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im 13/m...All of my friends say that i always flirt with this girl. she used to like me A LOT and then when i started going out with my g/f about 8 months ago, she like started yelling at me and we didnt talk. But now, we are friends again and we talk, but whenever we do, EVERYONE says that we flirt, nonstop. i try not to, but i just cant help it, i love my girlfriend and i mean that. what should i do pls help me......
PS.... how do you flirt? i barely know what that means (link)
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Flirting just happens on naturally. You don't think about it. You should stay loyal to your girlfriend but if you should tell her about the situation. If you just flurt with her but don't like her it just means your a lady's man.lol. But whichever makes you happy or happier is the one you should be with.
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Ok, theres this guy that went to my church last night and he was SOO cute and really funny! and his eyes are VERY pretty, they arent blue or green they are brown but SOO pretty! lol anyway, we have a youth group place and we went to the worship place and its where we like stand up, then sit down and then stand up ya know and when i looked at him he was staring at me! im only 13 and i guess i should know what that means but i dont! haha everytime i looked he was staring at me! and when he first did it, he like jerked his eyes away quick and i did the same but later on we would take like 2 seconds glances, like i dunno! what does that mean? does he like em or jsut think im cute! please i need advice before i make myself look stupid! haha (link)
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He's probably shy to admit his feelings to you. I think you should tell him he's cute and all those other things and she what happens between y'all.
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The other day, I told my ex boyfriend's best friend that I sometimes still care about my ex. I am going to guess the he told my ex this. Today, after english class my ex walks up to me. He said my name and I said what. Then he said "I don't hate you." Do you think he said this because he still cares about me? Or do you think he said this just to let me know that he doesn't hate me. I find it ironic that he's just going to walk up and tell me this. Thanks. Good answer, good rating. (link)
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Your ex most likely still cares about you. It's hard to get over someone you feel deeply in love with. Maybe he still cares about you. Maybe there's still hope for you two. But you don't know until you ask him. "Do you still want him?" is the question you need to be asking yourself.
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My friend has gone crazy! We used to be really close. Then, we got in a fight because she thought I was "copying" her (whatever that means" but about a month later, she called to apologize to me and said that "she was stupid" and blah blah blah. Whatever. Well, a month after that, (a couple weeks ago) we were talking on te internet (MSN messanger) and I said, "I have to go because my mom is taking me to KOHL's because they have a sale and I need another pair of pants." She got mad because SHE shops there and now, she thinks I'm copying her. I want to be her friend but what's a friend if you can't trust her? There's no point for friendship if it is going to work out that way! I need to know if I should just apologize for something that is totally stupid and pointless, or wait for her to calm down and call me so she can realize how dumb she's been? I have no earthly idea what has gotten into her. Like, we used to go shopping together for matching clothes and shoes but I never thought it bothered her. It never bothered me when she did something exactly like me! And yes, she has done many things like me just to be like me. We called each other all these REALLY mean names but I don't want to be her friend if I can't even go to the same store as her! By the way, she informed me about that store and it was on T.V but their clothes are really expensive but they are so adorable. By the way, I'm 13 years old and I rate 5's to whoever on this earth can help me! What should I do??? (link)
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Your friend shouldn't try to change you. Your friend should accept you for who you are. And if she can't deal with that, you're better off without her. Kohl's is a popular place. She shouldn't just get mad over such a silly lil thing. She might as well get mad at you for walking the same Earth she does.
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I just found out my boyfriend is a bisexual...i don't know what to do, it freaks me out
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wow.thats...weird.i honestly don't know what to tell you.just....do wat feels right for the best in the future
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whenever i do crunches on the floor, i always get bad headachs. does anyone know whyy? well anyways, so since i get headaches while doing then on the floor, i do the crunches on my bed. do you think theres a difference between doing crunches on the floor and the bed? its my only way of doing crunches because my head hruts whenever i do crunches on the floor pleasehelp! (link)
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If you do it on the bed it doesn't do anything because you bounce of the mattress. If you get headaches doing crunches then try a different exercise. I can't think of any excericeses you could do at the moment but you could always jog.
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ok i have this friend and we have become very close very quickly or so i thought.....i think he used to like me but now hes flirting with all these girls and he has a gf....to make matters worse i told him my feelings and hes ignored me...and his gf is a total slut...breaking hearts left and right with no considertaion towards peoples feelings...and she says she is depressed wtf.....well how do i get over him and whats his deal? (btw this has been going on for a while and we remain friends..ugh) (link)
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I myself have never completely ever gotten over a girl I've evr liked. He prolly still likes you but he's scared to ask you out. Or maybe he thinks if he gets together with you he'll just hurt you even more. If his g/f depressed with him she should break it off because he doesn't make her happy anymore. Don't try to stop loving him. Something as complicated as love shouldn't be forced. It's a natural substance and should stay natural.
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Okay, i've been dating this guy for like 2 months...and he's being really immature and he can't do things very often cuz his parents r really strict and he's been really busy. I want to wait for summer when he can do more stuff because i really like him....what should i do? dump or wait~*Kt*~ (link)
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If you think he's worth the wait then wait for him. But don't let him hold you back from anything. It's not his fault he's never available.Tell him to grow up if he's being immature, but in a nicer way. If he's being immature it's probably just so he can heard you laugh. Just do what feels right in the long run.
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ohkay, my boyfriend, Chris tried making out with me but then i pulled back. He said he's planning on doing it again. But i love him so much and i feel so bad, so i plan on making the move, so guys, how would you want a girl to "make the move"?
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Don't worry. It'll come natural to you. If you pull away, it's your body's way of telling you that you're not ready. But to answer your question,we like to hold our girls tight and put out hands around your waist.
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Alright, I was up at a skating rink I always go to and I was skating, I saw this guy who was skating backwards. Im one of those who just doesnt let a guy get to me. For some out of the blue reason, he started talkin to me. I was so stunned by him, thers no way anyone could understand how shocked I was to see him. I didnt even know him. So about a week later hes down here again at this rink. We talk and I find out hes from Brewton, AL. Its only about 50 min. away from Milton. Im a Sophmore and hes a Senior, theres something about him that strikes me (in a good way) We start goin out about half a month later, Things were so good between me and him for weeks and I liked him a lot, I even lost my virginity to him. I dont why but I coudlnt resist him. It felt like something told me it was okay, so weeks later Im starting to feel like he doesnt like me, because hes not comeing down to see me. (Plus he had a good reason he had wrecked his car a couple weeks back because he was driving home from my house at like 3 in the morning and hit a deer.) For three weeks I keep my calm, and listen to his reasons for not comeing.. Finally on the 4th week I call him for 3 days in a row.. not getting an answer, I finally leave a message. Saying that " We cant be together and I dont think its gonna work and that if he wants to talk give me a call" A week goes by and I decide to call him, We talk and I ask him why he never returned my call.. he says he was too mad that I had ended it. I asked him if thats the way he wanted things to be, he sed "No,not at the time, but it would have ended that way eventually" Thats about all was said.. So here it is a month later. And my friend sees him down at Opps Alley a place down here close to Milton, She talks to him about us breaking up, and if thats what he wants. He tells her no,but now it doesnt matter anymore. I really have feelings for this guy, and he doesnt know it. I know, that to call him wouldnt make a difference, because its just not gonna work. But I think about it and what if Im suppose to call him? If something wasnt meant for me and him at all..Why'd God put him there that one night at the skating rink,when he lives miles away? And why was it me he noticed, and what made me notice him ? You think theres was anything there..or am I just tryin to make myself believe something might actually be between us ? And before you answer I've had lots of quick relationships,except for 1 that lasted about 6 months. So Im not falling for him cause hes like my first boyfriend or nothing, I've had experience.
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It seems long distance relationships don't work for you. If y'all don't see eacch other often it probably won't work out because you love him so much that you can't stand to see him like once a month or whatever. Just follow your heart and do what feels right. Best of luck to ya
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Well me and this guy are friends I like him and stuff well he wants to go to the movies this weekend but my mom said I cant date until im 17. I told her its just as friends but she still says no. Just because she iddnt start dating until she was 17 doesnt mean she had to do that to me. What should I do? I really realllly wanna go with him. (link)
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Try to get some friends to go with you so you go in a group. Then you can just sit seperate from your friends in the theater if you want to be alone with him. If your mom still says no then you're just going to have to wait. You can still walk with him in the halls and talk to him over the phone. Just don't let your parents know. lol
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15/F--I like this guy, and its the first time I've liked a guy mostly based on his personality and having looks coming second. I'm not a shallow person but when I usally like guys I'm attracted to them physically. But he is a great guy and he has told me before that I was pretty, and that I was a great person all around. I decided to finally do something about wanting to be more than friends, and a friend of mine is going to talk to him tomorrow. I'm happy that he will find out, but also kinda scared because I feel that there might be no chance. When he compliements me, he says it when I feel down about my looks and everything so I feel that its just his way of trying to make me happy. So when he asks me about me liking him, online (we go to different schools) I am going to be at a loss for words. I want to say everything is true, but on the other hand I want to run and hide. I am just so insecure about myself and what he will think of me, its making me crazy. I'm not really asking for specific advice, just comments and words of enncouragment. What should I tell him when he asks me about it? Thanks and I'll rate you a 5 no matter what! (link)
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Just show him what you just typed. It won't be easy but it's 4 the best.If you're into him for more than looks,then he's probably different then other guys.If he tries 2 make you smile when your down it's because he sees your pain and it hurts him 2 see you like that. From the sounds of it he wants you just as much as you want him. Done be in doubt. Doubt is 1 of the worst ways 2 start a relationship. Hope is all you have for now so hang onto it and don't let go. Sure there might be set backs but if you really love him, you'll hang on 4 wat all it's worth and enjoy every bit of it. Hope I helped out
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