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in my earth system science class, were studying volcanoes, and well i need some info about volcanoes that erupted in California, if anybody can please help me, id appreceate it if you can give me a really good website or something...im mainly looking for a timeline right now, but anything will do!...I WILL RATE!!...thanx!! (link)
well go 2 google or yahoo n put in wut u need!


i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:

1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?! (link)
1.use protection
2.if its his 1st time 2 i dont think he'll no realli wut 2 do so dont b nervous its new 4 both of u
3.tell him so he'll no and take a shower b4 and clean urself well!
hope i helped!


This is kind of wierd and I don't mean to be all snooty when I say it...

I love to go shopping, I love going to get my toenails done, I love going out to eat at fancy restaurants. But the thing is, my friends hate doing that kind of stuff. I would be like "Lets go get our toes done!" and they would be like "lol, No, thats stupid". I DO admit it. I'm the stereotypical 'Californian' girl who...spends money and goes to the beach and stuff. But is that bad? My friends never like doing that stuff... and I feel stupid. Its not like they don't have the money. We all have the money to do that stuff, they just think its stupid. What should I do? It seems like I'm the only "preppy" girl at school and I don't fit in with anyone. Yet I've lived in my town for 16 years...so its not like I just moved here and don't fit in. I'm just different. Is there anything I can do to convince my friends? How should I handle it? Because it kind of sucks... and I listen to like, Ashlee Simpson, Hilary Duff, and everyone hates those people... I feel so out of the loop, and yet I don't want to be in the loop...I want people to come to my loop.... (link)
b who u are u shoudlnt have 2 chnage urslef @ all 4 ppl 2 like u i like hilary duff n my firneds dont they think shes stupid n crap btu hey i liek her n my n my firneds dont liek doin sum stuff 2gether btu we have otehr things in common im sure tehres usmthin u ahve in common w. ppl juss b who u are n if ppl dont liek u 4 who u r then screm them! haha hope i helped


sry if its long but i really need help..

Ok..heres my problem..my mom or dad dont trust me..they wont let me go out..they think im always lien where i am when i do go out..they have no trust twords me wut so ever..like yesterday i wnt to chill with my friends and i told my mom i was going to the day b4 that..but then she calles me up and seys u better get home now..im like well ill b home soon..so i came home and she was like ur grounded 4 goin out with out telling me..then i was like yeah well i told u so i wnt in the kitchen and sed that i was hungry my dad came screaming in the kitchen saying that i better eat and he through me on the table and slapped me..then i ran up stairs..i mean wut is rong with my parents..and they always treat me like shit..and my mom always treats my nephew better and when ever he does some thing rong i get blamed..i just dont know what to do ne more..

plz help me..

ps..me and my parents fite all the time.. (link)
wow im sry tehy treat u like taht..did u possibly do sumthn worng (b4 majorly) that made them lose alot fo trust 4 u?!? also if ur an only child maby tehy juss wanna b vvveeerrryy careful bcus ur there only child so yea talk 2 them bout n if it doenst hcnage than talk 2 a counselour hope i helped!


ok, i love this guy "John", but we currently arent together. but yet i still love him. and a freind of mine is trying to get me back together with one of my ex's "David". i mean, i like David, and would love to date him again, but i would feel ba cuz i cant give him my whole heart like i did last time, cuz i am in love with John. so i dont know what to do, me and David are still really close and are soooo alike, and i guess his friend picked up on it, and i dont know what to do, cuz, if i wait around for john, and thigns dont work, i could miss out on David, and vice versa. so someone please help me!!!! (link)
does john luv u?!?


Does anybody know a website that has really good lyrics?
Thanx!
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azlyrics.com lyrics on demand tehre is so many juss go 2 like google or yahoo n put in lyrics and than it'll give u alot! hope i helped


ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
nuttins wrong w. u its supposed 2 hurt teh 1st few times ur body is gettin stretched down there so yea its goin 2 hurt dont worry urself botu ti 2 much


how do you get rid of dead skin on your face?! I've tried everything, exfoliators, expesnive lotions..etc etc...and nothing seems to be working. I was just wondering if there was any home remedy or something that would make my skin smooth and flakey free? Thank you. (link)
just use a lotion that moiturizes ur skin eucerin is good it works 4 me when my skin gets dried out from the chlorine in the pool (im on a siwm team) hope i helped!


im 13 and im scared to wear a tampon what should i do...Im getting self concious
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dont b self concious how cna u b self concious over a tampon dont go w. pear pressure if ur nto readi 2 wear 1...i onyl wear 1 for siwmmin n my sister who is 17 still wont wear 1 tehres many risks 2 use it so if ur not comfortable w. wearin 1 than dont wear it easy as taht! hope i helped!


okay i have this friend named gerri and well she has this bf named paul!! okay so my friends and i we go to skool together and we drive in a car!! so anyway my friend gerri calls paul in the morning on the cell phone in front of us!! and we're like that's rude so she is like turn down the radio and i tell the driver don't turn it down cuz it's wicked rude she is talking on the phone in the first place!! well yesterday she ((gerri)) was on her cell phone in the caferteria at lunch with the rest of us sittin' there!! i told her to get off but she won't!! and i gave her the dirtiest looks but she didn't get off her damn phone!! how can i tell her to stop using her damn phone to talk to her bf infront of us and how can i tell her to stop talkin about him because she is liked obssessed with him?? (link)
teh world doenst revolve round u! if shes on hte fone wl he rbf than let her b on teh fone and as a firned ur supposed 2 support her!


this guy and i have been liking eachother for over a year and things are starting to happen. he has slept with 6 girls ao i guess he might be considered a "whore" im a virgin and he knows that and he told me that he liked me enough not to have sex with me. the thing is that i want to have sex with him. i think im ready and i trust him completely. i just dont know if im too young or if i might regret it so i kind of need some help. by the way im 16 if that helps at all.. (link)
u r stupid if u spread ur legs 2 this guy who it seems liek all he wanst is SEX SEX SEX how can u go 4 that line come on now think bout it had sex w. 6 otehr grls but "likes u enuff 2 have sex w. u" plz all he wants is taht booty!and obviously u dotn no teh menain of "trust" if u think thats trust..well i hope i help!


I think my best friend might be in an abusive relationship. Sorry if this is long, but I really need some advice... Its really important

Last year around this time, my friend met a guy. She had been in other realtionshops before, but this one was "different". She actually told me she loved him, and she lost her virginity to him also. They spent absolutley every minute together, and he would go with us everywhere...even when the girls went out for my birthday...he HAD to come. He showed up, on my birthday, at my house, with a rose. I thought you know, how nice of him...to bring me a rose in my birthday. But he gave me a dirty look, and told me "no, its for meg". He's not really social, and honestly, doesn't have any friends. All winter was like this. total obsession, sickening. So around the beginning of june, me and the girls took her out...and we got a little drunk. She kissed a guy, but only a peck. She felt guilty and immedatley told "him", who in return, flipped out completley. Dispite my harsh feelings for this guy, me and my friend would talk to him online and treat him as if he were our friends, even if it meant telling him how meg was decieving him...because, after all, she was cheating on him. So during the summer, she had a party. They had broken up for the summer, of course another meg thing to do, break it off so she could do whatever she wanted all summer. This night, though, was different. She was still telling him she loved him, and that they would get togheter, and the night before, they went to a concert togheter and he claimed it was the greatest day they had shared. Meg threw a party at her house, and her old boyfriend showed up. Jon found out and walked 2 miles to her house, knocked on her door and he answered. He flipped out, and punched him. He also punched a wall and shattered his knuckle. The first person he called was me, because i,at this time, did feel bad. He came in my house, around 1am...and i bandaged up his hand, which was completley out of line. I didn't want to attend this party because I didnt want to be involved with the concequences, but actually i was at the bitter end. Meg got drunk and had sex with her ex. Me and my friend dana didn't know what to do, at this time we were both good friends with jon, and we hated to see him hurt. So, we told him, adh he swore to secrecy he wouldnt tell. And he didn't, he lied that he found out another way. But they got back togheter, after all this, i can't even explain. Now that school started again, he doenst even talk to me, he igonres me and my friend totaly. He leaves her 10 messages on her voicemail a day. They are always together...still...despite all this. He throws chairs and gets mad and yells at her and they are still together. At first we thought it was cute, now its just turned in to this obsession. I dont even think he cares about her ..he just needs to feel secure. So this is where we stand. Our health class teacher told us these are all signs of an abusive relationship...but she won't listen. I need to do something...but what? Ive tried everything...please help me and thank you SO MUCH for reading this.


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well 1st of all u cant control the feelings taht ur friend has teh best thing u can do is advise her and let her no hwo u think he is make her realize and make her undertand u but dont b 2 harsh on her but put it down easy not harsh and if hse odenst belive u than the bets thing a best firend can do is support her hope i helped! o yea p.s. u never no if it is abusive cus it could b different w. her and him u never it could b different it coudl b sumthin special between them that u dont no!


My friend (alex) likes this guy matt. Well there on the same sports team, and they are somewhat friends, but alex likes matt. She wants to take it to the next level (going out) but is kinda of nervous about getting his number. I dont know what to tell her so i figured id ask a complete stranger. Please help my friend, she really desirves a nice guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
tell her 2 say wud up cracka?!? n get his sn so mayb hopefully they can get 2 no eachother alot better n than get there # n stuff hope i helper ur friend!! pce ur #1 CraCkA!!!haha


ok i hav had a bf for almsot 2 months now but ive been friend wid benefits with him for lyke a yr....well hes really causes alot of problems....he started smokin weed bout a month ago n then he told me he quit lyke 3 weeks ago n we wer surpose to go see a movie last frieday n he backed out last minute bc he had no money bc he blew it all on weed...so he lied to me bout quiting and he can never go newhere with me n emore bc he always spends his money on drugs. dont get me wrong when he isnt lyke this he is s0o gr8....but hes stopped calling n stuff n always has excuses and always backsout of our plans or will b lyke o ill callu bak n let u kno if i can go n then hell never call back....well heres the deal my brother plays soccer and theres this guy on his team named rafael....and omg he is so cute...so i told my bro to tell him wassup sexy LOL at practice....n he DID and ever since...rafael n me always stare at eachother n make eye contact with eachother at the games....wer both 2 shy 2 talk to eachother...but last game he told my brother to hook me n him up!!! he sed he wants to get to knno me n stuff...so today b4 my bro left 4 his soccer practice i was like tell rafael i wanna hok up with him 2...and so he did and rafael called my bro n then my bro gave him mai cell number n he just caled me!! it was my furst time talking to him!! hes soooo sweet! he was like ur brother tells me stuff (like that i like him n stuf) n i was like o ya lyke wat he was like go ask him n i was like i will later n then rafael was like just 2 let u kno i think the same about u.....i wa slike omg and i started blushing...hes so sweet and he actually calls when he says he will unlike my boyfriend...rafael is gonna call m tomorrow! well....idk wat to do....should i dump my boyfriend who i really lyke (but lately hes been a real ass) and take a chance n get with rafael? or wat do i do? bc it wouldnt b fair 2 rafael to be gettin with him if i hav a man,.... (link)
u should dump ur bf right away wut kind of bf puts weed b4 his grl thats messed up u shoudl deff. go w. rafeal he seems like a person who would make u happe...good luck w. it!


okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?

Please Help Me.

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wow thats nasty u should NOT tell him if u do that will make htings weird between u 2 n plus he could tell ur parents n wouldnt that b akward? they'd prob get u a therapist n get u sum help...juss 4get bout him n never veer veer tell ne1 bout it..hope things work out




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