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my bf and i have been going out for a month now and i really like him! but before him and i were going out i sorta liked this guy named steve. and he knows that i have a bf now and we still talk and were friends and everything, but now hes saying i love you and he asked me to the movies. i want to go and hang out with him. but im afraid that knowing he likes me now and the fact i used to like him will make me get feelings for him again!! and i don't wanna do that to my bf cuz i love him more then anything

should i or should i not go to the movies?
and what should i do about the whole situation

Yes go to the movies but tell your bf that you are hanging out with steve but just as friends nothing more. ANd ask him if it okay to do that. If your bf says yes and he is totally being honest yes go but only do that if your bf says yes aight??

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I finally got over the man of my life, I've liked him for such a long time(not the whole time, but I always went back to him). And I'm not totaly over him, but I just don't have a crush on him. Anyways, I started becoming friends with a new guy and as I got to know him I realized that I kind of liked him because he is really nice, sweet, and cute too. But after awhile I kind have thought that he reminded me of the other guy I liked. And I don't know if I still like him or not because I don't want to like him just because he reminded me of someone else. And now I realize that its not that he reminds me of him just that I like him for the same reasons why I liked the other guy and I'm not sure if that's the same. I still get butterflies when I see him, but sumthing is saying that it's wrong, should I still like him?

Well, if he reminds you of the other old guy that can be good in some ways and bad in others. You know?? Well, you should still like him though the new guy because that is who you like. You shouldn't stop likeing him because he reminds you of the other old guy do what you want but i'd go with the new guy and maybe if it doesn't work out test the old guy one more time.

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I'm in love with my best guy friend at school. I think he likes me cuz we talk a lot on aim. And the guy who sits next to him in math (thats our only period together) said out loud, "you like her, you know you do." We caught eyes and he looked away. I hope he was talking about me. One of my friends was bugging us two that we liked each other and fight like an old married couple. Is this fate, or just a crush? I'll rate high for good answers.

You like him alot (crush), honey. Take the first chance and ask him if he likes you. No matter what he says ask him out because then he'll tell you. I am always here!

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I have plenty of clothes but I never can find something to wear. I'm overweight and its hard to look decent without looking weird. It takes me sometimes 2 hours to find something! Does anyone have any ideas?

Think about losing some weight by excersing more or eating healthy. Wear more baggy clothes so it seems like you are less fat. Hope i helped!

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my friends just wrote something in my advice colomn and its about me and this is wut it said...

okay well me and my friends have this REALLY weird friend! and omg she is s0o0o0o annoying! she wears the gayest cloths ever and the gayest shoes and like no one likes her. she used to be our good friend but now she is just sooooo weird and its so annoying. plus none of the guys like her and neither do the girls. i mean she is just soo weird its like ahhhh! and she copys EVERYONE on EVERYTHING! and we are just like tired of it cuz shes so gay and so annoying! should we tell her or just keep pretending to like her?


i dont know wut to do...im so flippin hurt and im so frustrated...plz..i need advice...i rate high (i dont wear the gayest clothes or the gayest shoes ever either)

~thanks in advance..~

Oh my gosh! Some friends you have. They may seem like really nice and so forth but they aren't it seems. I know how you feel. How could your closet friend talk behind your back on something not true? Well, just go along with it and try and pretend nothing has happened. Try meeting some new friends and hang out with people that don't seem so bad of you. Hope I helped!

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ok, i think this is going to sound really dumb, but i may as well ask it anyway. im 14/f.
well, im going out with this guy, we've been going out for nearly a month now, and he's my first proper boyfriend, and i know im the most serious he's had.
anyway, we're going to watch a movie in a couple of days, and some of my mates and some of his are coming too. the thing is, when we've been out before, we've been out in town, in the park, ive been to his house and things like that, so its not really the most romantic of settings, and i havent kissed him properly yet. i mean, we're fairly comfortable with each other and stuff, thre just hasnt been the right time to kiss him. and ive never kissed a guy before. so, any tips on how to handle the back row of the cinema? any advice would be appreciated. thanks

Well, don't rush into kissing. Alot of people do rush into it and then they relize that they didn't mean to do it. You have to decide if this is the right guy or not or if u really want your first kiss to be this one. Take it slow, and when your kiss comes I am sure it'll be special!

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theres this really annoying kid at school and he gets on my nerves soo bad..ive tried saying shut up but it doesnt work!please help!ino its not huge but its so annoying!

Well what does he annoy u about?? BEacuse what eva it is u have to confront to him about that. If he is being like plain falt out annoying like try to get away from him or tell him the truth.

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So here's the story....((I'm 13, almost 14, and I'm a girl))I went to Europe the summer of 2004 and i went with a group from TX and a group from Georgia. I met this guy from GA and he was so sweet and we started to go out. ((I'm from TX)) Ok and like our trip eneded after 3 weeks and we were still going out. I loved him soooo much, and when we left each other I couldn't stop crying. Two weeks after we got home I broke up with him. The reason being because it's not that I stopped loving him, but every night for 2 weeks I cried myself to sleep and I thought maybe if I break up with him I would stop hurting, but I just hurt more. And before I knew it I told him and he said that he didn't want get hurt again. And every day since then I think about how I would be different today if I never broke up with him. Do you think I'm stupid for still thinking about it?

No not at all. You'll get used to it this is what life is. You meet some then lose some. The one that u let go and it comes back to u is da one that was meant to be. Everything will be fine soon! Hope I helped I am always hereif ya need me.

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okay well, how do you delete a person that was added to your advice colum,as a friend? because my friend got banned from her site and i have her on my advice colum as one of the people that you can click on their names and it goes to their sight. Okay, well thanks!

You go to Favortie colonist and it says delete and u can delete that person.
Sincerely,
XXcrazy4evaXX

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well my boyfriend jus dumped me and i dont really mind cuz i still love my ex boyfriend that i dumped for reasons.....but i really want him back but im 2 afraid to call himm cuz i dont know what he will say....and i dont know what to say to himm...what should i do???

Well, go tell your ex boifriend how u really feel and see if he understands. Say like I really regret the fact I dumped u. But i want u back . See if that works. I am always here.

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Okay Im friends with this girl, but not that close. I found out from sombody that she cuts herself and gets abused by her dad. I dont know if i believe this but for a fact she scratches her arm and makes it bleed and seems very proud ( with her nails ). Also her dad is strict with her, with school work and all... but a lot of parents are? Is this a bad sign? Any suggestions? thanks

Well, rumors really hurt ppl and the only way to know if the rumor is correct is ask her. Just like bring it up like i have to talk to u about something or say i have a couple really important questions to ask.Hope i helped...

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I'm 13 and female. Ok, my best guy friend is startin to act all wierd. I mean, he used to be so nice and sweet to me and give me all sorts of advice on guys. That was before he got with his girlfriend. Then he got with is girlfriend and he was still just as sweet and kind, but then they broke up and now he's so different. It's hard to explain. He's not as sweet as he used to be and he doesn't give advice, he just says,"ur screwed then" and he's always talking to his ex-girlfriend. I don't mean to be jealous, but I do get jealous easily. He really has changed. I know he says I'm his best female friend, because he told me. I don't know how to ask him what's up with out sounding totally bitchy or jealous. Please help. I'm an advice comlumnist,too and I guess everyone needs help once in a while.

~K~

I think he is depressed and is hurting the one he loves the most and doens't relize it.TAlk with him and see if there is anything u can do. OR tell him how u feel. Be honest with him.

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hi,

does anyone have any tips on swallowing pills? i have to take some medium to large ones, and it's been hard for me to get them down. i can swallow small ones easy, its just those big ones. (no, i do not have a pill slicer.)


thanks.

Maybe cut it in half that is what i do. Or take a full glass of some drink u like(not soda that is harder) and drink it down. Concentrate. That is what i do.

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I'm supposed to go to the movies with a guy I've liked for awhile now, tomarrow. We've hung out before and stuff and we've make out and some other things and he told me he really liked me. So, on my birthday he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with some of our friends and of corse I said yes.I went and it turned out he never went so my birthday kind of sucked. Then he asked me again another day if I wanted to go to the movies and I said yeah. Ended up that he never even called me about it.Oh,and he never appologized either time. Do ya'll think I should trust him to come tomarrow, or do you think I should just invite somebody else?

I'd be in da middle. Have someone that u know that will say yes and can go on such short notice just in case...like a back up. I wouldn't trust him so much soo just make sure u have a back up plan. One time call him if ya get around to it and see y he hasn't been going ya know??

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i have this crush on a guy in my class and i have liked him the whole year. I dont know if he likes me back. Some times i get mixed signals like one time he called me and asked for homework for no reason b/c he really arleady knew that we didnt, but also i would love it if we were really good friends but i dont know how to ask him. Plz help if you can thanks

Say something like i feel like we are growing closer and we are becoming more than friends and i want to do something with it. See if that works. If not then tell him how u feel. I know it is really hard but u have to be honest with him...Hope I helped

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is it wrong to like someone younger than you?

No follow your heart do what u feel....

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I have like this guy since last year. We have flirted a little bit and stuff like that, but i cant tell if he likes me. He stares at me all the time during class. But when we talk on AIM, he will be really mean. Except, today, I randomly asked if he had seen "Coach cater" because i wanted to know if it was a good movie, and he said "no, but do u want to go?" I said i was already going witha friend, and he was like "fine ur loss". I dont know if this was some kind of joke, or if he really likes me! Please help me out!

Well, he might have been joking but not joking at the same time. Get what i mean?? anyways ask him if we wants to go see another movie sometime to make up for when u couldn't go see if that works hope i helped!

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