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Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.? (link)
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ur mom can stay in the waiting room and it is against the law for the docter to go tell ur mom ur personal information and stuff.
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Ok i have a sister who is a 13 months apart and she drives me crazy...i am so nice to her i let her wear my clothes and i do favors for her but she is just a brat to me any ideas on how to like make her not be such a brat? i dont know she like finds out things about me from my EX and she knows everything and like she wants to tell the world and its quiet annoying....uhhh yeah so any ideas...?
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tlk to ur sister and tell her how u feel becuase she cant read ur mind so if u tell her how u feel everything should just be ok
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For some reason, when I get REALLY cold, my lower back starts to hurt extreamly bad. It feels tight and then if I go to stretch, I pull a muscle. Why does it get tight like that? (link)
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u might have growing pains or arthritis. im not sure talk to ur parents and ask them to set up an appointment
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Ok, I am 44 yrs. old and my husband is 47, we have been married about 6 months, and are professonal decent people. My problem is my husband is not interested in making love to me, when we first married, we had a decent sex life,. then no more for the past several months. If I bring it up he gets mad. Says hes just tired,or could be his antidepressants he takes, etc.. But he has time to be internet addicted, and reads a lot, anything to keep from being with me. I had caught him on the net several times talking to men, over a year ago, but he had a excuse for that, he was "just messing" with the gay guys for a laugh. Now I wonder. Ive tried talking to him but about this, but he dosent want to discuss it. So what do I do? I love my husband dearly but what do I do, Lonely (link)
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may be your husband is gay(as u sed uve caught him tlkn to guys). i mean im only 15 years old so i dont know what its like to be married but i do know about sex. maybe its just getting boring for him so go look at books and stuff and see if he wants to try any new postions or something.. hope i helped good luck hope thinkgs get better!
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I have chin lenghth brownish-blondish hair. on wed. i am getting a cut and color... i know i want my hair more blonde. but i want 2 colors. what colors should i get and does anybody have any idea for a good cut? or websites i want it shorter but not way shorter and lots of layers! i rate 5's all around! (link)
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if ur hair is dark and u want it a little more blonder but still natural then u should ask them to put some caramel highlights and some lighter blond peices.. my moms a hairdresser and she does that to me except she puts a few bleach highlights to0.. good luck
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what happens during a gyno appt.? (link)
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they usually lay u ona table and stick this tool thing in u. ive never been so i cant tell u if it hurts but they look around and make sure ur woman area is healthy nd stuff
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should I be proud of what i am? (link)
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i think u should be proud of whatever u believe!!! theres nothing worng with being gay
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ok this may sound stupid! and i have an excuse im blonde!lol...um...what does "gimme sum dap" mean?this guy at skool says it to me all the time n im not sure what it is..plse try to explain it the best you can!..THANX! (link)
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lol its a hand shake thing that usually black ppl and wiggers do.. tell him to teach u.. lol dont feel bad there alot of ppl who dont know wht dap is.
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I've been trying to loose some weight. I know i'm not fat, but i'd just like to loose a few pounds. I started last week, and it went pretty well, but i've decided that this week i'm just not going to diet but start up again next week. I know i shouldn't but i have my reasons. But ever since i've been on this diet, all my friends ever do is hound me about it and make fun of me! they always steal my food and count the calories in it, and everytime i tell them to just stop getting involved with this, they tell me to just listen... they laugh at me and count my calories and tell me how fat i'm gunna get, and it's really really annoying and being on a diet is difficult enough since i have a terrible sweet tooth, but they make it worse. I've tried many times to tell them that it's not their place to hound me about what i'm eating, but they don't listen to me and make a big deal out of everything. I have no idea what to do and they're making this really difficult for me. any ideas what to do? sorry it's so long. (link)
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my friends make fun of me because i used to be on the south beach diet its when u eat foood with little or no carbohydrates... it did bug me a little but after a while i just went along with it and joke back with them but if it really bugs youy then u should tell them something.. if they were ur true friends then they would understand
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ok i found out that my friend masturbated not that she told me or anitthin. but the thing is shes christian is that against the christian religion?also can the gynos find out if you masturbate. im like worried for her.cause if its against the christian religion i dont think her mom would like to know.thanks in advance (link)
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i dont know if it is against her religion but to answer ur second question, no ur gyno cannot tell if u masterbate 9 out of 10 people do it.. its pretty commom so tell ur friend not to worry about her gyno being able to tell if she masterbates.
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well my mom was tellin me we would have to go to the gyno really soon.whats an normal age to go to the gyno.sry i dont know much about this (link)
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THERE USUALLY ISNT ANY AGE U USUALLY GO AFTER U GO THROUGH PUBPERTY AND AFTER YOU START YOUR PERIOD JUST TO CHECK UP ON HOW UR WOMANLY AREAS ARE FUNCTIONING.
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well i have this prob with the boy im goin oout with ...we've beem goin out for about 5 days now..or more...but the thing is that he never calls me and ..he always has me callin him...im not afard to ask him why its just i dont know how .....so plz help me (link)
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MAYBE HE THINKS THAT IT WILL AGRIVATE U IF HE CALLS U SO HE DONT BOTHER. ANOTHER THING THAT IS HARD TO ACCEPT ISS THAT HE ISNT THAT INTEREDTED IN YOU(NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN BBUT IT COULD BNE POSSIBLE) SO JUST TLAK TO HIM AND TELL HIM THAT U WANT TO HEAR FROM HIM MORE INSTEAD OF YOU MAKING ALL THE EFFORT TO GET IN TOUCH WITH HIM, IF YOU DONT CUMMUNICATE WITH THE BOY THEN HE WONT KNOW THAT SOMETHINGS WRONG SO JUST TLK TO HIM!!
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Me and my best friend have been friends since kindergarden nd imma freshman now! tha other day we got into a fight! this is wat happened!..tha nyte b4 i got drunk bc i was allowed nd i didnt feel good tha next mornin nd he kalled asken if i wanted to chyll w. em nd i told em no bc i was sick nd wasnt inna good mood! well he got on tha computer nd we were talkin nd shazz nd tha next thing u kno he tells me not to take my shazz out on hym nd i didnt do ne thing! soo he went to jessicas nd she told hym nd my b.f things tht werent true soo i got dumped bc of it! later tht day i got on tha computer again nd was talken to my best friend nd he tells me tht he dont wanna talk to me nd imma rapist nd a stalker soo i went to his house w. my mom to talk to hym nd he ran outside from tha situation..well tht jessika girl was there well she kalled me nd my mom a bitch nd soo i walked down tha road nd asked her y she did it nd shazz nd soo he ((my bff)) ran out tha door telling me to stay outta his life! i feel soo bad i mean i didnt realli do ne thing mean to hym ir ne thing! i do a lot of stuff for hym nd its hard not talken to hym! wut shudd i do?! i mean weve been bff since kindergarden! ive cried alot about this! plzzzzzzzz help me! (link)
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I THINK U SHOULD TALK TO HIM AND EXPLAIN WHT HAPPENED AND EXPLAIN WHY YOY COULDNT GO ND CHYLL WIT HIM.. YOU SHOULD JUST TALK TO HIM AND WORK EVERYTHING OUT.. HE CANT READ YOUR MIND MAYBE HE THOUGHT YOU WHERE AVOIDING HIM OR SMTN.. HOPE I HELPED TELL ME HOW IT GOES ON MY ADVICE COLUMN!
TONI
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well u see i have this friend and we always get into fights about the stupidist things ever and one time we got in a fight and she asked me a pastense question and when i tried to anwser she got really mad and was sayind things like why do u always bring suff up form the past were talking about this fight noy ones that have happened in the past when i tried telling her the i was only anwsering her question she would not listin! what do i do? (link)
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ive had friends like that before. i just ignore them when they bring stuff up from the past and thy always start stuff if you react to it then its making them feel stupid. just let it go and dont react
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There`s this boy pierre i like. a lot. im 15 and hez 16 n I have been trying to get with him 4 a year. my boyfriend went to jail 6 monthz ago and we don`t talk. Pierre likes me too. Hez an african american..10th grader runningbak for varsity and allll the girls like him. He likes me and only me supposively and I do everything for him. I steal for him,lie,cheat,sneak out..i even had sex with him! Everyone says he's using me...that's not advice. I want to know what to say to him to prove that I'm better than all these girls. That's the only reason he wont go out with me. Please Please help! (link)
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you shouldnt steall cheat lie and sneak out thats just making you look bad and its turning you into something your not. i dont think hes using you maybe he just expects alot and u should talk to him and tell him that u feel like ur bein used. and if he really like you then he would understand nd lay off sum. but if he dont then hes not the one for you and you should just move on. hope i helped and good luck with pierre!!
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Hey, I was going to have a sleepover party for my friends on Halloween after we go trick-or-treating with each other. My one friend that I invited is allergic to dogs, cats, and guinea pigs -- which are all of the pets I have. She can't even go in my house because of it. I was considering sleeping out in a tent in the backyard, because it's really big, but it might be too cold by October 31st for that. I don't want to just uninvite her because that might screw up our friendship and that's pretty rude. :\ What should I do? (link)
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i think that maybe you should clean your house really good (like washing all the sheets and pillow cases, vacuuming realy good, and spraying ur house with the non-alergy spray like febreze and others.. you can usually find these disinfectant sprays at stores like walmart or soemthing.)and tell your parents to keep all the animals in their room. another guest room or in the garage(if you have one) and if that doesnt work then maybe you can have the sleepover at another firnds house. after all it would be kinda rood to leave out a friend just because she had allergies.
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13/f Sorry if this is a little confusing!
My friend goes to a differnt school than me. She introduced this kid to me (hes 12) and now I'm beginning to liek him. I know he likes me too, because my friend asked him and he said yes, and he also told me. Like, it would work out great with us, except for one thing, my friend. She used to go out with him and he dumped her a little while ago. But she still likes him..a LOT. He knows that she likes him, but he doesnt like her. The girl that introduced us (that I have been talkign about the whole time, that likes him also) is mad at him for liking me, and mad at me for liking him. She really doesn't want me to like him, but it's hard NOT to..you know what I mean?? Well it's really confusing and I don't know what to do. What if he asks me out? I like him a lot too, but I don't want to lose my friend. Please help me? (link)
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all i can say is u put ur girls before boys ...or maybe you shuld just give her time to get over him and when she doesn like him anymore then go for it. but my best advicce for you is...DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIM NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LIKE HIM.. thats just wrong to take ur firends ex b/f..
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this girl that takes Buddy Icon requests is going to make me an icon. I already know what kinda doll to use, but I wanna cute saying for the icon. Does anyone know any saying about missing a guy? I was thinking about "Your first love never really dies" But yeah any ideas would be great..I rate 5's! (link)
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~ u never stop loving someone.. u jus learn to live without them
~ you were just another paved road with pretty lies and broken promises
~you can love anyone in the world, the only problem is so can he
~if i could show u how much u hurt me.. u could never be able to look me in the eyes again
if u want more just tell me on my adivce colum thing! hope i helped good luck!
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Does anyone know any cool hairstyles? I have blonde hair, a little past my shoulders. Thanks! (link)
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i dont know any styles but theres plenty of websites you can go to for help.. you can find me on aim im always on (if you want my help finding any) kUtEbUtPhSyCo0
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i need help, there's this guy i met online and he keeps stalking me and im getting scared. it all started out when he asked me to invite him to my webcam and im like sorry no bye, then hes like im gonna hack into ur computer, and hes sending me messages saying i know where u live, ill send ppl to ur house and thell rape u, well get it on tape and im starting to get scared. is that possible? could he have hacked into my computer from yahoo messenger? can someone help please (link)
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this is somthing serious. mayeb you should block him or change your screen name thing. however he can hack into your computer but the only way is if you make connections with hgim like on aim you can connect with people to send them pictures and stuff. i dont know how it is on yahoo tho. it is possible for him to find you if u have personal information on your computer about where you live and stuff. if changing your screen name doesnt work then you should definalty go to an adult immediatly. your not doing anything wrong by going to them, you are protecting yourslef. after all this could be just some sick child tryind to sscare you but i wouldnt take any chances !! block him or change your user name before it gets more serious!!!!
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