well im 14 years old im from chicago Ill, im a kinda shy person but sometimes i can be loud to. Im in the 8 grade love music, and love to sing im a great friend and always listen to people whenever they have a problems im always there.
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I've been eating one meal a day. I know this is probably not healthy...and I'm not doing it to diet. I just can't stop. I didn't have breakfast or lunch 2 days in a row and when i returned home I had a dinner which barely consisted of anything. I really am not dieting although I am overweight...I am content with myself. I'm sure this is not healthy but I do drink lots of water and juices. Can anything bad happpen to me? (link)
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well eating one meal a day isnt healthy at all and it dont make you loose weight either.And you should at least try to eat a lil bit like at breakfast if you dont want nothing that you think might make you over weight, try eating something soft like a bowl of cereal. And i know that i dont know how you look like but im pretty sure your not over weight. Just like yourself for who you are not what you are.
good luck!!!
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i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..
alright well..
one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.
i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.
i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.
i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?
thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice. (link)
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well i have two suggest you could just erase everything on myspace, your page,your acount everything and just dont tell them but then again you dont want to lie to them so you should just have a myspace but dont put anything on there that might get you in trouble. Just explain to them what myspace is tell them that you are carefull of what you doing then maybe they might understand.
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I'm sorry if I put this in the wrong category but this is important. I really don't know what to do with the situation I am facing right now. My partner I have in Drama class, we both hate eachother. She actually came out and told me this. We have this huge project due where we do duet scenes and if I dont do good on it, I could fail. The teacher paired everyone up. Well anyway, the main issue is the fact that she won't work with me. She is always over talking to her friends and only wants to work when it is convienent for her. She wants me to follow her around like I'm some lost puppy and I don't appreciate it. I don't like to fight so please don't suggest that. And also, I have told the teacher about the issue with this girl. She said, I don't want to hear about it. I don't want to have the reputation for being a rat and I already pretty much have that. Weird thing is, me and this girl use to be friends until she became this really popular cheerleader and became mean to everyone. (link)
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confront her is all i can say, dont follow her around like she is your puupy dog because all she is doing is makeing a fool out of you. Try to work things out, and tell her sraight up that you are not goin to put up with this, make her understand that even though yall dont like eachother you goin to have to work together cause in the furthur you goin to be working with people you dont like. So try to deal with it both of yall. And dont be affarid to stand up to her be strong.
good luck!!
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i just got out of the shower like 10 minutes ago, and i went to my room to get a shirt because i grabbed the wrong one, and i got this pain like i was gonna get sick or something. but then i came down stairs and it got worse. it felt like someone was stabbing me or hitting me with something repeatedly in my mid to lower back. because of the pain it was hard to breathe and i started crying cause it really hurt. it doesn't hurt right now, but what could it be? (link)
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well i dont know whats really wrong with you it could be somting serious. So i think you should got check it out at the doctors.
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well theres this guy i like and i dont know if he likes me or not i mean we dont really talk that much but i really really like him. also there his a school dance(middle school) coming up and im wondering if i should ask him or not? should i? is it okay for a girl to ask a guy to a dance or should he ask her? im mean what if he doesnt like me would it be akward then? sshould i ask him? (link)
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i think you should ask him if you really really like him and if you dont do it right away then someone else might will.
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i know this sounds really stupid but i get bored a lot. and i usually end up spending a lot of time on the computer when i do. I don't want to spend so much time on the computer but it seems like everytime i get bored there is nothing else i can do. i finish my homework, read, practice cello, eat dinner, listen to music... etc. but i still run out of things to do and have a lot of extra time. what are some other productive thingsi could do besides getting on the computer and watching tv? thanks! (link)
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well i know jusr have you feel cause i get bored somtimes but yoy know what i do i either walk to a frend house or just walk around,call some friends or just hang out somewhere. So you should do the same like visit a freind house, walk to the park, go to the movies or to the store do somthing anything that you know you enjoy the most or have fun with.Just remeber there is plenty things to do out there you just have to find them.
hope i help.
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ok so these two guys who i was friends with during the year are realllly annoying me! and i know one of them likes me.. and i dont like him back at all, ahh and they are always up in my bussiness and like basically on top of me the whole time. AND I NEED SPACE! im kinda becoming a bitch to them to give them the idea of LEAVE ME ALONE! but i dont know what else to do!! (link)
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i know just how you feel i have the same problem this boy who just cant leave me alone! But all i can say is if you ask them to leave youalone and they done and you tell them again and they still dont then make them know that you want space. Try your best to get do anything to keep them out your back, be a lil taugher jsut not bitchy you know.
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my sister just came out to my parents that she was gay. my dad and mom dont even talk to her any more and my dad said he wanted nothing to do with her. i dont care. i love her no matter what. but my sister wants to run away or move out. she wants to live with my principal whos are really close friend but i dont want her to move. shes turning 16 monday and she said that its legal then to move out. i told her i didnt want her to but she keeps saying that she cant live at home anymore. not with parents who dont even talk to her anymore just because shes gay. i dont want to loose my sister! any advice would help! tanxs(im 14 if it helps) (link)
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well what i can say is you are right you should love your sister no matter what even thought she is gay that dosent change nothing becasue she family and family take care of each other. And being gay isnt bad or wrong its not good but ite not bad also. You need to talk to your parents confront them, one of you has to, tell them that being gay is not a crime and as parents they should be by her side not turning agianst her over something like this cbecause its not right. And for your sister if she really want to move and think its the best way then she should just not live by her self but maybe a family member someone that actually really. good luck with things.
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I'm a 21 year old female. I live in Pennsylvania. I met this guy about two weeks ago off of a dating website. He lives in Canada. I know two weeks doesn't seem long, and to fall in love with someone you've never physically met is stupid, but this guy stole my heart. I instantly fell in love with how much of a gentleman he was, how much he cared about me, and how sweet he was. I'd never felt so happy in my entire life. People actually commented me on how happy and alive I seemed. We got into some sort of argument over something, and he told me that he felt as if we were too incompatible. And the distance. I told him I'd move to him and everything. The thing is, I just can't get over this. I cried the hardest i've ever cried before in my life last night. I didn't sleep a wink, I got up for work at 5:30 this morning feeling like a zombie. I sat at work for three hours just staring into space, not doing anything, feeling like I didn't even exist. I haven't had anything to eat since 7:00 last night... the thought of putting food near my mouth just makes me sick to my stomach. I came home from work at 11:00 because the pain was just too much to handle. What should I do? I don't know how to cope with this at all. (link)
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i can see waht you going through of course i never had my heart breaken by someone but i never fell in love with someone. But i can tell you is that i know its hard getting over someone especailly someone you care about. So the best thing you could do is tey doing things that make you feel better you know, like shopping, or goin out with friends, have fun and party.Dont cry over someone everyday because its not healthy for you i mean its ok to cry a coupl of times just dont do it to much. Just try to forget all your problems do things that you enjoy and maybe that get your mind off things and him. good luck.
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Okay... I feel really stupid asking this question... but I used a vibrator... and I started my period the next day... but i'm on birth control and I shouldn't have started it for another couple weeks... so is there something wrong with me?? or why is it doing this? (link)
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no its just a normal thing some people start there period early or maye late somtimes. Like me i usaully start mines on the end of the month but it came a lil bit early so nothing is wrong with you you just started your early
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ok well this guy i used to go out with broke up with me a long time ago. well a few nights ago i told him i still liked him and he said he still likes me too. well on his buddy info he says that he is scared to ask me out and i am scared to ask him out. we have been talkin ever since we both found out we liked each other and we have a great time talkin to each other. we both really like each other but i am scared to ask him out. what should i do (link)
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ASK HIM OUT! I mean you know that he likes you and you like him so go fot it whats the worst he can say. See I'll understand that he dont know you like him and dont know if he likes you but he do and if he afraid then you have to make the first move or nothing will happen so go for it while you still have the chance.
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okay so I was absent for a few days various times for different weeks because I got sick a lot, anyways I missed 2-3 of my math tests (he gives us like 2 a week though!) not on purpose! So anyways when I came back this one kids says stuff like
"Ohh you're actually in school today, how come you managed to come today?"
"When was the last time you saw her ass in school?"
the WORST was...
"Hey, there's a math test tommorow, are you coming to school? I'm making a bet with Sarah on it..."
a girl asks him how to use the word inclination in a sentence
"Like...(my name) has an inclination for skipping school)
then my english teacher hears and in front of the whole class asks us, "Wait, WHO is staying home tommorow because of a math test?"
--silence--
then that annoying guy speaks, "(My name), she has statistically missed every other math test this term."
I just stared at my paper I couldn't even say anything back to him because the WHOLE class was staring at me and my english teacher was evilly eyeing me and now probably thinks I'm a skipper
a few kids told that guy, "How could you call her out like that?!" and he's like, "Oh i love her, I just love messing w/ her" and they're like, "I don't think she takes it like that
and then the next day when I'm there for the math test, he hugs me and is like, "Yes I bet 5 dollars you'd be here today, I LOVE YOU" and the other girl comes up and is like, "HEY! There's a math test today you weren't supposed to be here..."
I don't know when they'll stop and it's really bugging me. I've had the flu, a virus and I'm so bad at comebacks and I'm really weak and cry easily in front of people (though I've kept it in so far).....
also he expects me to be nice to him after everytime he does this to me, and if it isn't this, he makes a smartass comment about something of me.
so..
ANY ADVICE?? Thanks soo much (link)
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ooooo I think he has a crush on you or just trying to get you to notice him usually when a guy mess with you alot of times or teasing you it means they like you. I guess he dont know that he also hurting you when he said stuff like that so confront him and tell him how you feel when he said stuff like that to you, ask him why he dose this to you maybe he might actually tell you why he doing it but who knows. Just tell him or anyone else that keep saying stuff like that you dont have to explain yourself just tell them the real reason for it.
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I am 13/f and my best friend just talked to my bf and he said that he was going to kiss me this weekend. This will be my first kiss and I have never really been more nervous for anything. LOL!I was just wondering if anyone had any tips on first time kissing. Any would help. ( I really don't want to hear that it comes naturally, or just relax and it will be fine, I really want good tips) Thanks so much x0x0x0x0x0
Love,
Im almost to the point of having a break down. lol
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well i kinda understand what you mean i remeber my first kiss and i would ask quetions like how should i kiss him and how does it feel and stuff like that. but it aint really that bad it jusr depends on how you kiss him i mean thereis lot of ways to kiss a guy but if u really nervous about it take it slow like the first kiss can be like a lil kiss no tongue or you know just a kiss like you kissing your mom or somtin . just relax and it want be so bad trust me.
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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
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well to tell you the truth commiting suicide aint goin to work well there is alot of people out there that have problems and think commiting suicide is the best way but really do you want to give your life up i know it may seem like a struggle but i think you need some help you know get some conciluing before doing anything stupid.I cant say things will work well but u need to know, are you sure you want to do this, all i can say his there aint no easy way to commit suicide so dont think it will less painful because it want. So you need to know before doing that get some hepl and maybe things might work out.
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