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hey
I am in a really sad situation and I need help as fast as possible,
When i was 15 years old i added this guy from a networking website and he sends a message back asking me to add him on msn, and thats exactly what I did, atfirst he meant nothing to me, just a guy online, absolutely nothing more but after talking to him online for a whole year I started having feelings for him, which i myself thought was really really wierd, atfirst i didnt take these feelings seriously, i thought it was some kinda fantasy love life I am in and i will surely wake up one day..things got worse my feelings for him grew he became my obsession we spoke for two years and even though we lived in the same country we have never ever met ..it was more than i could take...my school grades dropped down i couldnt focus on anything or think about anything except him in the end i decided to run away coz i couldnt take it anymore so i travelled SO SO FAR AWAY from him which sounds crazy but it was absolutely true, 2 weeks before i went away i met him it was a lovely night, i can never ever forget it ...everything was just perfect ..the weather ..the sky ..the moon..HIM....I couldn't believe i was going away ...we got really attached..but he never knew how i felt about him ...he never had a hint i BET he just thought we were friends but for me it wasn't just that....I knew when i saw him it will be our first and last time which sounds crazy ..he thought i was travelling to go to college but that wasn't true i could have gone to college in the same country we lived in, It was soo hard leaving my family and friends behind and the country i lived in my whole life!!!
I went away now after seven months of leaving HE IS STILL ON MY MIND ..I LIKE HIM EVEN MORE....I CRY ALMOST EVERYNIGHT...EVEN BIENG ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AWAY FROM HIM DID NOT WORK ..things are even more worse ..i tried forgetting about him in every way..I CAN'T i just can't!!!
i need ur advice what are these feelings it cant be love nor lust coz I can be with any other guy if i wanted to... what shall i do..shall i tell him!?!??!?! HOW CAN I GET OVER HIM!!...what shall i do...please don't ask me to block him..i tried i couldnt!!!! he is 5 years elder than me ..and he doesnt take me seriously I GUESS ...will that make a difference..how do u think he would feel if he knew about it... PLEASE HELP ME i am on the RACK OF ROMANCE !!!!!!! i am almost gonna die of torture..i cant take it anymore =[...please reply and help!!!
PLEASE!!!!
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hmm..so im wondering...maybe you should tell him how you feel. The worst that could happen is that hes not gonna feel the same way towards you which would totally suck but...at least it would be off your shoulders, and you wont go the rest of your life wondering what could have happened. Then if he does feel the same way and if hes someone you really really think is worth it, wich you seem like you think so..then give the relationship a try..if he thinks you went to college then your at least 18 so...hes what 23 masybe?...just a guess but anywyas thats not even that bad of an age difference in my opinion...so yeah just give it a shot and if everything goes well you could move back home and be with your family again and stuff.
anyways hope i helped some
let me know what happens
good luck
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well you gotta think about yourself look whats going on. re read it its insane. before anything you have to think about yourself your grades dropped you went to basically look for him. thats crazy. but it sounds liek youre really hooked on him. maybe he feels the same way youll never know if you dont tell him how you feel.
tell him. tell him how you feel if he feels the same then great. if he doesnt then youll be sad offcourse but you wouldnt want to be with someone who doesnt feel the same. try to find soemone else. trust me i was so hooked on my ex tht i thought i was gnna die when we broke up. but i found someone and i got over him.
this guy seems liek hes hurting you not helping. think about yourself. i hope you make the right decision and tell him how you feel. if he doesnt then i honestly think you should find soemone whose good and loves you
xoxo blackluna7111
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Hey! i feel for you and i think you have made up a thing between reality and fantasy. pple do it to escape there real lives. i dont think hes as great as you think i think u only know part of him and have become obsessed with the thought of this perfect guy. what i really think you need is therapy. its perfectly normal and will help you. it will make you feel so much happier and satisfied. please go and if you need some more help send me a message in my inbox. hope i helped ;)
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