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my name is chassidy. but please call me chassie. i'm really outgoing and i love to have a good time. i like to party and get down with my girlies and we always have fun, no matter what. we're all pretty different. i cheered in high school, and i played volleyball. now i'm in college, living it up! i love most kinds of music and i love my car. my stang is my baby. i am with the love of my life, bobby. he is 24 and i'm 18! my parents and lots of people don't like us being together, but i just say fuck the haterz! i love my best friend, brandi. she completes me and i would die without her, she's my roomie along with candis and caroline. i like chanel. i love horses and riding fourwheelers. i'm a sexual person. i don't care what people think about me, and that's perfectly fine. i like to help people. i'm a secretary now at a bank. i love my family and my favorite color is pink. i love my hometown of new york city more than anything. i'm from manhattan, but i'm currently in texas. i love my boyfriend, friends, my job, family, animals, alcohol, sex, music, and my life.

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Me and this guy were making out and then we started dry humping and his pants were wet so is there any way I can get pregnant? I was in jean shorts and he was in khaki shorts so that's enough clothing to prevent it right?

yes that is enough clothes to prevent it. it is VERY unlikely that you could get pregnant, unless sperm intered your vagina, but that's unlikely too since most die when they reach air.

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So some friends and i are thinking of a school prank, nothing damaging or something that would ruin anything but what are the consequences if you got caught on school property? Or if your caught in the act, what would the legal cosequences be? Were 15 if it helps.

getting caught on school property after hours is considered trespassing on private property at my school. i know of kids who have been police escorted home after they were caught doing stuff after school hours. it just depends on if your school is that strict or whatever. maybe read your handbook & see if it says anything about that. but i think pranks are so funny, so it would be awesome if you could pull it off. but i suggest you figure out how much trouble you could get into, and strategically plan your prank so you don't get caught! good luck.

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why do people care so much about same sex marrage? i think it should be legal in the U.S but why are people against it?
im writting a report about it and i just need to know what some people think.

thankss

many people think that it is wrong because it goes against the meaning of marriage, which is a bonding between a man and a woman. to some religious people it makes it unholy to change the meaning, and it takes away the sanctity of it. some people think that love is love, and that's all that should matter. it just depends on your religion, values, and grasp of the subject.

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About how many miles does a pontiac run well at. would a used pontiac g6 or grand prix with about 50,000 miles still be able to last another 50,000 miles without much of a problem?

i love pontiac g6's. my friend has one, and the dealer said that it would last her a long time. i am pretty sure it could go anoter 50 or so thousand miles as long as it's been kept up into good shape and as long as YOU keep it in good shape when you get it. my friends had her pontiac for 2 years now and hasn't given her any problems whatsoever. so i say go for it!

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This morning my grandma passed away. The news pretty much made me cry for hours, and right now I still feel a bit distraught.

But last night, I had a dream about her, where I was visiting her at the nursing home (where she lives) and she was alive, happy, and glad to see me. We were surrounded by a big room filled with lights and it was just white. She was wearing brightly-colored clothing, and all she did was smile at me.

When I woke up this morning from that dream, I found out she passed away.

As a christian, I deeply believe that was God telling me that she is happy where she is right now (in heaven), and smiling down on me, feeling happy she is at peace.

Do you think God was really trying to give me a sign? Or is it coincidence?

i think it was, and i think that's wonderful that she now seems happy where she's at. i think God is trying to comfort you for your loss, and just to show you that everything's going to be okay because she's happy.

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on mtv last night, right before the new episode of the real world, there was one of those commericals where mtv plays part of a song and shows part of the music video before a new show comes on. what was the name of the song that they played right before the real world last night, around 10:30ish. it was a guy singing, and the only part of the song i remember is "your fingertips" which could be tons of songs, so you had to have been watching the real world last night to know


thanks!

hey, i wasn't watching but i know that a clip of vulnerable by secondhand serenade recently came on and they have part in their song that says fingertips. so try that! hope i heloped!

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what is a body shot? like does it always have to be taken off the girls stomach. or can it be like her chest or boob region. thanks

a body shot is just a shot taken off someones body. so basically you can do it anywhere. the stomach region is just the most common area to do it.

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I know you hate these questions. Sorry.

I'm making a mix CD for my boyfriend. Some of the songs are;
Baby you save me -Kenny Chesney
Kepper of the stars- Kenny Chesney
Crazy B*tch- Buck Cherry
Don't Matter- Akon
Pain- 3 Days Grace

Pretty much a variety of things. I'm looking for good love songs (ie; the 2 Kenny Chesney) then some like Akon. The words of the song, not artist. You know, nobody wants us to be together but it doesn't bother him. Then some good rock.

Any ideas/suggestions appreciated.

you and me-lifehouse
nobody but me-blake shelton
little moments like that-brad paisley
you're beginning to get to me-clay walker
come a little closer-dierks bentley
i get carried away-george strait
your everything-keith urban
me and you-kenny chesney
(& keeper of the stars IS by tracy byrd btw
and yes, it is by tracy byrd. i have all of
kenny chesney's CDs and the CD with tracy byrd's
keeper of the stars on it. so yeah...it is)
love-keisha cole
& there's sooo much more. hope that helped.

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i need classic [[like the beegees, beatles time]] and recent songs that would go along a slideshow of baby pictures.



thank you.

baby love by the supremes!

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I am a singer, & want to sing amazing grace for an assembly at school.

I love LeAnn Rymes' version of this song. She has a beautiful country twang to her voice.

My question is, how do you get that country twang?

i'm from texas, so i've got a country twang. it's just something that comes natural. if you want to add a twang to your voice i suggest you practice it so it becomes natural and so it doesn't sound cheezy. good luck!

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is Datying and Going out with the same thing? i was told by a friend that they weren't. Help. lol

i think they are. to me "going out" literally means going out on dates and being together in a relationship. hope i helped!

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ok well my parents have a huge rule about boyfriends and Sex. but ive had a boyfriend for months now and im thinking about having sex with him. What do you think i should do should i do it...i really cant figure this out on my own.

it really depends on if you feel you are truley ready to give that up. don't just do it because you think you're ready, do it when you know you're ready. and if you're willing to risk that for what could turn into a conflict with your family, then go for it. but only if YOU are ready. and if it makes you happy, hopefully you're family will understand.

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What are some good country love songs that say I am sorry for hurting you.. or.. I want to be with you forever... or what I did was wrong........ thank you.

why-jason aldean:
It's 3 AM and I finally say
I'm sorry for acting that way
I didn't really mean to make you cry
Oh baby, sometimes I wonder why

i cross my heart-george strait:
i cross my heart and promise to
give all i've got to give
to make all your dreams come true
in all the world
you'll never find
a love as true as mine

your everything-keith urban
The first time I looked in your eyes I knew
I would do anything thing for you
The first time you touched my face I felt
What I've never felt with anyone else
I wanna give back what you've given to me...


when i close my eyes-kenny chesney
There's so many things
I didn't say
And even though
It may be too late
I want you to know
I still love you so

if i lost it-kenny chesney
Better or worse, one thing's for sure
It's real love and I don't know what I'd do
If I lost it...

what i need to do-kenny chesney
What I need to do is turn this car around
Drive as fast as I can til I see the lights of our hometown
And run to her, take her in my arms
Make her see how sorry I am, well that shouldn't be so hard...


& i know this isn't country but i love this song..

4 minutes by avant:

I only got 4 minutes to do what I gotta do to prove to you that I'm gonna do anything
Only got 4 minutes say what I gotta say to make you stay and show you that I done change
Cause in 4 minutes I'll never have my girl again
In 4 minutes Imma lose her to some other man
4 no less no more
I'm desperate 'cause the clock's ticking
Only got 4 minutes to go



hope that helped! there's a lot of good ones out there!

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i have had a boyfriend for about two years now and during the time have cheated on him several times. I think I love him but am not completely sure since I keep doing this. btw I think he is catching on and I dont know what to do. Any suggestions on how to cover my a#@???

If you are asking us if you love him, then most likely you don't. When you're in love, you know. I think you're infatuated, and are lusting for other people. If you continue to cheat on him, he may fall more in love with you while you are falling out with him. It may just hurt him more. I think you should tell him the truth before it gets any further, and if you don't wanna do that then I think you should stop cheating on him if you think you could develop a good, loving relationship with him. If you don't think you could ever fall in love with him and continue your relationship then just break up with him.

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ok there are two really cute guys at my school and well ive been told a couple times by each of their friends that they like me. but i dont really know who i like more its really confusing. one of the guys we'll call him "Jim" Talks to me all the time and jokes around with me but i dont think he's cute. (i dont judge on looks but i think i should at least find them attractive) but i dont. And well "Bob" the other guy is sweet and completely Adorable and i totally am both physically and mentally attracted to him! but he doesnt really talk that much, we both are kinda quiet unless we are around good conversation starters like "Jim". What do you think i should do?

it sounds like you are more attracted to "Bob". & if y'alls conversations aren't so great now, they will eventually grow into good ones. You just need to find out what you too have in common, and find out his interests so you can strike up good conversation. Find out what he likes to do, and what he does on weekends and see if he wants to do anything sometime. It takes time to get to know a person, but once you fully know that person then things will get a lot easier. Hope that helped!

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this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. what should i do?

if you want to be guilt free then i would tell your parents that you were driving, and explain that it's not your fault. but if you are fearful that you'll get into trouble and you think you could live with that guilt then keep it to yourself. it just depends on what you think you can handle. but that's very nice of your brother, i wish my brother would take the blame sometimes!

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you say you've had s** countless amounts of times... umm then like have you had it more than like 50 times? because if so that's kinda gross for your age... i'm not like judging you but how many times have you done it?

no, not that many. because that would be out of control. i don't know how many times i have because i don't keep track of it, because that would be weird. but this was a very personal question. and age doesn't matter to me, i'll do whatever i want.

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So me and my bf are planning to have shower sex... But I'm scared the condom mite slip of... Does it really slip of? And what other precautions should I take... I mean it's my first time...

it is possible for a condom to slip off, but it's not likely. a condom can slip off no matter where you have sex. me and my partner have never had a condom slip off during shower sex though. so go ahead and enjoy it ;].

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Hi
HOW and when do i give my boyfriend a handjob?We've been together 3 months now and he has fingerd me once and i know he doesnt expect anything bt iv neva done nething nd i rly want to now..i jus dont know how 2 get around 2 giving it!should i be in his room/bed/wat??
also im a christian and i dont know if its wrong 2 be doing this stuff with my boyfriend?He knows that i want to wait for sex until im married but what about the other stuff?is it wrong?

(girl-17)

it may seem wrong to some people, but others it's no big deal. i am very catholic, and i've had sex. yes, it may be wrong but i don't regret it. so don't be nervous about it. if you really want to give him a handjob just wait until you are alone with him, most likely on a bed. and start making out and stuff and then just feel for his pants, and you'll know if he likes it. if he doesn't say anything like unbutton his pants and and just stroke. start slow, then you can go faster. and be confident about it, if you really want to do it.

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14/f

ive had sex 4 times - dont judge me i know what i was doing, it was the same guy.- and each time it hurt. the 1st time it hurt, the 2nd time it didnt but then i did it again right after that time and it starting hurting. the 4th time it hurt a little and i found blood in my underwear. how many times till my cherry is completely poped and it doesnt hurt anyymore?

sometimes it just depends on how tight you are, or he could be too aggressive. sooner or later it will get more pleasurable and you will both get used to it.

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