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So here's the story....((I'm 13, almost 14, and I'm a girl))I went to Europe the summer of 2004 and i went with a group from TX and a group from Georgia. I met this guy from GA and he was so sweet and we started to go out. ((I'm from TX)) Ok and like our trip eneded after 3 weeks and we were still going out. I loved him soooo much, and when we left each other I couldn't stop crying. Two weeks after we got home I broke up with him. The reason being because it's not that I stopped loving him, but every night for 2 weeks I cried myself to sleep and I thought maybe if I break up with him I would stop hurting, but I just hurt more. And before I knew it I told him and he said that he didn't want get hurt again. And every day since then I think about how I would be different today if I never broke up with him. Do you think I'm stupid for still thinking about it?
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no, its not stupid AT ALL! i still, to this day, think about my "first love" and what would have happened if we never broke up...and that was a year and a half ago...but now that you got it out in the open with him, it will be easer to move on....like i told my ex how i felt...and that helped me get over him, and since then i think ive found a "new love", but no matter what...you never forget the first person you truly loved....so its okay
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No not at all. You'll get used to it this is what life is. You meet some then lose some. The one that u let go and it comes back to u is da one that was meant to be. Everything will be fine soon! Hope I helped I am always hereif ya need me.
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At 13 you dont really know love, but I may be wrong, since everyone's different. But...I dont think you were stupid, because everyone makes mistakes. If you love him like you say you do, I'd try to get him back. And if he doesnt want to get back together in fear of being hurt again, I'd just become good friends...because a good frienship is the most important and rare thing on this planet.
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no your not stupid.First you need to figure out if you truly love this guy or not.after you are completly sure you can decide what to do.if he is just a summer love then just let him go. you will move on and stop hurting. if you really love him which i think is unlikely but possible you have to get him back. summer love is over as quickly as it starts and you could get hurt.you don't have to stress over this. maybe it would be better if you were just friends.good luck!
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Your not stupid! everyone whos loved someone, even if that someone hurt them, they always think about them. You cant keep thinking about it though because then if another guy asks you out you'll think about him and change your mind.
hope i helped byes<3
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