Tara,
I have this friend and she has done EVERYTHING with her bf except have SEX. and Prom came up so idk of she did or not, i mean hes an ass to her and he has her so whipped! and when im around her at school and shes with him she totally ignores me and anyone else she is with and its annoying and it really hurts my feelings. and i am scared she is gunna get hurt by this jerk too. they have been dating since october i mean he seems to like her alot but idk maybe im jelous and i miss my friend!?! I never talk to her on the weekends and stuff anymore and i really miss her not being bitchy all the time!!!
HELP ME PLEASE!!! :(
x3 Missing my friend
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 9:13 pm: you need to have a DEEP talk with your friend. we are talking so deep that you need to dive to the ocean floor. but start out where you would always start out, on the beach. which would be walking or hanging out with her. then put your foot into the water. say something like you know i really miss you and you havnt been the same lately. i was wondering if we could have a talk? if shes really your GREAT friend she will listen. thats when you start wading out of shallow water into the deeper waters. and pretty soon you two will be talking. make sure you tell her exaclty how you are feeling. tell her your hurt. make sure you give her valid reasons. DO NOT accuse her of ignoring you, because that is not a positive thing for your already suffering friendship. also, gently let her know that you are concerned about her safety and getting pregnant. let her know that if she IS thinking about having sex, to at least have protection. and let her know that no matter what happens and how bad things get, you will always be right there by her side. [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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