my friends and i are on a basketball team but it seems like they dont care if we win or lose. how do i tell them to step up their game with out sounding like a bitchy dictator?
sOAKIN_iN_tHE_sUNx0 answered Monday April 3 2006, 5:34 am: well if i were you, id tell them they need to work a little harder. but maybe its because they really dont care, its a GAME there not just there to win EVERYTIME their there to have fun. they dont sweat there ass off for no reason, you know. i guess if i were i would tell them straight up, how you feel and be like "im sorry if i sound like a bitch but im trying not too"... and then say what you need to say... best thing for this situation is communication, your a team and there is no "U" or "I" in team.
DancinCutie08 answered Saturday April 1 2006, 10:34 pm: well what my dad did for my sisters softball team is promised them a pool party if they won the rest of their games. maybe you can talk your parents into having a movie night with them or something and tell them if you win they can come over and your parents will throw a party [ DancinCutie08's advice column | Ask DancinCutie08 A Question ]
Xo_NeSmiiRa_Xo answered Saturday April 1 2006, 8:33 pm: when you talk to them, try to tell them how much it means to you wen you guys win. n try to ask them how they fell like when they win or lose.!
-its might help..!!
HOPE I HELPEd..! [ Xo_NeSmiiRa_Xo's advice column | Ask Xo_NeSmiiRa_Xo A Question ]
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