ok well i really like this guy at my school and some of my friends think he likes me cause they say he talks about me alot and always askes who i like....i really like him but i never see him(even though he goes to my school)how would i find out how he likes me and try to make it obvious that i like him also?
deathwillcome answered Sunday April 2 2006, 5:17 am: Okay, if he talks about you a lot, then he likes you. He asks who you like...he likes you. One way to make it obvious that you like him...tell him. An other way to make it obvious, ask him out. People need to go for it more often. Either he asks you out or you ask him...it is that simple. The only problem with asking him out is that if by some wierd chance he doesn't like you it will become really weird after he tells you that he doesn't like you that way. I really think that he does like you because of all the things that he is doing. Here is an idea, ask him! okay, so he might not answer you truthfully, but you will be able to tell if he is telling the truth if he sais no. I mean how hard can it be to read someone's thoughts by their body language? It really isn't. Ask him and if he is figiting with his hands behind his back while he is talking to you or something, then he likes you and is really nervous around you. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
flyingtomato317 answered Saturday April 1 2006, 10:50 pm: well let's just say, don't make yourself too avalible because then you look desprate. And that is definitely something you don't want. guys like a challenge sometimes. You say your friends think he likes you, but you should definitely talk to his friends and get their opinion--and maybe (if you get in really good) they will do some undercover work for you. do make it obvious that you like him, flirt with him, SUBTLELY of course. you want to be a bit mysterious so that he is left wanting more. don't just drop your whole life story in his lap at once because then he'll be bored after awhile as well as overwhelmed. But for the flirting...compliment him *boys like compliments just as much as we do*, touch his arm when you're talking to him, twirl your hair, laugh, smile, bite your bottom lip and be outgoing. As some of our research goes, nothing is more sexier than a confident girl. and thats basically all the advice we can give you. and remember to be yourself. you don't want to be someone your not...it complicates things and makes it really stressful on yourself. plus, if he doesn't like you for who you are, then he's not worth it. anyways, good luck. best wishes from the both of us. :) [ flyingtomato317's advice column | Ask flyingtomato317 A Question ]
juiiCy_youngxladii answered Saturday April 1 2006, 10:46 pm: is he the kind of person that's shy.. or kind of on going..
you should actually try to get his number .. or talk to him, when the time is right, tell him..
and as yur getting to kno him, once you get confertable. then tell him.
and she should be able to tell you back.
try that.
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