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ok so i was going out with this guy for a while and we broke up and he still like doesnt understand thats it is so OVER. and i met this guy (who goes to hooch) while i was at my friend house and hes really cute!!! and like idk what to do? i mean should i still give guy #1 a chance or should i move on? Mr. Hooch is really fun and has a great personality!!!! Can you please help me Tara?
--2 many boys 2 choose from (link)
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move on! i mean yes, bachelor #1 is going to be hung up on you. but it sounds like your not hung up on him. and you like this new guy. so why not give him a shot? youre young, you can date all the boys you want to! why shouldnt you have fun?!
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Tara,
I have this friend and she has done EVERYTHING with her bf except have SEX. and Prom came up so idk of she did or not, i mean hes an ass to her and he has her so whipped! and when im around her at school and shes with him she totally ignores me and anyone else she is with and its annoying and it really hurts my feelings. and i am scared she is gunna get hurt by this jerk too. they have been dating since october i mean he seems to like her alot but idk maybe im jelous and i miss my friend!?! I never talk to her on the weekends and stuff anymore and i really miss her not being bitchy all the time!!!
HELP ME PLEASE!!! :(
x3 Missing my friend (link)
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you need to have a DEEP talk with your friend. we are talking so deep that you need to dive to the ocean floor. but start out where you would always start out, on the beach. which would be walking or hanging out with her. then put your foot into the water. say something like you know i really miss you and you havnt been the same lately. i was wondering if we could have a talk? if shes really your GREAT friend she will listen. thats when you start wading out of shallow water into the deeper waters. and pretty soon you two will be talking. make sure you tell her exaclty how you are feeling. tell her your hurt. make sure you give her valid reasons. DO NOT accuse her of ignoring you, because that is not a positive thing for your already suffering friendship. also, gently let her know that you are concerned about her safety and getting pregnant. let her know that if she IS thinking about having sex, to at least have protection. and let her know that no matter what happens and how bad things get, you will always be right there by her side.
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i like this girl but we are not that good of friends...i think she likes me too..what should i do (link)
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i think you should ask her out on a date. as a kind of get-to-know-eachother thing. take it slow. if you think she likes you too, then that is a really good sign. you don't have to jump into being boyfriend and girlfriend right off the bat. just start hanging out and getting to know one another more. pretty soon, you'll both start liking eachother more and more. and then you could develop a real relationship. now wouldn't that be nice?
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ok i like this girl and i kno that she likes me too..she has admitted it to me but im afraid to..should i tell her how i feel..I kno one time she asked me and i denyed it..what should i do?? (link)
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why would you deny it? you like her, and you know she likes you. she is probably extremely frustrated with you for not saying anything to her, especially when she has done everything she can to make you ask her out. i think you should ask her out, or just grab her and kiss her and tell her how you feel! you dont even have to worry because you KNOW she likes you. so what are you waitng for?!
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okay so i like this guy.and i have never really talked to him in person.i mean, he is friends with my bestfriend..meaning that we have ALL hung out 1 or 2 times before..and i really really like him..but i dont know how to approach him? HELP (link)
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just start talking to him... start with remember that time we hung out with so-and-so and... and then name something that happened. then be like, that was a lot of fun, we should all hang out again. just strike up friendly conversations with him. ask him what he did over the weekend, ask him about school (if you have a class with him, bring up a test, project, or something your learning/doing). before you know it, you guys are good friends... and on your way to becoming much more. but the first step, is to talk to him and become his friend.
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why do guys like u one day and then not the next...wtf (link)
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GOOD question. i have no idea. its ridiculously frustrating isnt it? boys... they stink. one reason he likes you and then ignores you might be because he is shy, and he needs a signal from you that he can proceed. so make sure you give him one... and make the message loud and clear (because boys are dense and often miss them). another reason might be that he is confused about if he likes you or not. i can never figure out why boys do this... but i hope those couple reasons that i have come up with helped you.
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theres this girl named tara ann fleming (look one m biatches) n shes sooo is the hotest person i know i wanna b exactly like here wut should i do??????????????? (link)
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copy my every move, imitate my every word, go buy all my clothes, dye your hair blonde... haha jk. you dont want to be like me. you just want to be the lovely beautiful person that you are.. and nobody else. :)
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hello,
I have a problem
I suffer from an acute lack of poontang
It has been several months since I have gotten any
I am developing terrible symptoms:
Hallucinations- Girls that are either ugly or I would never be attracted to, I suddenly like and want
Shaking
Cramps
Dizziness
Fatigue
Dry Eyes/Mouth
Feelings for same sex
I need a remedy quickly before my desperation produces a terrible relationship
I have heard stories of your ability to remedy this condition
PLEASE HELP
DESPERATE PERSON WITH POONTANG ISSUES
(link)
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hahaha props to you for being so original.. i like it. i think that you need to sit back, relax, and take things easy. i know you want to have a girlfriend... or at least get with a girl... but you might have to wait a little bit longer. my suggestion? date one as soon as possible. she might be wrong for you, but hey, it will satisfy your craving, and then you will be able to breathe easier. when this happens, you should chill out, and not rush to find a girl. when you finally find one thats right and satisfies all your cravings, it will be when you least expect it.
warning: side effects may include: heartache, falling in love, desperate acts, dog-like behavior, and a chance to have a real relationship.
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Its who else but confused...lol...
...ok should i still continue to call this guy and talk to him..mayb he will come around..or maybe he will get annoyed..?? what do u think (link)
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i think you should still continue to call him and talk to him.. if he shows signs of being annoyed with you then he's dumb. unless you are pushing it and calling him 24/7 like a groupie. cause then he would have a right to be annoyed. just call him and talk to him about... well whatever you want. just don't become so fixed on him that you don't notice what or more specifically, who, is out there.
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ok theres this guy that im really starting to like & it seemed like he was really interested in me too. (during sb) and i know he wanted to hook up with me cause he told someone and that someone told me. but now i dunno what to do cause now that we're back at school its really weird. everytime i see him or around him he doesnt say anything to me anymore. WEIRD cause during the break he was all over me. but its not like ive been making an effort to talk to him. i just dont like making the 1st move so i just wish he would. ughh! but ok heres the thing, theres this other girl that he liked but i think he might like her again? not sure & very very confused. what should i do? should i just not talk to him? and leave things like this..and not get involved with him cause of the other girl? or should i go after him? and idk why he isnt makin an effort to talk to me & stuff like he did b4.what does this mean? ugh boys suck PLEASE HELP (link)
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maybe he is confused because he likes both the other girl AND you. in that case, you are going to HAVE to go after him. he'll choose the girl that pursues him. and when i say pursue i do not mean throw yourself all over him. he might not be making an effort to go after you because he really likes you. he might be pulling back to see if you like him, or just used him over spring break. when you continue to go after him, he will realize that you DO actually like him. boys are extremely confusing, and yes, most of the time, they do suck. i'll give you that much. just act like nothing has changed and contiue acting the way you did over SB with him. see how it goes from there.
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this is confused...Should i really ask him...should i also ask him if he does like me straight up..Because alot of ppl that like i dont even know keep telling me that he does..I know that if i ask him if that is true that he would probably deny it..I wanna call him and stuff but i dont wanna feel dumb..
-confused- (link)
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ask him straight up. if you can work up the courage (and it's hard!) then go for it. a conversation might go like "listen, i really like you, and i need to know if you like me too, or if i'm just wasting my time." you telling him you like him makes it SO much easier for him to come out and admit it to you. he won't deny it if he knows how you feel first. at least, no normal guy i know would. it takes the pressure off of them, and things move along quicker then they would have (because you KNOW if you don't tell him, this is going to go on for a while). you can do it! it's hard, but worth it. so go for it! good luck!
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ok..soOo i like this guy and he knows that i like him.. I also know that he likes me back..But everytime i like call him or whatever he seems uninterested and acts like he doesnt like me.. So then i feel dumb for calling him and ask my self why the hell did i just do that.. Why wont he stop acting like that cuz i can assure him that he is doing the wrong thing and that it is VERY BAD on his part..
-confused- (link)
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dear confused,
i know EXACTLY how you feel. i can never understand when boys do this, and i know that it is EXTREMELY frustrating. the best thing to do is to talk it out with him.. either he really likes you and is shy, so you have to make the first move, or maybe he really is uninterested. i hate it when guys act interested and then suddenly act uninterested and then change their minds AGAIN and become interested... all in the course of a single day! i know it is going ot be hard.. but if you want to stop the frustration, then you need to ask him what his deal is. be like, listen, i know that you know i like you, and you've been acting really strange lately... what's the deal? once you ask the question, it will be a lot easier to talk to him about the subject. good luck.
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you seem to have a very good view on the various questions asked. would you ever make the first move and throw youself ontop of a guy. also while making out do you use tongue, if so how do you do prefer to do so. (link)
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hmmm. interesting question. i think the girl making the first move is fun... as long as she has all the right signals to proceed with the guy. i think its cool for the girl to make the first move... but its just as cool for the guy to make it too. i don't feel like tongue is always necessary. but everybody is different and has a different preference. you should just do what feels good for you... and the person you are kissing of course. use tongue to show you want the person, to show that you need them. other times, maybe your just in the mood to kiss them to let them know that they are special and you like them alot. a kiss without tongue can often mean much more than a kiss with. so do whatever you want. the one good thing about kissing is it's pretty much rules-free. you can do whatever you like with it.
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okay, so there was this guy that really liked me..and at the time i needed to get away from him because i wanted to focus more on my school work..so i told him "i needed time"..but now i miss him so much and i want him back..what should i do? (link)
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let me get this straight. you liked this guy, and he liked you, and you "needed time" to focus on your school work? wow, you are one motivated girl. and i admire that. but a little romance thrown in wouldn't have hurt, i mean, you didn't have to totally deprive yourself. it IS possible to focus on school and maintain a boyfriend at the same time. but maybe time is what you really needed. thats ok. now you want him more than ever. my suggestion to you, honey, is to not take any more time. go get him girl! and make sure you tell him just how much you have missed him. tell him how much you want him and need him. tell him how much you LIKE him. if that doesn't bring him back then i don't know what will. but i'm sure that he is going to be ecstatic to have you in his arms again. so don't waste any more time! stop reading this, get up, and go get you your man :)
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ok so is it ok to just have friends with benefits and ask a guy if he wants to just hook up cuz thats what i want with my ex boyrfriend (link)
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yea it's ok, as long as the guy knows you don't want anything more. and as long as he feels the same way. then again... it might be a little weird having that with an ex, but if it's ok with both of you and you don't feel awkward, go for it.
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k soo theres this guy that i used to be going out with but then we broke up becuase he told me with his baseball he was too busy but he would ask me out again over summer. so then things started changing and we started talking less but i still like him ALOTT and his friends told me that they think he still likes me too but im not rly sure. what should i do, im trying to pretend like i dont care so he doesnt think im desperate but i want him to like me too soo bad HELPP (link)
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i think you should stop waiting on him and getting hung up over him. if he REALLY liked you A LOT then he would MAKE time for you in his busy schedule. the only way to find out if he does like you is to confront him about the whole situation. tell him that you like him and ask if he still feels the same way. if he does, talk about going out. if not, then dont wait around any longer for him. why wait and wait and wait for one guy when you can go out with many more guys right now? chances are, you'll find another guy.
you can't make Mr. Baseball like you. you can't make anyone like you. and i know that you want him to like you (lord knows we have ALL wanted a guy to like us before). but sometimes, the feeling is just not mutual. before you let yourself care about him any more, you have to really find out just how much he cares about you. then you two talk, work out a way to see eachother.. or not see eachother. just see how it goes. who knows? you could come out of this with a new boyfriend.
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ok so i like this guy and ive heard that he likes me back...but he wont admit it to me and when we talk all the time he acts like he doesnt really like me.. But i kno that he does! When is he going to admit that he likes me? (link)
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have you ever tried asking him if he likes you? straight up? maybe he is afraid because he doesnt know if you feel the same way. why don't YOU go out on a limb and tell him you like him. (YES, its EXTREMELY hard) but from the sound of it, this guy is going to need a little push in your direction. and who better to direct him to yourself other than the almighty and powerful you?
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okay, so theres this girl and i like her right? i think she likes me too but i dont want to ask her out now. in the future if i did ask her out do you think she would feel the same way still or would she think its dumb to wait because she probably doesnt want to wait if she really does like me? if that makes sense im just so confused right now. (link)
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why don't you ask her out now? i mean, if you both like eachother than what are you waiting for? go out with her now! i don't understand why you would want to wait. i think if you both really like eachother you'll both feel the same way later on. but she may give up on you if you dont ask her out. she'll think your uninterested... and then you'll never end up going out. so go for it now.. what have you got to lose?
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ok tara, lets figure this out...
i just had a really bad break up and now one of my friends is trying to hook me up with one of her friends that i cant see myself liking, although she is very cool. i think the girl feels the same way, but the "hooker-upper" wont drop it. what do i do? (hahahaha u probably kno who this is) (link)
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haha yea i have an idea about who it is. i feel the same way, and im really sorry about ur breakup, but you already knew that. we need to get the hooker-upper to stop. maybe we should set HER up in a relationship and she how SHE likes it ;-) me and you, we'll just remain good friends.
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Hey!! I think I like you
But you like this whole room
You sexy machine
I'm jing-a-linging from here to the ceiling
Inside I'm reeling
So fresh and so clean
Chemical-party-lover down
It's not the walls
It's not this town
You're just to high to get the point
You think your name is pass the joint..... WHAT SHOULD I DO???????? (link)
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O chariot, your golden waves, are washing down upon this facem o chariot, im singing out loud... :-D
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