ok theres this guy that im really starting to like & it seemed like he was really interested in me too. (during sb) and i know he wanted to hook up with me cause he told someone and that someone told me. but now i dunno what to do cause now that we're back at school its really weird. everytime i see him or around him he doesnt say anything to me anymore. WEIRD cause during the break he was all over me. but its not like ive been making an effort to talk to him. i just dont like making the 1st move so i just wish he would. ughh! but ok heres the thing, theres this other girl that he liked but i think he might like her again? not sure & very very confused. what should i do? should i just not talk to him? and leave things like this..and not get involved with him cause of the other girl? or should i go after him? and idk why he isnt makin an effort to talk to me & stuff like he did b4.what does this mean? ugh boys suck PLEASE HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Thursday April 14 2005, 7:10 am: maybe he is confused because he likes both the other girl AND you. in that case, you are going to HAVE to go after him. he'll choose the girl that pursues him. and when i say pursue i do not mean throw yourself all over him. he might not be making an effort to go after you because he really likes you. he might be pulling back to see if you like him, or just used him over spring break. when you continue to go after him, he will realize that you DO actually like him. boys are extremely confusing, and yes, most of the time, they do suck. i'll give you that much. just act like nothing has changed and contiue acting the way you did over SB with him. see how it goes from there. [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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