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i am really upset over the fact that my phone got teken aaway
i really wouldnt be but the thing is me and my boyfriend go to different schhools
and his phone got taken away too
and i know him, he'll be too scared to call my house
and barely ever comes online
i dont know what to do
i thought about crying
but that just wont do anything
=/
help
any ways of communication would be good ..
ugh
so
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hey
that must be hard but the same thing happened to me. what i did was when my parents werent home i called my boyfriends house and when he picked up we arranged a time and place to meet up. i hope this works out for you. you can also try a payphone if you cant use your house phone.
xoxo


hello, i now know this amazing girl, and i dont know if she likes me and i already gave her a kiss on the cheek but she doesnt seem to understand that i love her... so i was thinking of trying to do it on the mouth, but how do u start on something like that? (link)
i really dont think you should do it on the mought yet... get to know the girl what happens if you kiss her and she doesnt like you back? then shell be madd. get to know her and see if she likes you back. usually guys start going out you know become boyfriend and girlfriend and then they kiss.
hope i helped


i have a dance coming up in june and i bought my dress and everything but now theres a problem, the straps are too long. they are attached spaghetti straps. what can i do to shorten them without making it look like i altered them. if i sewed them, the thread would show up on the back so id rather not do that. any ideas? thanks so much (link)
you should do it professionaly. like go to a dry cleaning maybe near you? they usuaLLY do those things and mke it look unnoticible. it can be very cheap i dont think its expensive goodluck.


Any tips on kissing? i need some help. I understand how it all works, but i really need some tips to help our reltaionship out. I've kissed him before, but i need a little help, i get nervous and just want him to like me. We have been going out for 3 months but only kissed the other day. I know its been moving slow. but i need it to speed up a bit (link)
okay well fiorst thing is dont get enrvous. if hes going out with you chances are he lieks you and wont stop going out with you becuase youre a bad kisser. so next time you kiss him maybe add a little passion to it like aybe hold him in the waist you know something cute. also kissing really does come naturally. i used to post these questions on here about kissing and when i finally did it i realized its just natural its like your mouth knows what its doing.


how could you be half a virgin? (link)
you cant be half virgin its eiother your are or arent. they are probably talking about like doing other types of sexuality things.


Ok, so 15/f...
I get along with pretty much everyone in my class. But, there's this one girl who just goes out of her way to bother me =( It's like effecting my self esteem. I don't understand why she acts this way. Like, I'll just be sitting there and she'll say something funny so I'll laugh and next thing I know she's all like "Did I tell you you could laugh?!" Ugh I hate her. But I can't just ignore her because I feel so totally stupid and self-conscious because of the way she calls me out in front of everyone =(
Any advice? (link)
the person below me is right. noone should push you around. i used to be this way also. but i stand up for myself now so people dont usually mess with me. if you let people mess with you it definely lowers your self asteem and your abviously worth more then her. so mayb next time you should say "i dont need your approval to laugh" maybe add a little "i can laugh if i want to" you know nothing like oh i want to fight you type but just something to show her that your going to stand up for yourself. dont let anyone push you around. xoxo


16-f
dating
17-m

me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and im stumped on what to give him for our year i dont want it to be like over something interesting to him like sports or anything cuz thats more of a christmas or b-day gift i believe our 1 year needs to be something special but i have no clue what to do and i dont have alot of money to spend on it either but i wnat something nice and something he would be proud to get and would remind him of me eveyrtime he saw it.


thanks in advance
:D (link)
maybe take him to a resturant not too pricey? or take him to your house and cook for him and after that go to the movies or watch a movie in your house. take him to a park and do a picnic there. or maybe make him something yourself. or buy hima really cute shirt.


ok so my bf cheated on me but he didnt like the girl he only wanted to hook up with her cause he thinks shes hott.
i need songs saying like i hope she was worth it.
please give me some. thanks (link)
i know what song the girl below me is talking about. DEFINETLY THIS IS THE SONG FOR YOU TRUST ME, BEEN THERE. "should've said no" by taylor swift.


my ares won't work anymore. i search for a song, it shows up as "connecting..." in the transfer tab, but then it doesn't get anywhere. the status in the window's title says "connected _:__" with a time, so i'm pretty sure i'm connected. and i've tried all kinds of songs, so i know it's not just a paticular song.

can anyone help me fix this? (link)
hey
well the same thing happened to me a while ago. so instead i downloaded bearshare and its the same thing. so later on i tried downloading ares and it worked again. so maybe earse the old one and download a new one. you know what helps also? i think you should download the new version thats better.


Im 14/f and lately Ive been changing alot of things in my personal space. I just painted my room a very nice, prelude blue and i got a white comforter with blue/green and pink polka dots on it. The thing is I still want to do more with my room. Any small ideas that could help spice my room up a bit? Maybe decorating ideas, or crafts or something. I want it to kind of be like me.. here is a little about me:

I am a girl and my favourite color is blue. Im pretty outgoing but when im alone I like to relax and think alot. I like to read, write and listen to music. I also LOVE taking pictures with my friends. I like when things look fresh. I also play volleyball and Im a social person so I cant get too crowded cause I have alot of people coming over. Any ideas? (link)
hey well i used to have the same problem with my room. heres what i did with my room. i love playing music so my room has a small piano and a guitar. and alot of pictures like the ocean and my favorite celebrities on it. i have alot of posters and its painted light purple. maybe that could give you a couple of ideas.
so basically im just saying ike if you like playing music you can get a keyboard or a guitar you can get them for cheap at ebay or craigslist.com. i also think you should put up posters and such. you also said yu like to write so maybe put up your writings like if you write poems you can get a cinstruction paper and decorate it and write down your porms or anything you liek to write.


hope i helped xoxo


Hi i'm 14/f
There is this boy that i absolutely love he is just so nice and great in every single way he really likes me too he even said he loves me in person.
I'm a really like 'good' girl and i'm asian so you know how family is like really important and you can't get a boyfriend you can only get married once your 25 or whatever.
I really want to go out with him and i know this realationship will last but i hate going behind my parents back but i really love him what do i do?
Thank you so so much (link)
are you surrreee that the realationship will last. like absolutely sure. then if you are explain to your mom that you really like this guy if she still doesnt let you date him go for it. i know you shouldnt be lying to your mom whatsoever but what can you do if you really like this guy. plus you have to trust yorself that you wont do anything your not supposed to do with him. if something goes wrong and your parents find out then they will say that you shoulve listened to them and that you werent responsible but you have to be responsible.
overall, if you really like this guy give him a chance. talk to your mom and try to make her understand that you are responsible and that you wont do anything with him that you shouldnt be doing.


Ok I have a boyfriend named jesse and he's a skater........I'm a emo I dont want 2 be with him anymore I'm in love with a guy named josue who is also emo but I don't want 2 brake up with jesse because I don't want 2 hurt him......please help me out my heart belongs 2 josue (link)
look your hurting yourself by not being with the person that you want. so do it now before he gets more stuck on you and its gonna be harder for him.
if you dont want to do that then just make him break up with you. its what i did with my ex boyfriend i got whinney and just annoying so he would dump me, i didnt want to hurt him, becuase he said i was his life so i would suggest you do that. but the truth is always better trust me.


Not sure if this is in the right subject.
I want to go to hannah montana in 3d saturday but im confused. On the website you put in your city and state. When I do that it say local areas selling andvanced tickets. Does that mean its a pre sale. Is it in every theater in the U.S. or is it in selected theaters? Can you just go the day you want to and buy the tickets and go in? Please help me!!!I want to go soooo badly! (link)
i know i wanna go also!! since the tickets were sold out i want to go see the movie. so yeah im pretty sure you can just go to any movie theater and purchase the tickets. i usually go to small movie theaters that people dont usually go to becuase they usually have the tickets there and they are not sold out. but yeah im soo going and im going to buy the tickets at the door. the movie is a regualr movie the only difference is that the movie will only be for 1 week but it should be in any movie theater and you should be able to purchase the tickets anywhere.


Can anyone tell me any websites where I can get free music, thanks for all your help!!!!! (link)
pandora.com its the best website. it has all kinds of music its the website i use its awesome!


Hi guys how are ya'll doing? I just wanted to ask if ya'll thought that I was freaky. So I'm a tomboy and a bounch of girls have been teasing me. I never wear my hair down, I play football and basketball, all of my friends are boys and the girls at school wont stop teasing me because of it! They call me lesbian, stupid, and one of them said "Who are you going to the dance with...oh wait no one would want a mud coverd bitch as a dance partner". So what should I do about this they are really hurting my feelings? Please help I really apreciate it if anyone answers thanks. (link)
heyyy
you are soooo not freaky dont worry about it. when i was younger i used to be teased also i was a tomboy but i didnt care. the girls would ask me questions and ask why i dont wear makeup.
look those girls are stupid. they dont know anything. tell them to stfu and to stop worrying about your life. its not there life. look your happy with youre style right so thats what counts. forget the other girls theyre stupid you shouldnt care about them in about 3 years or even less you wont see them anymore i bet so who cares about them.

xoxo


how is manhattan part of new york? what is it? a city? or a street? A state? what? like is it like "los angeles" from California? so i guess its like "manhattan" from "new york" correct me if i am mistaken (link)
heyy i live in newyork manhattan its a borough in newyork if that helps. so it is manhattan from newyork


hey guys im a goth who cares my friends are all goth and i have one regular friend thats cool i just want to know what sites have free goth and rock music and what stores have cool goth jewlrie (link)
Heyy

Well alott of my friends r goth and they tell me they get there jewlery in hottopic or spencers. Also, yellow rat bastard. You can find those stores at your local mall. Or go to there website I'm sure they have one.


and for music you should go to pandora.com
You type in the name of an artist and they get a lot of music that's related to them so I really love that website. They have any kind of music

So hope I helped


Alright if anyone could help me it would be greatly appreciated. Anyways alright to get right down to it here is my problem, I moved from New York to Illinois to be with my boyfriend of 6 years. Well before i moved i always had a little thing for his best friend Nick. The problem is this my boy is great i love him to death but i have troubles being uhm sexually his.. im a bit premiscuous i know its bad im a tease i cant help it call me a slut and you wont get rated. Well iv slept with Nick when my boy goes off to work and i want to stop it.. but i think im falling for nick and falling out of love with my boy. Help me give me advice... (link)
heyy
well you have to think about this do you love your boy more then nick? if you do why are you doing this to him sleeping with his best friedn thats torture. that would be so humiliating for him and that would hurt him so much especially if he loves you. youre hurting him just leave your boy if you dont love him but its wrong to play him with nick. and if nick did that to his best friend then he isnt a good friend at all, and you know that. leave him if you dont love him but dont do that to him thats so hurtful. i would be so hurt if someone did that to me. hes been with you for 6 years thats alot so maybe you do love him and jsut like to have sex with nick. but thats not right i bet you wouldnt like it if someone did that to you just think of it that way. hopwe i helped and im sorry if i sounded mean i really didnt mean to be. =p


hey
I am in a really sad situation and I need help as fast as possible,
When i was 15 years old i added this guy from a networking website and he sends a message back asking me to add him on msn, and thats exactly what I did, atfirst he meant nothing to me, just a guy online, absolutely nothing more but after talking to him online for a whole year I started having feelings for him, which i myself thought was really really wierd, atfirst i didnt take these feelings seriously, i thought it was some kinda fantasy love life I am in and i will surely wake up one day..things got worse my feelings for him grew he became my obsession we spoke for two years and even though we lived in the same country we have never ever met ..it was more than i could take...my school grades dropped down i couldnt focus on anything or think about anything except him in the end i decided to run away coz i couldnt take it anymore so i travelled SO SO FAR AWAY from him which sounds crazy but it was absolutely true, 2 weeks before i went away i met him it was a lovely night, i can never ever forget it ...everything was just perfect ..the weather ..the sky ..the moon..HIM....I couldn't believe i was going away ...we got really attached..but he never knew how i felt about him ...he never had a hint i BET he just thought we were friends but for me it wasn't just that....I knew when i saw him it will be our first and last time which sounds crazy ..he thought i was travelling to go to college but that wasn't true i could have gone to college in the same country we lived in, It was soo hard leaving my family and friends behind and the country i lived in my whole life!!!
I went away now after seven months of leaving HE IS STILL ON MY MIND ..I LIKE HIM EVEN MORE....I CRY ALMOST EVERYNIGHT...EVEN BIENG ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AWAY FROM HIM DID NOT WORK ..things are even more worse ..i tried forgetting about him in every way..I CAN'T i just can't!!!

i need ur advice what are these feelings it cant be love nor lust coz I can be with any other guy if i wanted to... what shall i do..shall i tell him!?!??!?! HOW CAN I GET OVER HIM!!...what shall i do...please don't ask me to block him..i tried i couldnt!!!! he is 5 years elder than me ..and he doesnt take me seriously I GUESS ...will that make a difference..how do u think he would feel if he knew about it... PLEASE HELP ME i am on the RACK OF ROMANCE !!!!!!! i am almost gonna die of torture..i cant take it anymore =[...please reply and help!!!

PLEASE!!!!
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hey

well you gotta think about yourself look whats going on. re read it its insane. before anything you have to think about yourself your grades dropped you went to basically look for him. thats crazy. but it sounds liek youre really hooked on him. maybe he feels the same way youll never know if you dont tell him how you feel.

tell him. tell him how you feel if he feels the same then great. if he doesnt then youll be sad offcourse but you wouldnt want to be with someone who doesnt feel the same. try to find soemone else. trust me i was so hooked on my ex tht i thought i was gnna die when we broke up. but i found someone and i got over him.
this guy seems liek hes hurting you not helping. think about yourself. i hope you make the right decision and tell him how you feel. if he doesnt then i honestly think you should find soemone whose good and loves you


xoxo blackluna7111


hey. ok, so what are some songs about a boy that you like, but doesn't know you like them or dosn't really notice you a lot. for example Teardrops on my guitar by Taylor Swift. But they don't have to be country. they can be pop or somethin. idk, but also, i want somewhat recent songs. not like from 1990s or somthing. lol. anyways, thanks!!!
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invisible
by ashlee simpson......it's a great song




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