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I don't know what's wrong me, i've looked online some disorders but i'm not sure which one i have..
I got this problem.. I constantly replay in my mind for weeks things that have bothered me. I'm the type of person that can't let things go. The more i think of them, the more upset i get. Hell, i even argue with myself why i said it or why that person said what they said. Also, i get mad at my parents alot, mostly about my vegeterianism. I get so mad to the point that i begin to cry(which i hate because i then i look like the weak one y'know). I lock myself in my room and begin throwing things. I think i might be crazy sometimes, i begin thinking of ways my dad or brother can die. Like, when they went to Honduras, there where some problems with the airplane or something and i remember wishing the plane would crash killing both of them. And i don't feel any guilt for thinking this things. I don't think i'm horrible at all, i feel like their death will make the world a better place (hahah). I'm sure there's something wrong with me. Oh, and i'm not crazy enough to kill my parents and siblings, i know better. I'm not stupid. With my friends i act different too. I'll act totally ditzy around them and just put on this happy face when really, in my thoughts i think to myself why hang around this people? Alot of times i've wished they'd move or something and then that i'd make way better ("cooler") friends. I think totally pessimistic thoughts and notice every single flaw in people, including myself. And my cat, hahah, i'm really horrible for thinking this considering i love animals probably more than i love people. Well, it's not just my cat, my dad and brother too, i've thought about them dying and then all the attention i would get. Everybody feeling 'bad' for me because i'm fatherless, brotherless,..catless..
I don't know, i guess you could say i'm KIND OF depressed but i wouldn't say i am, not like i was last year. My thinks i'm crazy, from me throwing things at the wall like a mad teenager i am. She's threatened to take me to a psychiatrist but never does. I laugh at the fact that i've got serious issues.. (link)
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believe it or not you answered your own question this comes from deppression if you bottle your feelings and you dont let them out for awhile it turns into rage it means that your emotionally unstable the chemical build up in your brain in unbalanced and can cause you to react irrationally you really should think about seeing a psychyatrist for meds or a counselor to help you learn how to cope with your feelings in a healthy way (i had blind rage till about a few months ago so i know what youre going through) i know that seeing somebody about whats going on with you is the last thing you want to do but sometimes its the only option if you want to email me and talk some more about this youre more than welcome to
beautevil78@yahoo.com
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I like this guy alot, and I think he likes me back.
He flirts with me like play footies, smiles at me, stares at me, and is always near me and almost hugged me on accident like three times!
But I just dont get it, he never actually told me he likes me but my friends think he does.
They catch him looking at me and stuff like that.
A gave him a note saying Hi and he never gave it back to me he said it is at home.
What do I do? I want to ask him out and make sure he likes me because or else it might be too late! (link)
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i think you should talk to him about how you like him and see if he opens up about liking you back....dont be to direct when you say it though cause then you mught catch him off guard and he might shy away from the subject but if you kinda bring it up in conversation like you can tell him how much you like the way he treats you then work your way up to telling him that you want to be his girlfriend but you really should make sure your on the same page
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okay, this guy x and my friend y have got off a few times, but shes been with other people in between, but he's not cause he quite likes her but she just uses him because he's there. and i've liked x for quite a while, but i have no chance with y(i've known him all my life and we're quite close) but i hate when i see them together or people are talking about them. and i've been really bitchie to her recently because of it; i don't mean to be but i can't help it. what should i do? (link)
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either you should tell the person you like them and take it from there or you should let it go and move on
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my mother said that when my cousin left her moms house she was 16 years old and her mom tried to call the cops and they couldn't force her to come home they could suggest it but they couldnt legally make her leave because she moved it with a friend and she had a roof over her head, food to eat and she wasnt in any danger.. now i heard the legal age to do this was 18 .. this happened in CT when my cousin was 16 she is now 23 my question is.. did they change the age? or is it still 16 ( she did not emancipate herself so thats not it ) (link)
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no it hasnt changed its perfectly legal at the age of 16 to run away move out or just disappear litterally the law cannot force you to go back home if you are safe where you are and if you are able to provide for yourself by some means
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ok i'm getting the birth control shot on thursday for the first time. how long does it take for it to start working? i've heard 24 hours, and i've heard a month? (link)
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well that depends on which one but the one my cousin got she only had to wait three days so when you go in to get the shot make sure to ask
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Why do some guys
like seeing girls
in pain during sex? (link)
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because it gives them a sick sense of power they like to be dominant
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Well, I'll just be blunt. Sometimes when people take their own lives, they leave a note. And sometimes that note expresses anger at a certain person or blames them for the way the person felt before they died. Does anyone know of a resource that I could look up telling about the experience of the blamed person, A.K.A. the bully? Maybe someone has an experience that they could share... This is really important information that I have to have, but internet and library searches have gotten me nowhere. Help, Please! (link)
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well i dont think any one will want to publicize the fact that the person who killed themselves blamed it on them you know but maybe if you look up depression or PTSD or guilt trip on google or ask.com it might help your search alittle i hope
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like people are like yelling my name in the hallways. like as a greeting. at school.
and i'm just like heyyy.
what else should i say. because thats ALL i say. ahaha i feel stupid i don't know what else to say.
i don't just want to say their name back. (link)
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you could be sarcastic and be like yup thats my name dont wear it out....or you could like joke about it and just be like i forgot to tell everybody i changed my name to queen elizabeth (or some other name)....you could say whats up.......or you could ask a question in return like is my name the only word you know........i dont know you decide but i hope i helped to give you some ideas
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I was curious when and if a new season of south of nowhere is coming on?
Thanks! (link)
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ok i love that show and i wouldnt get your hopes up to high cause this is just a rumor around school but i heard yes there will be but not till like halloweenn time.....yeah im not really sure but keep looking to see if ther is anything on tv about k
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ok so i'm 15f and already relatively turned on most of the time but i obviously control myself.
but recently i've been playing a game with one of my guyfriends where we ask really awkward personal sexual questions to each other and that's really got me heated. not for him, but for the subject, for the conversation itself.
i was talking to one of my other guyfriends today and i just got so turned on that i accidentally kept glancing at his groin area in school today and i guess he noticed because he half jokingly like, "can you keep your eyes up there at the teacher?" and i felt really embarrassed.
what do i do to just tone down my mind a little? i'm really hyper and excited all the time now and i keep replaying those conversations in my head. i know "masturbate" but besides that. everyone seems so hot now i feel like i'm going through puberty all over again! (link)
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lol take a chill pill jk well i dont know if this will help at all but maybe cutting back on that conversation with your guy friend....yeah i know youre like what ever its so much fun.......it really might be what is getting you so hyper like that maybe try distancing yourself from guys alittle......youre probably like yeah this person is insane.......i felt like this too but i calmed down after i got a boyfriend i guess cause he took up alot of my attention and now im not so much like that after we broke up things just changed
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I am in the process of starting an organization at my high school called "Teens Speaking Out" or TSO. I have already cleared the idea with the principal but I actually need help setting the organization up.
I am setting this club up to give us teens a voice in the local community. I know teens need to focus more about real-life problems sometimes and I feel like this is a great way to get the facts and express opinions without feeling belittled. Basically the club is informational coupled with a way that we can feel included in "adult" problems and world-wide situations. I know we're not going to solve any major problems and create world-peace, but I am hoping that a few good ideas can come of it to help out in the community. I really think this is a great idea for a school club!
Subjects we are focusing on will be:
The 2008 Presidential Elections
School dress code
School drug testing
The increasing amount of teenage pregnancy
Genocide in Darfur
HIV/AIDs in Africa
What are ways to make my "Teens Speaking Out" club better? Can anyone think of any other subjects we should be focusing on? (link)
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i have something similar to that at my school but we call it "teen outreach program" or "TOPs" we have people in our communitty come in every few weeks or so to tell real life situations we then discuss how we can prevent those things from happening to us and to others around us....we also do community service around our town for free its our way to help others we also give out flyers on teen pregnancy and on drug abuse we watch some of the videos on youtube about this awareness and we make posters and set them up around our town there are alot of things we do to reach out to people in our community
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Can you trust an HIV test result after 3 months of possible exposure? I know there are rare cases where it can take up to 10 years to get a positive result, but I read even 6 months is rare. I read most cases (99%) will show up within the 3 month mark. Any suggestions? (link)
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it depends how serious the case is i mean aids is serious no matter how strong the virus is but sometimes its not as life threating as it would be if someone had a low immune system to begin with it would be alot harder to tell if you caught aids right away if you are addicted to any serious drugs because your immune system is used to being attacked by the drug so it will react the same with a virius if your are healthy usually at first it seems as if you have a bad cold or allergies that never seem to end no matter what you take if this goes on for a while you definetly need to get blood work done nd you should go in often to make sure that there really is nothing there and you need to ask for antibiotics to see if it really is just some flu or something else
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I want to learn how to say no any tips. (link)
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you can start by putting boundaries between you and the people around you like if someone says something that offends you in any way speak up dont let it slide tell them how you feel this will help when someone asks you to do something or if things lead to far you will begin to have a voice of your own and stick up for yourself and stop the situation from going to far............this is not easy at all it is hard to say no especially if you want it but if you can set up boundaries then you will begin to feel alot better if you slip up its ok you can always start over but the more you let slide the harder it will be
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17/f okay so recently my bf broke up woth me because i cheated on him a few times. i know what i did was bad. i get it. i learned my lesson because i lost someone i truly care about. my problem is i just dont know how to sayy no. my bf lived 2 hours away and i didnt get to see him very often. and he SAID that once i get my life together we can get back but i dunno. im sooo hurt and he doesnt talk to me anymore. anyways i am trying to get my life back on track but theres a little problem. my best friend is a guy who also knows my boyfriend. they live by eachother, and recently he told me he really likes me. and i dunno. i mean i know im not going to cheat again that isnt the problem. the problem is i kow my ex would never get back woth me if i went for my bestie. but he makes me soo happy. lke he is here when my ex isnt. so i dunno soemone pleaseee help me =( (link)
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well ther is two ways to look at this you can surely ruin a friendship and hook up with your bestie and also lose your ex completely or you can wait things out awhile and tell your bestie that you just think that you need to get things back on track before you think about getting back into another relationship i really think you need time to heal yourself from this
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I have a hard time saying no to guys when they want to have sex and i was wondering could it be becouse i was molested by my dad when i was 3. (link)
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yes very much so if you are abused at a young age you actually lose the ability to respond correctly to that kind of attention you suddenly feel ashamed and you dont want to feel that way so you force yourself into thinking that you want it and that you like it even though in most cases you never really ever come to enjoy it
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im 17f, my mother cheated on my father 2 or 3 years ago its broke my dads heart which it would, me and my mother have never got on she used to be voilet to me and ive always wished bad things to happen to her, when she cheated and she moved out i was soo happy, i didnt fell guity, ive have younger bother and sister they were heartbroken which at that point they didnt understand what she had done, but then dad said im going to take her back, i just wanted too say no! after the way she treated me and i was being selfish, she came back and dad promised me that she would never lay a finger on me again which she hasnt but now shes got sumthing over my dad and shes told me she hates me and that she wants me out and that ive broke the family up she seems to forget whats she had done and ive never forgiven her and i will not, its seems like all my family turned agaist me like it all my fault , i can be cheeky but i cant understand why my mum hates me soo much, dad gets home and have a go at me and always on her side never listen to me but when shes not around well he says you no what she like blah blah, i used to be soo close to my father so its all changed, half off my family have stuck by me, i just think that my mum has no family after they kicked her out, she has to this? , family member said we all no whats she has done but you will have too forget it for your fathers sake, but i just cant shes hurt me so much and doesnt respect me and they want me too forgive and forget ive tryed people dont just understand!, i just dont no how to forgive her? but will i ever forgive her ? i would love if she moved out and i never got too see her again, ive even gone aways for a week or too, or could she see me as a treat? i just wanna get along, i realy dont want this family too fall apart. (link)
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i think that you should distance yourself from your mom try not talking to her so much maybe she will realize that she needs to treat you better
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Ok, this is really long but if you answer this you will help me get my smile back.
I broke up with my boyfriend 'A' of 2 years. Things were'nt working out between us,. However we continue to be friends.
The thing is, immediately after the break up I fell for his friend 'D'. They're friends but not that great. It's not that it was sudden. I had liked him for almost six months but always tried to convince my self that it was just infatuation.
But now I realise its way more than that. Way more than even liking him. Its more like Im in love (yes, LOVE) with him. Its not that he hasn't shown any signs. You know the way he looks at me. Its not like normal looking its the kind as if he wants to just hold me. Even when he talks to me there is this softness in his voice which I noticed isn't there when he talks to other people.
'D' has a gf. But she's in India studying. So far away from him. She's been a bitch to him. She broke up with him and then got back again and then left for India for the next 3 years.
The thing is I want him to know I love him. But I'm afraid f the following:
1.He might think I'm desparate.
2.I jump from one guy to another.
3.Im a player.
4.He probably loves his gf.
5.HE MIGHT TOTALLY FLIP.
6.I might lose him as a friend.
7.'A' might try to tell him stuff about me which might freak him out.
In what way can I approach him.
Ps- I dont talk to him or meet him that much.
I hope u understand I love 'D' and Advicenator people are the only ones I can turn to when such miserable things happen to me.
Thanks a lot. (link)
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OMG!!!! i hope i help cause i just got out of this crisis! ok so dont be stupid and do what i did.......you really dont need to know...........so anyways the thing that i needed to realize but didnt is that maybe you should hint to him not exactly tell him but hint at it and see if you guys can ever hang out alone if you can then confide little things to him but dont give him the whole picture just yet and if you guys start to grow closer then tell him how you feel about your ex and how you think your ex feels about you and then he will know ahead of time what to expect from your ex after things go smoothly for a few weeks then whenever you guys have time alone you can tell him lightly (dont just blurt it out cause that might freak him out)
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16/f
The guy i have liked for about 4 months now (and we "talked" a week over the summer), well like i was saying, i really like him. He is really cute but he has a really nice personality to go with it to. He is a big flirt with girls but he isn't a player. When he has a girlfriend, he dosen't flirt with other girls. Anyways, well my best friend has a flirty personality. They both are like that. Well when they are around eachother, it seems like they flirt. A bunch of people think this, it's not just me. Whenever i confronted her about it, she was like "No! I don't like him like that, i consider him as my brother, he is my best guy friend!!" Well, he tells her everything since they are "best friends." Everytime someone is like "Do you like eachother?" Brayden(the guy i like ) always tells lauren (my bff) "They are just jealous that me and you are best friends and that we hang out and stuff..." and she's like "yeah, since we are good friends." She talks about him being her best friend in front of me all the time and is like "people are so jealous of our friendship." I wouldn't even have the nerve to say that to her if it was the other way around. I wouldn't flirt with the guy she likes and say "oh, i can't tell you who he likes because we are bestfriends." She would have told me 2 months ago if i asked her because her and him were not as close friends then. She even once tried to hook me up with him. (Didn't work) It makes me kind of upset when i ask her who he likes and she won't tell me. A couple months ago, she would have, but now they hang out a lot more. I know she dosen't want to betray his secret but i am supposed to be her best friend and i think about who he likes all the time and she knows that and she won't tell me. She's his "best friend" obviously more than she is mine. They always hug and he hugs me to but her more. I get jealous..i will just admit it. I mean, i know i am probably not the girl he likes because he dosen't really show it, so now i just want to focus on just being his friend. I can't do that because lauren keeps getting in the way. Everytime he needs help with something, she is right there by his side, she automatically drops what she is doing to go help him. I would do that if i had the chance but i don't because she always gets in the way. She is supposed to be my best friend and help me get to be his friend more and stuff but whenever i get that chance, she always takes it from me. Best friends shouldn't do that. If it was the other way around, i would help her get the chance to talk to the guy she liked instead of me constantly being by him. I know she would never go out with him because "they wouldnt want to ruin their friendship." I know that they wouldn't go out, it's just the fact that they are such close friends and why i can't ever get the chance to get in when she is supposed to be helping me with him. Also, not telling me who he likes. Am i being selfish? Please somebody tell me what to do or some advice so i can finally feel good for one day!! Thanks!! (link)
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t5his might not make you feel much better but that sounds like your just jealous and thats not an easy emotion to deal with -trust me been there!!! but the only way i can see this going to work is if you let him go and just move on if your friend is getting in the way then maybe you should find someone else to occupy your time im not saying look for a guy who is going to take the other guys place or use somebody for attention but i am saying maybe you should widen your range a little
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18/M
First off, I must say, there are so few males that post on this site. Lol.
Anyways, I'm a little worried since my girlfriend hasn't made me orgasm yet. She is pretty good at what she does, and we've gotten very intimate in the past week or so. However, we agreed not to have sex until a bit later. I've made her cum twice before but she can't make me for some reason- I get soft before it happens despite the fact that I'm really turned on. Does someone know why this is?
Thank you (link)
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well it could simply be your body telling you that your not ready for that or maybe thats just the way your body is and you cant help that its not your fault and your not doing anything wrong its just the way your body reacts you could ask your doctor about some possible meds.......although i know thats not something that i would be easily convinced to do myself
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Alright, I'm a new member here so this will be my "first" post.. My name is Chase, 13 and am in 8th grade.. I'm kinda curious about a couple of things, and how I should handle them..
I really like this one girl, we started talking for the first time back in March or so.. I thought things were going well for a while, I knew she didn't have feelings for me like I had for her, but I was fine w/ that..
A few months later it seemed that she started liking me, throughout the summer during school break we're talking pretty often and I thought things were going quite well..
Around a month ago, shortly before school started, her friends (which were busy doing other stuff during summer) started hanging out w/ her again. Which I was fine with, 'cause I knew she hadn't seem them much, and then now that school has started, she decided to date this one guy and hangs out w/ all her friends, and it seems a bit "different" when talking to me..
Mind you, we both go to seperate schools..
Any idea what I should do? Perhaps just give it a break and let her spend time w/ this new boyfriend as well as her friends?
Thanks in Advance!
Chase (link)
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i think you are definetly on the right track when it comes to allowing her her space and i think that if you dont let the fact that she has a new boyfriend bother you then maybe if things dont work out between them and you give her the time to realize that you want to be more with her than friends then you could very well have a chance with but try not to rush her ok
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