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My cousin has been masturbating since she was 3 years old. Is that normal? She is 17 now.

Wow. Haha I'm not sure if that is normal or not...I'd check with a parent/doctor. My answer is no it's not normal.

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is it normal for a girls breasts to be uneven? im a 14/f and like my left is alot bigger than the other one like practically a half a size or a full size. and its annoying . is it going to change?


sorry if this is in the wrong category

This is normal. They will even out once you get older. Sorry for your bad luck :(

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soo i've had my period since the beginning of july and i still have it! this is not the first time. i got it 3 years ago, so it's not like it could still be irregular. i'm scared to go to a gynocologist (sp?) - does any one have any idea whats wrong with me? and waht i could do? thanks so much.

The same thing happened to me once. I had my period for 4 weeks and I asked a question like this one and I was scared to go to the doctor also. I would just keep using pads/tampons until is goes away. It is normal :]

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Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help!

I know you want to remember the memory, but try it in a different way. Write it down in a journal or take a picture of in the shirt with your boyfriend. You definitly need to wash the pants though.

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ok well me and my "bf" want to go somewhere special and we dont want to go to the movies been there done that to many times! and not my house b.c heres the thing i want to tell him i love him for the first time!! and he has something to give me and things like that so not my house to many people, there is like 8 people there. not his house his mom is all over his kids when girls coome over, well thats what he said. so any ideas its tongiht or tomorrow but i need answers quick thanx!

You could go bowling, or to a theme park. Or you could just go out to eat at a nice restaurant. Actually it doesn't have to be nice, it can just be like a diner. It depends what you want to do. If you want entertainment or something then go to bowling or a theme park. If you want it to be romantic you could go to a park and have a picnic or somewhere like that. Have Fun!

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does anybody have any websites i can got to get layouts at for myspace? i already know whateverlife.com thanks

www.myspace.com/headrush_lyts
www.createblog.com

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What can you put on your skin to make it softer?

Moisterizer or lotion helps. Dove, or any other type you can buy them mostly at any store.

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this guy really likes me and hes asked me out about 7 times. i dont really know what to do cause he reallt likes me but i dont think i like him. :/ wat should i do to tell him? plz anwser QUICK cause he just asked me out AGAIN!!!

If you don't like him, then don't go out with him. It's as simple as that. I know you don't want to hurt his feelings, but that's the way it is.

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I'm 13 years old and I like fashion but I really don't have any style. I really wanna be a model when I get older because I'm 5'6 and only 105 punds and alot people tell me that I'm pretty. Does anyone have any advice on how to become more of a fashion expert?

To get more knowledge on fashion you could read magazines, go to model shows, search for articles on the internet about clothing. If you have any other questions about fashion and style I'd be happy to answer.

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I'm a married man. I used to have a group of female friends in high school and they recently contacted me. I want to see them, but my wife would probably not want me to. Should I see them secretly, ask my wife and respect her wishes, or tell my wife and do as I please? We are just friends.

Tell your wife. If she finds out you lied to her then she will be even more mad. So tell her, and if she doesn't want you to go, assure her that you will not do ANYTHING with them and that they are just friends. You could have them come to the house to meet your wife, and just talk to her about it. Good Luck.

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okay, i had forgotten my password to here.
so i got a new one sent to my email address. however, its all confusing numbers. how do i change it now that i am logged in?
please help as soon as possible

Go to profile settings and there is a box where you can type your new password.

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This is long so be prepared...

I'm 13/f and I'm having trouble with my body image. I used to be overweight (about 2 years ago) but then my mom helped me get into a better diet and now I'm not SO overweight and fat. Over the past few months I've been starting to eat sweets here and there but I'm still exercising a lot. The feeling of "Oh my gosh I've gotten so fat" suddenly came on in the past month. I have even gained weight and I'm really, really close to being over weight according to the weight chart. I will admit that I'm one of those girls who says "I'm fat" in front of my friends and especially my mom and expect to hear "oh no you're not." So when I said "I've gained a lot of weight!!! GOSH I'm starting to get so fat again..." to my mom she didn't say anything like "you're over reacting...you look just fine." She simply said "well, you're going to have to work on that." I was shocked =O I couldn't believe that even she had started to notice (and in a way agreed with me) and now I'm starting to wonder if other people notice. So...I got really depressed about it...and said to myself "if I could just be skinny I'd feel so much better about myself..." I hate thinking that the only way to get thin is to just not eat. I also realize I'm putting how I LOOK in front of my HEALTH and it's bothering me that I am ignoring what becoming a semi-anorexic would do to my health. I'm not exactly "huge" but I do have plenty of extra pounds I want to get rid of. At the moment I'm really upset because I don't know what to do. When I talked to my mom she just said "well, you need to get back into eating healthy" but I am and it ISN'T WORKING. She also says "You are also over reacting about becoming anorexic. you're being such a drama queen." HELLO! I'M SERIOUS HERE!! and i don't plan on becoming skin and bones. I really need some advice on what to do...I'm worrying myself by the way I'm thinking! =[

Whatever you do, don't become anorexic. That is one of the worst possible things you can do to your body. You can die from it. Get back on the diet that your mom helped you with. I'm sure your mom didn't mean that in a horrible way. She probably just let it slip out. I'm sure your not fat. But, if you feel you really want to lose weight, then just exersize more often and stick to that diet. I wish you good luck :]

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which colour eye shadows suit green eyes?

Brown, apricot, purple, plum and forest green colors brighten up green eyes. You can add a touch of boldness to the face by experimenting with gold, lime-green, very light green and bright purple shades.

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Apparently I'm too sarcastic and sometimes people don't appreciate it. They think I don't take things seriously and I make other feel bad. But people say and do some stupid things and they deserve some sarcasm. I love sarcastic people, they're funny (I'm not saying I think I'm funny; I think others are). Anyway, I'm having a hard time cutting down on the sarcasm, possibly because I don't even realize that I am being sarcastic, it just comes out. Any help?

Being sarcastic is funny sometimes, but if you do it a lot it can get on people's nerves after a while. What I would do is try really hard to think about what you're about to say before you say anything. If that doesn't work, then whenever you say something sarcastic, apologize for saying it and say you didn't mean it. Reward yourself for when you don't use sarcasm when you would have before you thought about it. Good Luck!

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