about

The Names Nesmira. I turned 15 on Dec. 13th (: Yay me, but kinda sucks becuase i still didnt get my Permit. GAY? yes i no. Anyway I have blonde hair and blue eyes. (: I am 100% Bosnian [muslim] and veryy proud of that. you wanna hate knock yourselves out, dont bother me. =p Well im currently a Sophmore at Bayless Sr. High [class of `10 baby] (: It may be a pretty small school and not the riches but hey its amazing (:. My all time favorite sport is Basketball i loooveee it. i also enjoy playin volleyball and soccer, but it sucks becuase i cant play soccer anymore. :( and i hate it. Well im orginally from Srebrenica, Bosnia but i currenly live in Saint Louis (: i love my family & friends, they are amazing. [mina, ajsa, amela t, azra, edina , vildana] i dont know what i would do without these girls. esp the boznian mobn [mina.amela t. & azra] ♥ life would most definetly suck without them. Well ya i love all my other friends, you know who yu are. (: well um i dont care what you thnk of me or what i do, its just your opinion. i love to have fun, laugh and make others laugh. i`M very nice unless you piss me off then i can be the biggest biotch. ever. that just how it goes.




LIKES: chocolate, traveling, shoes & clothes , movies, myspacing, soccer guys, (: music, shopping, SUMMER, being European, animals, people who can make me laugh, people who love to have fun, moneey (: , televsion, computer, PHONE, aim, BOSNA, my amazing friends, hanging out with friends, BERIX, bosnian food (;, McDonadls, BASKETBALL, soccer, volleyball, being acctive, the beach, swimming, tanning, fashion, taking random pictures, swings, rollercoaster, coloring, make-up, ribbons, flip flops, black & white pictures, oversized sunglasses, strawberries, GUM, cookies (:, Nicole Richie, Paris Hilton, ANGLINA JOLIE, Paul walker, Christiano Ronaldo, (: && most def. Channingg Tattummmmmm (: , ONE TREE HILL, Passions, The Hills, Laguna Beach, real friends & muccccchhh more..


DISLIKES: Fake friends, biotches, stupid commercials, being bored, bugs, heights, feet, blood eww, Chain Letters, two faced people, white socks, TENNIS SHOES ugh, wanna bew`s, when people change soo quickly, sea food, homework, winter- even tho its pretty soemtimes, cheesy songs ugh, when poeple put others down.


OK well tthat`s more then enough. dont be shyt to Ask me anything, i will answer the best i can (:

♥ Nesmira

advice

So I am a "couch potato" so to speak, but I actually just plain don't like exercise. For 5 years I have not done anything besides being forced to in gym class. How do I start exercising again? I want to focus on running.

you can start playing like soccer witch you have to run a lot in.. so just play sports with friends and then eventaully just get into running.. if your doing it to stay in shape then you should focus mainly on like sports.. and stuff.. its pretty fun and it keeps you in shape..!!
&& hoPe i HelpEd

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okay i like this guy. but whenever were together im really shy and so is he. we dont have much to talk about. but when were online talking its fun. i really really like him. he's the quiet and really nice type. but i kinda dont know what to say to him when im around him. my friend keeps tellin me to go up to him and slap his ass and say whats up but i am to shy to do it. how can i start talking to him more when we are together rather just online?

you can find out what you too have in common.. and like thingz you like and then slowly start talkin to him more in person..
and then since you say yu talk to him on like and itz fun.. ask him to hang out sometime if thats easier then in person. like ask him to go to the movies or somethin that you would like to do with him.. and then ask him to hang out at skool, like games (b-ball, soccer) etc.
&& hoPe i HElppEd..!!
((gooD luK with HiiM))

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When I rate people, I generally give all 5s, maybe a 4 or 2, and a 1 if someone is completely rude or didnt answer the question. Well..Let's say I ask a question and I get 5 answers. One of them is horrible, so it gets a 1 rating. The second is okay but kinda bad, so a 3 or 4. The next 2 answered the question and werent jerks, but the 5th wrote a 5 paragraph answer and included links to websites and personal experiences, etc. Should I rate the the 3rd and 4th people 5's like the 5th person, or should I give them fours because there was a better answer?

NOTE--Im rating all fives on this question no matter what

iF their advice helps you then give them like a 5*
if you dont really like they advice or you cant use it then you should give them a 4.. and if you think there is a better answer than yes you should give them a 4.. but like if you can use the advice and you think it may help you then you should definetlye give them a 5..
&& hoPe i helPed
**neSmiiRa

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He's bosnian. =)
Hah I am not tho.
How did you know?
Ps:: Thanks for the advice.

oo i thoUght he was bosnian becuse of his name..
hehehe.. **no ProBlem** aniITime yu nEed e n Thing n good luk with him.>!

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Well, Okay. There's this boy named Senad & I have liked him foreverr. Me & him are always on/off, and idk. I want him back so badly and things completly switched between us. In the beginning he wanted me so badly, and I didn't like him that much. Now I am obsessed, and he's like uhh. It sucks. Before he met me which was around January when we started talking he was so shy, and afraid to say the wrong thing. It was so cute. Now he's so mean, and bossy. I'll look at him in class, and he'll be like "What the fuck you looking at?" Just because his friends are there. It's so immature. Then when I am with him we makeout, and stuff. Sometimes I think he's using me. On Friday we were in a pretty big fight, and we were at the same persons house cause she had a few people over and he was like "Wow fuck her!" and then by the end of the night we were alone in the living room, and he finally talked to me & madeout. I don't know what to do? He says he "kinda" likes me to people, and tells me different. I like him so much, and do not wanna give up. What should I do to get him back? Someone pleasee help.

you need to talk to him and ask him if he liikez yu...n if he saiz yes.. then ask him how come he tells he frineds "kinda" or w,e n then if yu no that he'z gonna ignore yu infront of his friends then yu should probably talk to him about that to..kuzz whats they poitn of goin out wid him wen he;s only going to nothice yu wen yur alone wid him, it seems like if he;s embarresed oor w,e.
So jUSt talk tO him..
&& HopE i HelPed
by the wAy This Senad PErSon iz hE boZniiAn and are you BoZniiaN

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I am 19, and am nervous about applying for a job. I have no previous experience, and am concerned that most places would rather hire someone younger with no experience b/c they have a good reason not to have experience. I don't want a great job, just like at a video store or somehting. Do I just go ahead and apply? What should I do?

yea you shoULD go ahead n apply, beacuase you never know they might take you, but hten if you dont apply you'd never know, iF they wouldve let you work there.. so just go ahead and apply and see how it goes,, it wont hurt you to give it a try..
** hoPe i HelpeD

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i was wondering what buenosaires means?
ill rate 5's for your time ! :]

BEuNOS AiReS is the capital and largest city of Argentina;its located like in eastern Argentina near Uruguay;and its Argentina's chief port and industrial and cultural center.
**hoPE i HlepEd..!!

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Mkayyy Soo
Im Chubby
Or Fat If Youd Like
But Yeah..Id Really Like To Not Be Fat/Chubby Anymore
Please Help?
Haha

uM.. LIke eat hEalthy gooD.
-excErsize< but it constanty dont just do it once and expect to loose weight right away.
-do it like couple of times in a week, for a could of weeks and you should see results
-maybe get into soem sports
-go to the gym
-if you think you eat to much, maybe try to eat a little less.!
&& hOPE i HELpeD..!!

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Do crunches/sit ups really work? I have heard that they do and also heard that they don't do anything. Can someone please tell me if they work & if so, what they actually do? I'll rate 5s. Thanks!

Also, what are some other tummy-toning exersizes? Thanks In Advancez!

yea they work, but you have to do them constantly, like you cant just do it once and expect to see result.. like do like 50 cruchez 3 nights a week n then for like 3 weeks you will see results.

OTHER TUMMY-TONNiiNG EXCERSIZES:
-• Partial Curl and Oblique Curl. These exercises you should do every second day. Build up to a maximum of 15 repetitions of each exercise. Once you can master 15 repetitions modify the exercise to make it more difficult by altering the position of your arms. For example:
Step 1: Place your arms on the front of the body resting on the thighs.
Step 2: Place your arms across your chest.
Step 3: Position your arms at the side of your head.
Step 4: Extend your arms straight above your head.

^^ from GooGle..!

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i am a fourteen year old female and my family needs some money.

do you have any possible jobs? my mom said no cutting grass bc she siad i'd have to supply the lawn mower and well I can't take it around town.
any suggestins are greatly appreciated.

-babysitting
-cleanin house in your neighborhood
-walking dogs for people
-wash cars
-clean yard (rake leaves) or soemthing
-water plants
-HOPE I HELPED..!

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my friends and i are on a basketball team but it seems like they dont care if we win or lose. how do i tell them to step up their game with out sounding like a bitchy dictator?

when you talk to them, try to tell them how much it means to you wen you guys win. n try to ask them how they fell like when they win or lose.!
-its might help..!!
HOPE I HELPEd..!

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i always spend a lot of money.. its kind of hard for me not to spend money. i try to babysit but there's not that many jobs, and most of the time my parents just give me money.. they always pay for the movies and going out places like that, and also give me extra money when i go shopping. i know im lucky that they do that so i always haev money to go shopping and do things i wanna do. but what are some other ways i could make money so i dont just have to rely on my parents paying for everything? they don't mind but idk i just wanna earn my own money for some reason. i'll give 5s, thanks

you can work. liek at..
-mCd< you dont get much money yah
-holliSter
-aer0
-ForEver 21
-AmerIcan EagEl..
-anii store at the mall.. or anyy other store..
-bascially aniiwher you like..!!
**hoPe i HelpeD..!**

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do u think amela has a big chin

um...i no who diz iz...hahhaha.... yupp**!!

^^ but dat ?? waz mean... hhahahahhahha....

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Okay, graduation is only a month and some change left.. I think, May 27. Okay I need to tone my body. I want my breast to be firmer and I want abs. Can someone help me with what I need to do, eat. I run track and that's toning my legs. I'm not really big, jus a lil' flabbly arond the tummy. I'm only 120, n 5'3. Please help me and fast. Thank you in advance

if you can get the AB lounge or soemthing..< not expensive... it really works.. and it works fast.. n its really easy.. you can watch t.v and do it.. n all you have to work on it is like 30 mins. 3 times a week.. and then liek 2 or 3 weeks layter you will see result right away..
*hoPe i HELpEd..

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How do I ask this guy that I really like who I talk to a lot in school to hang out? I think he suspects that I like him a little but I just want to hang out with him.

-Y0U CAN ASK HiM T0 G0 T0 THE M0ViES..
-A GAME AT SCH00L 0R S0METHiNG
SOMETHiNG LikE NORMAL FRiENDS D0 , IF YOU DONT WANT HIM TO KNOW THEN HAVE LIEK YOUR FRIENDS OR HIS FRIENDS COME ALONG OR SOMETHIN..
*H0pe I hELPed...

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There's this guy who goes to my school, and over Christmas break he started messaging me on MySpace saying he thought I was pretty and asking who I liked and that kind of thing. I told him my friend liked him, so I couldn't like him, and said it would be better to be friends. He agreed, and we haven't really talked since. Now, I think I'm beginning to like him, and I don't know what to do since I declined him better. What do I do?

Well you should ask him to hang out, maybe even invite yur friend to come along. like go to the movies, or something... and you can talk to your friend to see if she still likes hiim, and maybe tell her that you think your starting to like him. And if he doesnt like her then she shouldnt be wasting her time on him, if he already likes you she might not be mad. but if you dont talk to her about it she might think that your jsut trying to steal a guy she likez..

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I got a friend that copies me and now i think she likes the boy i like.


-Amber

What should i do about the copying and then boy liking? I'm not flattered about it either i shouldn't be.

i think that you should first talk to your friend about the *boy* to make sure she like's him.. it may be just false signals or something.,
and you should also try to talk to her about copying you, i know its hard but liek she might be doing it with even know (with no intention) ..
*so just talk to her.. and see how it goes..

-hoPe i hElPED!!!
& TELL ME HOW eVERYthInG GOeZ

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My b/f and i had sex on March 10 & on March 17. i was supposed to get my period on March 16. i still haven't gotten it. my b/f used condoms both times and there were no rips in them when he 'pulled out.' i have some of the symptoms of being pregnant. AM I????? please help. i will rate high for great responses.

thank you

um.. i dont thin dat your pregnant if your sure that the condom did rip ot anything.. like that.. then you shouln't be.. but just take the pregnancy test to make sure..
*and sometimes periods can be late..or early !!
&hopE i HelPed..

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What do you do if you have a test in a class and just dont understand anything? And the teacher, your parents, and tutors just cant explain it well enough to get it?? Im so worried and sad about a test coming up because I dont understand it! Its history, too, so its memorizing too and I just dont get it! I seriously think Im going to fail this test.

on your spare time jsut try to memorize any of the things that you dont no .. the onez you do dont waste your time on.. and right before the test just through all the things that you do not understand..

* you can also make a little *practice* test yourself.. liek put thingz that you think are goin to be on there. and try to do it with out your notes, or book or w.e
*you can also try to have some quiz.. you or something..
(make it so it is interesting,, it shoudl make it easier for you)

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Well my grades have been slipping alot latly and i am trying my hardest and my parents dont seem to get that they think that im just being lasey i dont know what to do to try even harder to get my grades were they used to be! The next grade card is in 2 weeks!ahhh HELP PLEASE


Alyssa/13

hEY.. I HAVE the samE probLem wiTh mii MoM i AlwaYZ get InTrOUbLe because of My graDes.. even though i have all A, and B... but you can talk to your teachers maybe like doing some extra credit..< if you really need it >>teachers

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