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Are u able to buy diet pills if u are under the age of 18 (link)
no you are not able to do that. you have to be over 18 and if im wrong just ask your parents


Quick! How do you say "to climb" in Spanish??? (link)
im sry but i dont know spanish sry


i straighten my hair and by the time i get to school its kinda poofy and thick.. my question is what can i do so it will stay longer.. put a little gel or moouse in ? (link)
try to put both in,yea i know how you feel the same thing happened to me just put gel and moose everywhere and then use hair spray, try that and then get back to me!



Ok...i waz goin out wit this kid named Ryan but he broke up wit like about 4 weeks ago.I have been tryen and tryen to move on but i juss cant.I have even tried to go out wit sumone else but it didnt work.We were in so much love i dont even kno wat happened.He told meh he wanted meh to move on and to find sumone better but i think thea is no one better than hym.It has seemed like he got over the fact that we are over bc he is already wit sumone else.I told hym i didnt like one thing about hym and it waz that he got stoned.So i talked to his best friend about it and i told her wat i waz thinken about sayen to hym and she told meh to do it bc if he realli loves meh then he wuld pick meh.So i told hym i didnt like the fact that he got stoned wen he waz wit meh so i wanted hym to pick meh or gettin high.And i even told hym mab he culd get stoned once in a while if i knew about it.And he told meh he had to think about it so i waz like ok and then he told meh his answer and he said i guess pot is more impotant.So i talked to hym about that answer and he said he only said it bc he wanted meh to move on and find sumone better.But i keep tellin hym over and over again that thea is none better than hym but he still wants meh to move on and to juss be friends,but i dont wanna be juss friends i still wanna be wit hym but i dont kno wat to say or do to get hym bak....i mean i love hym soo much and i dont realli think he knos it......plz help..wat shuld i do??¿¿ (link)
Well you should keep on trying for a little while longer, and you should talk to him about how much you love him and what he is to you. just talk to him about things.but if that doesnt work just try one more time to move on because if a guy thinks getting high or stoned is more important than being with you that's pretty bad and you don't deserve him


Ok so let me explain the situation first: I went out with this guy, Payton, and everything was great, until I was told he made a bet about me and our relationship (not like a bet to ask me out he really did like me). Then we fought a lot and he ended it saying things just weren't working out and he liked someone else more.

After we broke up he continued to flirt with me and tell me we should make out and stuff even though we weren't together anymore and were just "friends". Now today when we went to the movies with a big group he commented to my good friend on how hot i looked today. I always see him staring at me in class and stuff too. I kinda still have feelings for him too..What should i do? Sould i try it with him again or let it go? I am scared that he wants me back just because he has no one right now and things didn't sork out with him for with the other girl. THANKS! (link)
Well i think you should give him another chance and if it doesnt work out this time then just dont go back out with him for a while.if he still has feelings for you and you still have feelings for him you should give him one more chance.


Hi, I'm a really really shy guy, and so like asking people out (which I've only done once) takes like all my energy and like an hour, and I always worry about what if she says no, what if, what if, etc. Are there any good ways to overcome shyness? And saying to just face my fears doesn't exactly help... can someone tell me how to face them instead? Thanks all! (link)
give me ur sn and i will help u!


hi im thirteen and my moms been having really bad neck pain, i was just wondering if this could be a problem like a deadly thing because shes been getting headaches and she has been really tired lately and she doesnt seem very comfortable. but my main question is: is this serious? (link)
well i think it depends on how old your mom is. a lot of parents have things like that. but how long have this been happening it depends on that too? get back to me


hi i think im beginning to have a crush on this boy Michael, Michael is a senior and I am a sophmore, I met Michael last year when my cousin who was a senior last year took me to a party at his house, it was in the winter and very snowy and we drank s we stayed there. everyone was downstairs playing beerpong and i was in his living room tired, about to passout and he sat on the other couch and talked to me, hes just naturally a really nice yet really popular kid. so yeah in school he usually makes eye contact with me but we havent really talked since last feb/march? so i went to the football game with a bunch of people and i saw him on the bus and he was lookin at me ( well i think) and so somehow i had balls today and IMed him saying "nice game last night" and he said "thanks, i still couldnt play though" and i said ohh yeah.. then we didnt talk and i dont want to IM him again, and he obviously knows who i am ( my sn basically says my name) i want him to kind of get the feeling i like him (rmember we dont talk) what should i do when i see him in the halls at school? thankss (link)
i think you should have some more balls and at least try to talk to him and when you get comfortable then try to flirt with him then he will probably get the feeling you like him.


ok all the time my hands get all clamy and sweaty and even after i put on lotion is there anything i can do or iam i stuck with clamy hands (link)
im sorry but im not sure if there is anything you can do. sorry


i heard that cracking your fingers releases stress. is that true? becuase it is a natural habit for me and i can tell you... i am under a ton of stress! (link)
well if you crack your fingers everyday you will get atheritis(sry dont no how to spell it)and that means that when you move what you cracked it will hurt. and no it doesnt release stress, just get one of those stress balls or tell your friend about things that are going on and maybe him or her will help you out.


I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for over a year. Its a pretty special relationship to me. But, theres always these never ending problems that I can't fix anymore. There are times when he'll know that I need him, and he'll leave, not like I'll be crying and say, "I need you" I mean like, we'll have plans to meet online or something, and he'll go to his friends house. I'm usually always ok with him leaving to go to a friends house. But, we hardly got to talk last weekend and now this weekend we never talked, and now next weekend he'll be gone and he knew that he would be. We always have problems where he'll be gone, or just a silly issue will happen. I'd hate to sound like one of those desperate girls, but hes different. He isn't the type to just leave me like that, he feels really bad when he forgets something or did something wrong, yet it keeps happening, and I'm the only one to always think of a solution to fix us, well, this time I decided to make him think, and hes saying we should break up for now. We have recently taken a lot of breaks to help us, we started with taking the whole weekend away, and then we moved on to a week and a half, and here we are stuck again. I have never been so terrified in my life about this relationship failing. I guess I need to know if breaking up for now was the right thing, or if we should be doing something we havn't already done. I think there is something inside of him wanting to work this out, but something else forgets. I'm really open to any answers, I just need help, I'm really depressed. What would be the best solution to you?


I'll be sure to rate, but I hope I get true answers. (link)
Well obviously if he's alwayz leaving and you guyz never talk or something like that there is something wrong. I don't think you guyz breaking up would be the right thing because normally when couples break up they start not talking to eachother for a long time because u just broke up! So no it was not the right thing and you should have or should call him and talk to him about you and his relationship and try to solve the problems that you and he are having. I know how long distance relationships are im in one right now. Get back to me


ok well this guy. bob* i really like for some odd reason and i dont know why i just like him. but i never really talked to him. he is the greatest thing i swear well kinda. anyways my friend joe* was like i will just ask him to homecoming for you and i said no. and he was like ok whatever. then the next day my friend told me he said no to homecoming. and bob* said no because he only liked me as a friend thats all. and now i don't know if i should call him and talk to him about it. I am kinda a shy person when it comes around the guy i like. but what should i do?? HELP!!! I am 14 he is 14. I am a female. he is a male. Plus bob* always looks at me at lunch and in pe.

* names have been changed (link)
Even though your shy you should still call him and try to talk to him about it. And just to tell you something guyz lie, if you ask them if they like you they will say no because guyz don't admit thingz like that trust me i have been through it. If he is looking at you a lot in those classes then yes he does like you. So just call him up and talk to him about the homecoming and other thingz like that. and if you have any friends that need help im here for u and them gurl!


Okay so I have my period but the blood is like black is this normal or should I get checked out...I dont have a sex life..but I dint know where to put this..THANKS...I give 5's!!! (link)
umm yea your blood being black is not normal so yes you should get checked out.


Recently one of my good friends and I have been sleeping together, but now hes trying to get back together with his girlfriend of two years. She and I are good friends also, and decided to get together to talk and just hang out. I informed him that if she asked about us, I wouldnt lie about it. He convinced me otherwise, saying that if I told the truth, they would never be together again.

So my question is, do I lie to her or not? I love them both, and want both of them to be happy, but I dont know what to do.

extra info: 19/f (link)
Well if you are really good friends with her, friends don't lie to eachother well not really really good friends. So i think you should not lie to her, tell the truth but then talk to her about it some more and try to talk about how you guyz won't do it anymore if they go out and other things like that.


okay so 2 nights ago i gave my boyfriend head for the 2nd time. the first time he was wearing a condom bc i was to scared of risks. but this time he was not wearing one. he busted in my mouth but as soon as it went in my mouth i spit it into the sink. i didnt wash my mouth out but i spit as much as i could out. i knew what i was doing since i did it once b4 with him & he said it felt really good this time cause he wasnt wearing a condom & all.

Facts::
-ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year!! =)
-we are both virgins
-im the only one hes ever done oral with
-we DO love eachother (link)
ok at your age you shouldn't be doing stuff like that anyway because if you do it again and something slips then you either might get a disease from getting that stuff in your mouth or you might accidently have a baby(if he puts his thing in your downstairs). So basically you shouldn't be doing it at the age 14 you could do something wrong and then something bad will go wrong. If your really scared then don't do it anymore, well atleast not at this age.


me and my ex-boyfriend just started talkin again. i like him again and i think he likes me again but im not sure.he says he wants to have sex with me. he always says it so i went to his house and all we did was watch his brother play a video game for 2 hours then i had to leave. i asked him y he didnt do anything and he said he didnt want to do it while his brothers were sittin right there becuz his room is in his basement and both of his brothers were sittin right there. does he really want to do this with me and does it look like we will ever go out again?? we flirt all the time and before we stop talkin to each other we always say i love u.i really like him so i need sum help. sorry its so long!! (link)
well my quetion to you is do u want to have sex with him? It depends on what you want to do, just get back to me on that question.


ok im pretty new to this and im tryin to upload my picture but it keeps sayin your picture is bigger than 15K in file size. Whats that supposed to mean? (link)
It means that your picture can't be bigger than that size,so try to edit it and see if that works.


Please only answer this question if you know a lot about singing and have musical knowledge. Thanks!

I've been singing for about 3-4 years now, and I've always been an Alto (I'm a female, by the way).
My voice isn't that great though (in my opinion), even though I've been singing for a long time.

I have a vibrato (For those of you that don't know, that's when your voice shakes a bit when you sing. I can control it, though). My question is, is there any way I can improve my voice and make it higher, like to a second Soprano?

Thanks so much! (link)
well what i think you should do is just hang in there and keep on trying. if you practice everyday it will get better and better and then it will b where u want it to be eventually!


i cant get winmx to work. it wont connect to the internet, does anyoneknow how i can fix it (link)
i know how to get it to work.give me your screen name if you have one and i will tell you how!


Hey. Does anybody know for sure if that Aussie "Sprunch" Spray stuff works? ITs fro scrunching your hair...

thanks bunches (link)
yes that spray stuff for ur fro. does work,i dont have a fro cuz im a gurl and all but i no a kid that has a fro and that uses some type of fro stuff,i forget wut kind tho.




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