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Hi , my name is Sam =]
I have some experience in giving advice, I am the advice colomnist at my high school. I don't judge people, and I am always eager to make people happy. Dancing , singing, and playing soccor are my favorite things to do. I will always be available to answer your problems.

X0X0,
Samie =]
Website: Just ask Sam!
Location: new york
Occupation: female
Age: 18
Member Since: March 9, 2007
Answers: 13
Last Update: April 4, 2007
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How do i flirt with this guy in history class in a effective but not so obvious way so the teacher won't notice? (link)
Tina duh-

we can't really talk alot-

and he doesn't know i like him!

i need something more suggestive- like licking my lips or something- idk


I have to give a speech in english class soon... i know what topic i'm doing it on, its just that I get super nervous for public speaking!

and also the guy i have a crush on is in that class and i don't want to look like a loser in front of him.

How do i get rid of this fear? (link)
My mom always said when you are nervoous annd you are speaking infront of a crowd pretend they are all in there underwear. it helps you relax a bit.


So my boyfriend and I broke up like 2 weeks ago and Im VERY happy about it!!!

But i realized i hate him LOL.

I want some good Break up songs....
Funny ones...
MEAN ones.
I hate you ones.
Fuck you ones....

Ideas?
Please!!! (link)
Smile- Lily Allen

Since You've been gone- kelly clarkson

Like a boy- ciera


ok im dating this girl and we are doing good
but i meet this other girl that im inlove with and i feel like losing my love for my gf
what should i do? (link)
Ask yourself which one you like better and feell closer to. Then break up with one. Sorry =( Dont we all wish we could date two and still feel faithful.



okay, first off i am 15. the guy i like is 19. we really get along greatly, we talk on the phone for hours and never run out of things to say. we even finish each other's sentences sometimes. a lot of people have been saying he just "wants some" but, mostly everyone knows i'm not that way, including him. i really like him but i dont want to be called a whore for dating him considering everyone says college boys only want one thing. another thing i worry about is my parents. what they would think if i told them. please help me. :( (link)
Well most likley if you told them, they would be upset-- so don't. I would keep on dating him, because it sounds like true love. As corny as it sounds, do what your heart tells you.


Alright. Theres this guy. All my friends say he likes me. I think hes starting to. I want him to like me, and then i think ill like him more.
Whats a good way to make him continue to fall for me?
How should I flirt?
Help!
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Get to know him. Talk to him. Find out things you never knew about him. That will bring you two closer. Once you do that, spend time with him bowling,eating ice cream, going to the movies-- it will soon turn in to a relationship

x0x0
Sam


How do you impress a guy you really like?? I need to know because I really like him soo much, Im falling for him. What should I do to impress him???
I need ideas anything will work, even to make him flash his sexy smile. HELP!!
♥KASSIDY

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Ok, this may not be the most "wholesome" advice, but hey it works!

Do a few crazy things , with confidence. By this I mean wearing a push-up bra that mayes your cleavege look hott-- or maybe bending down to " tie your shoe" in front of him. Or maybe if you are at a party get on the table and start dancing with your friends. Don't give them a strip tease-- just act fun! And dont act like you are completly easy either =]
That turns guys onnnn. Trust me


Ok so me and my friend have been arguing over an hour about popping your cherry. Does it happen only once, or can it happen more than that? (link)
Once.


hi guys...
is almost time for prom and all... i saw a awsome prom dress in the mall but there is only one big problems... IS SMALL ON ME!!! som i need some safe advice on lose 15 lb in one and half month with out medications b/c my parents is not gonna let me buy those so any eating rules or Exercises yall recommand????? plz i really need help big time to help me lose weight (link)
Instead of eating high calorie deserts like cake ect. eat apples. Drink alot of water and green tea. Exercise on a tredmill 30 minutes at least 5 days every week (it did miracles for me!) For breckfast eat luna bars ( 180 calories a bar) for luch, eat a salad or something like that, for dinner eat lean protien.


It seems like many people mix up love with lust or obsession. and it just seems so confusing if you really liked someone for a long time. How do you really know if you're in love? (link)
For me,
everytime I see him my heart jumps-- literaly.
When I am feeling down, the first person I want to be with is him, because just being with him makes me feel better. I know I'm really in love if I see beyond the pretty face or great body and fall in love with his personality too. I know I'm in love when I think that this guy could be the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. That is how you know. So if you are wondering , just ask your self those questions.


I put out a bulletin on myspace saying, "i deserved that part."

so they all hate me, litterally. They are being commpletly unreasonable about it.

How should i react to them?! (link)
They probably are jelous-- which is perfectly normal. Instead of rubbing it in their faces ,( which I'm not saying you did) play it down a little. Maybe like, well it really makes me happy I got this part because I haven't had alot happening latley.

OR

Arguing with me about it is not going to solve anything. I got the part, and I'm happy about it. We are going to have to be working together for the next 3 monthes so we might as well get along. By the way, you were really great at tryouts.


ok I was sorting out disks that i dont' want, disks that are scratched, etc and where do I throw them out? Do they get recycled so throw them in the recycling bin or just the garbage? (link)
No , you cannot recycle it.
You can just chuck it though. Or they make cool coasters=]

X0X0,
Sam


Okay. So there's this guy at school, who's in tenth grade. His name is Tyler, and I'm in ninth grade. We both know we like each other, but I only met him 2 weeks ago. And he was telling my best friend that he wants to ask me out TONIGHT! But the problem is, I like him and all but I feel like things are moving way too fast. So how do I let him down easily without shoving him away? (link)
say that you really like him and you think hes a cutie , but you feel like you don't know him well enough to be in a relationship-- could yall take it slow?




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