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Q: Lately I have been under a lot of stress from finals and other things. In the past two weeks I have passed out 4 times. How much blood do you ussually have to lose before passing out and what could be other causes of this? I'm 14 and relatively healthy.

really the best thing to do is see a doctor. its preobably really important that you do, because passing out that much isnt normal. it might be nothing, but its best not to take a chance. hope you get better soon!

Q: can someone give me ideas for sns about the o.c. or adam brody?
rate 5s for anything
thank so much

mrs.adambrody
iheartadambrody
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oc4me
brodybabe

Q: Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

i totally agree with you!

i think advicenators should have a policy that banss people with a rating of 1.5 or lower. people who are stupid and mean totally ruin the site! maybe we could like start a petition or something! you totally mrock for asking this question!

Q: i need to know if grils like geting secret antmirers gifts on valin time's day( i'm giving her a cristl heart) and if i should insribe some thing on it, what should i do.

o ya most girls love gifts in general (lol im serious) but yea thats kewl

Q: I do realize you will probably give me the goodle search box, but I've googled far and wide and have not found my lyrics.

Some of the song lyric goes "Oh, is it love?" and "I like where you sleep, when you sleep next to me, I like where you sleep, here"

I do believe this song is by Hellogoodbye, but still I am unable to find the exact song.

Can anyone help?

HELLOGOODBYE LYRICS

"Oh, It Is Love"

Oh, it is love
From the first time I set my eyes up on yours
Thinking oh, is it love?

Oh dear
It's been hardly a moment
And you are already missed
There is still a bit of your skin
That I'm yet to have kissed
Oh say please do not go
When you know you know that i must
Oh say I love you so
You know you know you can trust
We'll be holding hands once again
All our broken plans I will mend
I will hold you tight so you know
It is love from the first
Time I set my hand into yours
Thinking Oh is it love?

Dear, its been hardly three days
And I'm longing to feel your embrace
There are several days
Until I can see your sweet face
Wouldn't it be nice to be older and married with me
Oh say wouldn't you like to know right now that we'll be
Someday holding hands in the end
All our lovely plans will have been
I will kiss you soft so you know
It is love from the first
Time I pressed my lips against yours
Thinking Oh is it love?

Your heart may long for love that is more near
So when i'm gone these words will be here
To ease every fear
And dry up every tear
And make it very clear
I kiss you and I know
It is love from the first
Time I set my lips against yours
Thinking Oh is it love?

Oh it is love from the first
Time I pressed my lips against yours
Thinking Oh is it love?

I kiss you and I know
It is love from the first
Time I set my lips onto yours
Thinking Oh is it love?

Q: Well, I took a midol at school, and I didn't have anything to wash it down with (my schools water is actually toxic..we've done tests)so I used saliva..well it didn't work to well, and I knew it was residing somewhere near the bottom of my throat. I figured it would go down eventually and didn't worry about it. Well 5 minutes later I started getting a very uncomfortable burning feeling in the lower part of my throat. The pain shot all the way down into my upper back. It went away after an hour (mostly) and I went on with my day. Well today during lunch I realized that everytime I swallowed (food, drink, air) my throat began burning alot, and it feels alot like the time I had broncitis and developed a lot of scar tissue in my throat...uncomfortable. Or the time I vomited 6 times in a row. I know it was the midol, but my question is, "What did it do to me? And should I tell someone or see if it stops...?"

you should definetley get this checked out because it could be serious ( or it could just go away in a few hours)

but seriously you never know so you should really go to a doctor soon

Q: Right now things have been going pretty bad. My domestic family (grandmother, grandfather, mother, brother) have just been crazy. Yelling. screaming, you name it, it's happening. Well, it was upsetting me, and so I went to my aunt. After I confided in her, things seemed ok. Then the next day all she did was critisize me, and now she doesn't seem to like me anymore. I may be being paraniod, but it's just getting me mad and I need to do something about it. I feel incredibly stupid for trusting her now, but there isn't anything I can do. Any help?

well,since i dont know you, you can ask a question on my column (i can awnsewr or not) or you can write down things on a paper and then shred it up. also, try talking to the people who are bothering you (the main source of the problem)

hope it all works out!

Q: Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
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>torn

first of all, one grade isnt that big of an age difference. secondly, if your frends give you a hard time about who youre going out with, screw them they arent really freinds. i say go for it! good luck!

Q: Hey people! Okey, I've gotten myself into a real mess..again. I'm such an idiot. See, this is the thing..I havn't seen my EXBF for about a year, and im gonna see him in like a week. A while ago i found out that he had a new GF and that she was coming with him to camp (where im gonna see him again) So i've been working really hard this week on making myself look great to impress him. And then i met this guy, who's also going to camp. So i thought (dumb as i am) why not get together with this guy to make him jealous or whatever, maybe just to show that im over him..
Now, this guy is a punk rocker..so to get him to like me i started acting like a punk rocker. And when he asked me if he could do my hair, i said : sure, why not?. Little did I know that by saying that i liked his haircut he was gonna do my hair just like his. So now i have no hair on the sides and spikes in the middle and i am totally and completely FREAKING OUT! I live with my older brother and im not gonna see my mom for about 3 more months so im not worried about her at the moment ( even though i should be ) ..
What im really worried about is seeing james in a week.. I've done everything to make myself look great, and now i look awful! Is there anything i can do? ive already tried looking for a hairpiece, but it loooks soo fake! HELP PLEASE!

well i think that if you are not with that guy anymore, you are so much better than him. so you should just ignore ur exbf

if your mom gets mad, tell her the truth. you had no idea what that guy was gonna do!

and your hair will grow out, or you could get a cute short cut.

hope everything works out!

Q: I'm trying to eat healthy, and I wanted to know some foods you recommend for the following catagories that are healthy. Please be specific, I need all the guidelines I can get (and I am pairing it with exercise). Thank you!
Breakfast-
Lunch-
Snack-
Dinner-

please dont listen to anyone who says to fast (it only makes you overeat later.

heres a good plan

breakfast (between 6 and 8 am preferably)

fruit, a peice of whole wheat toast, half of an english muffin, or a whole wheat waffle.

lunch ( between 11am and 1 pm)

a salad with fat free dressing, tomatoes, and a grilled chicken breast or tuna

or

grilled chicken with broccili and a peice of whole wheat bread

dinner( between 5 and 6:30 pm)

grilled fish, chicken breast,or lean beef

with

any grilled veggies and a half cup of whole wheat pasta or a peice of whole wheat bread

snack (any time before 7)

any fat free (or low fat) dairy product with less than 20 carbs

also excercise ad cut out soda (drink water instead)

also you can always have acarrots, celery, or pea pods if you are hungry

GOOD LUCK!

Q: I have been dating a girl for almost a year now. I am 29, she is 27. I recently found out that she cheated on her previous boyfriends. Do you think there is a better chance that I'll be cheated on than if I was dating a girl who had never cheated?

chances are, if shes cheated before, she'll cheat again. maybe talk to her past bfs to see what she acted like when she was cheating.

Q: ok well, i was on my computer yesterday and all of a sudden my back and forward button were gone. does any one know what happend or how i can get it back? thank you

5's

at the top of your page go to veiw then toolbars and choose what you want on your toolbar. good luck!

Q: I have a few questions, here. Thanks in advance!

I've tried eating fruits for a meal (Like apples), but minutes later, I'm hungry again! This doesn't make sense to me. Why does this happen?

Also, I don't like many veggies. Are there any vegetables that actually TASTE GOOD? I can't stand broccoli.

Last question! If you want to lose weight, is it REQUIRED to decrease the intake of carbs? I'm a very picky eater, and most of the food I eat has carbs.

fruit wont hold you over long, and its also a carb

some good ways to eat vegetables are with balsamic vinegar, soy powder, or lemon juice or salt. these are all fat free.

lastly, you should decrease your carbs, but still eat some or you will get headaches.

good luck!

Q: how do you become an organ donor? can you donote organs and other parts for money?

if its a vital organ you have to be very recently dead. however, if its blood or a kidney you just donate it while your living. you should probably ask your doctor how to become one. i dont think you get money though.

but if you are a guy you can donate sperm for money.

Q: for the past two days, i've had a really bad gas problem. i've been in school and i've had gas and it really hurts. every time after i eat i get this.. is this the stomach flu or what?

i dont think its the stomach flu because then you would be throwing up or other things. but you should definetley see a doctor because they can tell you whats wrong and help you get better.

hope you feel better!

Q: Just since it's officially winter and cold/flu season, I just wanted to let everyone know that Trader Joe's has this stuff called Airborne developed by a teacher and it works well to help you stumble over colds as to not miss the upcoming holidays. Happy Holidays, everbody!! Love Always, Igotamonopoly :)

thanxx!!!!

Q:
okay i cant think of anything for christmass nd my dads telling me if i dont tell him stuff then i wont can u please list some things as many as u can think of ! please nd thanks
callie

14 female stl

ill rate 5s !

money is always good

clothes makeup itunes money a day at the spa

if u arent so girly sports stuff

or lessons for something like art of sports lessons

Q: I have this really annoying neighbour that lives in my appartment complex.
I feel that she is just trying to use me. This is what happened. I ran into her when I went to check my mail. She asked me if I knew anyone who would want her budgie(a bird in a cage). I said I couldnt think of anyone and that she should put an add in the paper. She told me that would be too expensive. Then she asked me if I could give her and her bird a ride to the SPCA. She doesnt have a car. I really didnt want to and told her it would have to be another day. She told me she would try another person who had a car.
Well she just knocked on my door. She said she couldnt get a hold of this other person and needed a ride tomorrow afternoon. I told her I couldnt and that I would be working (which is true). I thought she would leave me alone but then she had the nerve to say, "Well WHEN CAN YOU GIVE ME A RIDE TOMORROW"? AND WHAT TIME DO YOU START WORKING"? I wanted to tell her off but I live in a small building and didnt want people to bad mouth me. So I caved in and now I have to drive her and her stupid bird to the SPCA tomorow at 11. She didnt even offer to give me any gas money!! I don't even like her, she's a nosy old bag and always asks my when I'm going back to finsih my college degree and should move back in with my parents. I also heard on the weather channel that we are getting freezing rain tomorrow, and it's a bad road up there. Am I overreacting or is this lady just using me?

tell the woman that you dont want to. i mean its ur car!!!!! tell her to take a bus or taxi or something

Q: is it okay to put my sea sick patch on my butt or boob? i know it sounds weird.. but i don't want the patch to interfere with my tan. i don't even know if i'll need it yet, if i get sea sick. but is this okay? thanks.

i dont no but if it doesnt than use bonine, dramamine, or sugared ginger.

Q: I've been having a sore throat for about 3 days now... Is there any ways to make it go away? It feels like I'm always trying to clear my throat but I can't. Should I just drink a lot of water? I can't sleep because it feels like I can't breathe.

omg i just had that just give it time (mine went away after 4 dayz) dont drink milk or eat milk products(like ice cream, cheese, butter) and eat lots of cough drops