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Q: Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =]
I think that you shouldn't do anything you dont want to. If this boy is "prince charming" then he should also have respect for your descisions** and not make you do anything your not sure of. Your still YOUNG and if this boy is gonna force you to make the choices then maybe he's tooo old for you at 13! You have to respect your friends desicions because you know what ususally happens to all these young girls who think they have found their future husband...they get there hearts broken. Its unfortunate but its the truth. Just make the right choices and dont worry about what he thinks... do what you feel is right!!

Q: my sisters are so pretty i just feel like im not and i hate that...then i always feel fat to because there are girls in my class who are like size zeros and im like not a size zero im tall and i weigh a bit but what is the average weight of a 14 yr old who is like 5'3 and how could i spruce up my look ill rate if this really helps me thnx
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p.s. is this low self-esteem and how could i have good self esteem
I can relate. I have two older sisters who in my opinion are pretty also. I also have a low self esteem. You have to realize that everybody is different and everybody has a problem with themselves inside and out. I bet your beautiful on the outside and inside.

Q: ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight?
We all know when it comes down to saying the truth we know that with diets the only thing that works is healthy eating and exercise. If your so concerned with your weight maybe join a sport or gym that you can really enjoy with a friend. No matter what people think you'll always be beautiful.

Q: Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks!
You have to tell this girl the truth. Dont be afraid, she had enough courage to tell you that she likes you in that way. Just tell her that you still want to be friends but if she's going to go over the limits and try touching or doing stuff with you then I rather stay away.

Q: Girls this is for you. there is one spot down there that gets itchy often. it is on my "pussy lip" on the left side. i was just wondering what i should do because it has been this way for a couple of months now and i don't want to go to the doctor because i don't want them to look at me down there and it could be because i rub it (masterbate)? i dotn know y it would be itchy... so im gonna stop doing that for a while but it still isnt going away. what could it be? do i have an infection? i will rate 5s
First of all ALWAYS wash your hands before doing anything below the belt. Dont be scared to go to the doctor you can alway get a female doctor and for now just clean really good .

Q: okay well im 14/f and i've shaved my down below area...now wenever i do it again it hurts b/c theres these little red dots and they start to bleed...please help me idk wat to do
I just think you shouuldn't do it everyday. Its like shaveing your underarms, you'll get razor burn if you do it all the time.

Q: i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice?
Just be like "'Hey mom I'm a women now."

Q: Is masterbation a sin? Some people think it is, and some people think it's not. Some people think it is-- only under cirtain circumstances. Like if it's for lust, then yes it is, but if it's not for lust then it isn't..> Is it? Or isn't it?
Of course not its a way of letting out your sexual feeling. I do it all the time its natural.

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Hey I am 15 years old and go to High School. My best friends are Cynthia and Kristen I love you guys lots and I dont know what I would do with out you guys and I have the BEST boyfreind in the world and I love him soooo much. Just so you know I play basketball and I am almost a black-belt in karate SO WATCH OUT BITCHES!Don't mess with the Italian Black Belts!! lol. Just so you know I specialize in giving advice aside from my many other talents!(Which i will not mention) lol So please feel free to ask what ever the hell is on your mind!!!

~I LOVE S+M~

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Cynthia wanna clean my carpet after your done eating your doritos!!! lol

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