Question Posted Wednesday February 9 2005, 4:07 pm
my bf and i have been going out for a month now and i really like him! but before him and i were going out i sorta liked this guy named steve. and he knows that i have a bf now and we still talk and were friends and everything, but now hes saying i love you and he asked me to the movies. i want to go and hang out with him. but im afraid that knowing he likes me now and the fact i used to like him will make me get feelings for him again!! and i don't wanna do that to my bf cuz i love him more then anything
should i or should i not go to the movies?
and what should i do about the whole situation
Karen answered Wednesday February 9 2005, 4:36 pm: You should definitely go to the movies with Steve because you are only going as friends? There is no rule in a relationship stating that you can't go out somewhere with a friend while you are dating someone, right? But if I were, I would talk to your boyfriend about this and tell him that you are only going out as friends and maybe he can come with you and Steve so Steve gets the point that you love your boyfriend and that he will know that you are together. Your boyfriend should let you go with Steve. Hope I helped :)
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aBsTrAcTwOrLd3 answered Wednesday February 9 2005, 4:31 pm: Yes definatly go to the movies but take your boy friend along so steve gets the idea that you are together. Try to talk to steve and tell him all the mushy stuff about how much you care about him and and that you think he is great then gently tell him you have a bouyfriend and you are not available for dates. Hope I helped! [ aBsTrAcTwOrLd3's advice column | Ask aBsTrAcTwOrLd3 A Question ]
XXcrazy4evaXX answered Wednesday February 9 2005, 4:29 pm: Yes go to the movies but tell your bf that you are hanging out with steve but just as friends nothing more. ANd ask him if it okay to do that. If your bf says yes and he is totally being honest yes go but only do that if your bf says yes aight?? [ XXcrazy4evaXX's advice column | Ask XXcrazy4evaXX A Question ]
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