that. and even if we did talk to her she might not give in for that. during the hole brake up explaination he cept telling me he loved me... and taht we should just wait.. till things got better. he wanted to know what i thought but i couldnt think strate. i was crying so hard.. that he told me to call him back when i calmed down. when i did i told him i didnt want to beg him but i didnt want to not be with him. but that i wanted him to talk to her that if it didnt help anything that ok we would just leave it at that. he said fine and taht he was going to call me tomorrow (sunday) he said he loved me i said i love you too than kiss me throgh the phone 3x sunday i wasnt home. (phone taken away other story)and since we all have our cells we just have a line nothing else i *69 to see who was the last person to call he said he would call around 8... but the last call was around 6 and it wasnt his number... i *67 his but it was turnd off like not even the voice mail came on... i dont know what to do...

when you turn 18 your at the legal age to leave mocw out and date people if she dosnt let you be a women how will you learn to date men or try to at least have a life hello she might be being a control freak but your not 16 you might live with her but you can come and gos as you please if she called the coped and you wernt home thier nothing she can do.I know she your mother but thier a time in a girls life were girl turn to women they find a man date him get to no him mabee even get married it sayes in the bible when a man a a women reaches a time in thier life they leave thier family to find some one to be come one I no some people dont understand life I mean didnt your mom date men she did she had you she might have a problem with o is my daughter going to get pregnet show that you are a grown up get on birthcontol so if you are sexual nothing wil lhappen so you wont get pregant moms can be so crazy about some tihings tell her i have a life to i have pms i grew boobs I turned in to a women you can trap me for ever mom dont you see I no you care but I dont want to get pregant i want to be safe all I want to do is date guys and do it a safe way im not ready to just seetle down im still learning life but if i dont date how will i ever learn to get out thier tell her I will always love you and i will tell you were i go as i live in your house but when i turn 18 you can be so harsh on me I feel like a dog in a cage I no girl have got pregant made mastakes and did drugs and drink i choice not to be like that i want to get a career mabee go to college but i still have the right to date this my body you dont own me any more and some day i might move out and have my life bt right now i need freedom to im not tired to your waste if i dont learn ill be living her till im 40 so i need to learn in a good way thing look around im not a baby any more i grow up hope this help ok bye now

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My legs have little red spots, where it doesnt look like my legs have been shaved! You can tell where the hair comes in, is there any product i can rub over before or after or whenever to lighten these spots or remove them? (they may be the pores)

thanks

i had soming like that a long time ago and i had to find out what to do you should use a shower gel that has miro beads in it so it can it in the skin the red things are extra skins that dry skin so so got get in to the skin with stuff like micro bead loction that have bead in them they cleari t out and its good to get a peducare for the legd at the salon this help they srub your legs with stuff and they get the hair out to if nothing else works its just take more matanice for the skin hair can grow over the red spots but it can be taken caren of by these things and also use baby oil on your legs it will help them to stay smooth and help it from geting dry and when you shave use a showe gel like soft soft you can use it as a shaving gel to its got beads in it its got ponagranite it has helped my skin when summer comes you gotta show of those legs and skin get dry but when you get out the shower put loction on the legs to keep the dry out to yes its a lot to do but you will see result and use lol warm water ok it help so your skin dosnt get to dry ok hope this helps bye now

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14/f

okay heres the point. i want out of my house. its not that i dont want to live with my parents, its the fact that i cant take the stress of living with them anymore. they do a lot of things that bother me. and its making me want to hurt myself. i know your going to say talk to them. work things out. but everytime i try to talk to my parents and work things out they dont want to agree on any solution that works for all of us. a few weeks ago it got to the point were i overdosed on some medicine and was in the hospital for a couple days. and today i came so close to cutting myself because i cant take this anymore. they are supposed to be setting up councling for me but still have yet to do that. i cant take it anymore. and every single day i cry because i cant take the stress of living here anymore. :(
so does anyone know anyways i can get out of my house. maybe go live with a realitive or friend.
please please do NOT try and tell me to work things out with my parents. ive tried it. it did NOT work. and please dont tell me to wait it out. ive waited to long and i cant take it. please please please anyone help.
please and thank you.
-cuttechick24

its looks like you are taking things on worrying alot this a a mentel ilness because if your over dosing and trying to cut your self being in a a place like a half way house or somthing or mentel hospital uutil you cool down because its meens your citafrinic and you need help if you are doing these thing because ones you start talkin to a counsler your parents have the power to put you in a clinc and if you tell your counsler whatyour doing to your self they will put you in one im not scaring you i just no you need to change you need to ask for meds that are going to help you from worring and mabe you do need to live with friends you gotta works these to help you or the whole world going to take control ok hope this helps ok.

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okay my mom has cancer and im scared that i might lose her any day . I love my mother alot i dont want to be alone . All that will be left is my sister and me but my sisters going with her dad and im all alone because i dont have NO contact with my real father . I dont want to leave alone im only 15 and im only 1 month pregno . My ex boyfriend said i can leave with him . But he has a girlfriend I dont want it to be weird because what if a boy wants to come over with me ? Im super confused because i wanted to have this big family but it just gets smaller and smaller each day. What should i do ?.

you just need to have faith and pray andthat is sad. stay with your mom she need you when somw one is ill or in trouble they would be thier for you never let go or leave them you nevr no what could and you are 15 and you are goin to have a baby you have a lot to think about your life ahead of you. your education this baby your mom ect you are young and you are alone it take alot to raise ababy i no i was twenty i was to be married but i wasnt ready so i got a open adoption this means you get to see the child. see my dear im not blame you at all thier just alot goin in your life and you gotta think about what good for that baby and you and your mom i know you dont want to see somthing happen bad but what if somthing did hapeen what ould you do its hard for you to get a job at your age but you can go to altertive school they will help you and they have daycare you need alot of friends around you try getting invold in a church god can help and peol will pray for her do the best you can you mom needs jo and love and so do you but a child needs a father and a mother in thier life i mnow my mother past away 2 years ago of and offer does its hard my grandmother died to but mabe this baby is a good thing but you do need to do somthing with your life and fast because you got a baby coming ok hope this helps and i hoe the best for you and your mom and your baby bye now.

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I'm 19, Ok so this is really making me extremly mad like beyond belive... my moms and step dad decided to move to kentucky and now they are doing really bad... she works everyday and off and on weekends to support her him and there 2 yearold daughter... he's not making any effort on any part to get a job... I'm about to snap on him seriously she 43 years old she doesn't need to be the only one making money and with econmy sucking already him not making an effort to get a job isn't helping them at all... and on top of buying everything she need for the 2 year old she is paying all the bills and her car and he thinks he can tell everyone what to do and she buying him his beer and carton of cigs when he needs it I think this is absuluty rediculous I really need help... I kinda talked to my moms about it but she's not doing anything about it... he keeps using their 2 year old as his cruch saying "well I need to watch her and blah blah blah blah" its really getting out of hand and he said he knows where places are hiring for job he just doesn't wanna waste the gas in my moms car (like she ever gets to drive anyways) please some1 help before I do something really stupid!!!!!!

well our a smart girl for caring about your mom. and yes if she the the one doing every thing then he should be the homemaker if he cant work and really your mom should be the boss. yes if some ones staying home its thier job to take care of the house and food ect. if he cant talk to your mother and mabe its not good for to two year old to see him drink ether hope tihs helps bye now.

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Hi, my name is Dee. I'm a fourteen year old girl and I really like this guy. I just figured out I liked him a couple of months ago. His family is close with my family and I've always kind of thought of him as "annoying", and hes thought of me as "annoying" until now. Let me explain the whole "annoying" thing. We've always fooled around with each other playfully like he'd call me a spaz and I call him emo. It's sort of like we hate each other but we don't. Its' really immature, I know that, but I think we might have something. He's really sweet, he's close with his family, and over all he's a gentleman. I'm really afraid to tell him how I feel because he currently has a girlfriend and I'll never be able to totally avoid him if rejection happens. What do I do?

just become more of a friend for him and down the road you might just spark and hock up friends in tome become lovers but if he is mature but in time he will grow up but if you have fooled around that a good thing that being his best friend becaus he will come to you when his girl is ingoreing him or she did somthin bad just be his close friend ask him to do things like to a movie ask him what h likes get to know him and this how its all works out hope this help ok thank you bye.

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