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HEY MY NAME IS TERRI!!! WELL I MADE THIS THINGY TO HELP YOU ALL SO FEEL FREE TO ASK ME ANYTHING!!! LUV YALLZ!!! BUH BYE!!! P.S. PLZ RATE ME!!! THANKZ!!!
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yea okay were doing this dead person project. and we have to make tombstones. anyway. it has to be like a foot tall. and i don't know what to make it out of? and it has to be 3D and be able to stand..please helpp asap!! (link)
um you could try using cardboard. um... good luck on the projaect and have fun..... i guess! buh bye!!! hope i helped!!!! ♥ terri!!!


soemone i kno died and im really bad at dealing with it its been awhile and i still get thoose days that i just miss them so much is there anyway i can cope better?has this happened to you?if so howd u deal?
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yes i know how it feels to loose a loved one. its very hard to deal with. just think you should be happy because they have gone to a better place. listen to this quote: when you were born, everyone around you was smiling and you were crying. live your life so that when you die you are smiling and everybody else is crying. hope i helped and im very sorry for the loss of your loved one!!! buh bye!!! ♥ terri!!!


what is 69 the sex position everyone says it and i dont no what the hell it is? plez help (link)
um obviously your too young and you really dont need to know and if your older then your playing around and ya need to get a fucking life!!! i know who this is by the way, its the same person who just left that other question and yes i know who you are!!! dumba$$!! get a fucking life you stupid fucker!!! ♥ terri!!!


when u ask a question on these is it completely anoynomous even if you have an advice column of your own? (link)
yes it is. no one knows who you are unless you leave a name!!! pleaze rate me high!!! thanks!!! buh bye!!! ♥ terri!!!


hey guys im going to a party on saturday and its a bonfire outside and getting a dj... this is kinda embarassing but o well i am not the best dancer out there so if any of you could like tell me step by step how to grind and stuff thatd be great thanks! i know im just supposed to let loose.. but it like doesnt work

15/f. (link)
hey well i aint the best dancer either! heck im so embarrassed to dance in froont of others! well maybe you could ask your friends before the party if you could come over and they could teach you some moves! other than that just move to the music! have fun!!! hope i helped!! buh bye!! ♥ terri!!!


This is going to be long... BEAR WITH ME!

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now, and we are very much in love. Just like any other couple, we have our fights and our ups and downs.

A few weeks ago, at my homecoming dance a friend of mine was driving me and a large group of my friends back to a girls house for a sleepover. (Don't worry, there were no guys sleeping over) In the front seat there was a guy sitting there from another school. He used to go to my highschool but was transfered out, not sure why though. Anyway, we were tall talking in the car, and I said something and the kid in the front seat turned around and turned on the light and said "I want to get a good look at you". We were talking about random things for about 20 minutes then we got to the girls house I was staying over at, and I left.


A few days later, he added me as his friend on myspace, then we started talking alot online. We realized we had SO much in common. We like the same foods, have the same aspirations, he lives RIGHT next door to my aunt, alot of the same beliefs... About after a week or two of talking online he said to me "I'm so in love with you". I figured he meant the kind of I love you that you'd say to your close friends. And I was said "Yeah, I'm sure". He said "No, I really do. You're the most amazing girl I've ever met. I talk to you more than other girls. You're beautiful, sweet.. Everything I could ever hope for in a girl". He does know that I have a boyfriend and that we've been together for a while and that we love eachother. He says he doesn't want to get in the way of our relationship.. But he is.


I've found my self slowly but surely falling for this guy, and it sucks. But I've noticed a few things about him.. Everything he says doesn't seem sincere. He tells me how much he likes me yadda yadda yadda... But then he goes and says the same thing to other girls. So, at this point I'm thinking to myself that I'm just another girl to him.. Nothing special. I'm trying to not think about him because I DO love my boyfriend dearly.. But I keep thinking about this boy. And I hate it.



I need help to stop thinking about him.. I don't want to stop talking to him completely because he's really nice and a great person to talk to. I'm so confused... What do I do? I'm not about to ruine my year and a half relationship for something I don't know is going to even last... I'm tired of taking chances. (link)
i think he likes you not loves you because you say he says this to other girls too. definetly dont ruin it wit your boyfriend, youve been togethor for a long time. its not worth it to ruin it with your boyfriend. well for this other guy tell him that you like him as a friend but you dont feel the same way about him. tell him that you love your boyfriend and im not going to give it up for some fake love that i know wont last long. hope i helped and good luck!!! buh bye!!! ♥ terri!!!


hello, i need help. guys just dont like me anymore. and im depressed, my best friend tells me things will be ok but i feel so alone. all i do is cry. its not looks, because guys hit on me and stuff, just like once they get to know me then run, if you have any advice please help.. (link)
well show them the fun and exciting side of you and always be yourself!!! if they dont like you then they arent worht your time and they probably like you better as friends. dont worry though hope i helped buh bye!!! ♥ terri!!!


k does ne1 no how to get those ♥ thingys i had to copy and paste this 1. thanks i'll rate 5s for working awnsers. (link)
lol! i just found out myself like a week ago! theyre kool! well anyway you put & hearts ; all togethor with no spaces! please rate me!!! thanks!!! ♥ terri!!!


i am babysitting with a friend so we have to split the money and the town isnt very rich about how much should i charge 1 kid per hour 2 kids per hour 3 kids per hour and 3 kids per hour

i rate high (link)
heres wut i thinki is fair and cheap too:
1 kid:$3
2 kids:$6
3 kids:$11
hope i helped!!! buh bye!!! ♥terri


ok this is my dilemma.there is this guy called rick in both my english and history clases.he looks at me a lot.and when i say something in class.he at times smiles at me like his proud of me or something.its wierd cause now am thinking about him A LOT.him and me as a couple and am not really sure if i even like him.DO I LIKE HIM OR DO I JUST LIKE THE ATTENTION HIS GIVING ME OR BOTH./AND DOES HE LIKE ME ANYWAY
i am so confused.help me out here guys.

i rate 5 (link)
well yeah i think he does like you and i think you do like him too!!! you still also love the attention from him too. ♥ terri!!!


my boyfriend is sort of moving too fast for me. we've made out but he was trying to really touch my the whole time. i liked it for a while.then is just got annoying. i love him more then like..i think¿ what should i do? (link)
well the next time this happens tell him that your not ready to go this far and you wanna take it slow. if he respects you and cares for you then he will go slow but if he doesnt listen then he doesnt deserve you and you need to tell him its over. hope i helped and good luck!!! buh bye!!!


Okay my boyfriends birthday is Saturday so I want to throw him a big supper but I dunno what to cook for him. I got the cake lol. I'm not sure on what to cook though. So can anyone help me out plz..

♥Shawntay (link)
um ask his parents if they know any favorite dishes he really enjoys. hope i helped! have fun!!! buh bye!!


how can i make my own free advice columns? You know where you can link your own personal page and have people ask you for advice... what website can i go to to make my free advice column where i can link it to my profile? please help i rate high! (link)
well usually after you ask a question they give you this thing saying whethor or not you wanna make your own advice column. if that doesnt work try going to advicenators.com hope i helped! buh bye!!!


Hey advicenators! =P

What do you think should be the curfew for a 15 year old girl? I'm asking this because I'm going to the movies with my guy friend and my parents want me home at 10pm. I'm a very trustworthy person and I WON'T have sex with him, that's for sure. He's only a friend. I'm kinda pissed about this because I want to stay out later, but they're strict & say only 10pm. I know I'm lucky because some kids can't even go out with friends yet. But, what do you guys think? Thanks. (link)
well in my opinion i think it should be at least 11:30 or maybe even midnite. you should try having a talk wiht your parents and be like im very responsible and im not going to have or do anything with him because im only 15 and sex is something you do when you love them. somehting like that. hope i helped!!! buh bye!!!


I just started a new job in the clothing department of a superstore. I want my coworkers to like me, what could I do to accomplish this? (link)
just start some conversations with them when your not busy. maybe help them out with somethings or somehting. hope i helped!! buh bye!!!


Ok, i am 20 yrs old and i have a child and a boyfriend. He is a big mamas boy. His mom lives down the street about 3 min to drive there. His sister lives across the street. So i see his family at least once a day.(no joke) My family lives across town so i dont get to see them as much. I like his family but then theres time i really dont. His mother i fell always puts me down in a nice way, but maybe thats just me. Everybody kinda aggures with me and i start not to like them. Am a person who takes things to heart and they like to joke alot and make fun of people. Im just asking is it right for me to not like them so much since i see them all the time or am i just being selfish of the love that my boyfriend has for his family? (link)
i think you and your family not his need some alone time by yourselves. your probably just really sick and tired of seeing his family and you miss seeing yours. so you guys should go and visit your family for a weekend or something!! hope i helped!!! buh bye!!


I think I might like this boy. I've known him forever like since kindergarden. We used to be best friends and he liked me in kindergarden, 1st, 2nd, maybe 3rd and a little bit of 5th grade. We now talk to each other almost everyday online. Now that I think about it I might have feelings for him more than just good friends. But I already like this boy from a different school who is a little cuter than him. But the boy from the other school I barely know but hes soo hott.

So I don't know what to do.

Should I like the boy that I've known forever and is semi cute or should I like the boy from the other school who is H*O*T*T* hott??

Please help I rate really high.
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you should so not go with the guy that you say is hot even though we all wanna.lol. you should go with the guy that your most comfortable around and that you can talk to. hope i helped!! buh bye!!!


Hey. I'm 13/m and I accept none of that "teenagers don't know love" crap. Maybe most teenagers don't, but I'm not most teenagers. I had a friend from science class. Long story short, over the summer, I realized that I loved her, I told her, she didn't love me back, I experienced The Void, and pretty much every new true emotion, I couldn't get her out of my head, and then when school started, things were awkward. I can't think of any other way to describe it. It just felt awkward. Anyway, I talked to her about that yesterday, and she agreed. So now we just forgot anything ever happened and we're back as regular friends now. I had felt like crap for a really long time, and I seemed to screw absolutely everything up. Well, now that all this pressure is off of me, I feel a lot better and I'm back to my regular happy goofy self again. Which is good. Except I feel strangely empty inside. Just a tiny pit of blackness in my happy heart. It feels nothing like The Void at all. Just... emptiness. Why? What is it? What's all this about? Thanks in advance...

By the way, here are my standards on your answers: I will NOT always rate a 5, I will rate whatever I find appropriate. I will not always rate anyway, but I will try. I will not hesitate to give you a 1 or report you, I have been responsible for a number of permanent bans. So no smartass answers. And just a matter of personal interest, try to use proper grammar. Please. (link)
well its a feeling thats telling you that you cant love her and so your feeeling empty and lonely. personally i think you were a little too young to be feeling these emotions it was probably a feeeling of just liking her more than any other person. well what you should do is give yourself some space from her. dont be mean about it by ignoring her but just try hanging out with some other friends. this will make your feeeling of emptyness go away because you should probably forget these strong feelings for her. hope i helped buh bye! IF YOU NEED MORE HELP ABOUT THIS IM ME SOMETIME AND WE CAN TALK MY S/N IS T3RRI2010!!!


Okay, my friend (we'll call her mary) and I are about the same size, except i'm a bit leaner because i'm tall and stuff. But she ALWAYS wants to borrow my clothes. I didn't mind at first but now it's coming to every day -- she sees what i'm wearing and says "I'm borrowing that." Also, our other friend is like 2 sizes smaller than us but "mary" has even borrowed clothes from her. "Mary" has worn my petite friend's favorite hoodie more times than she has!
Its really starting to get on both of our nerves. During the summer I let her borrow one of my coolest skirts and she got a stain on it. Yeah, it's tiny. But I mean, come on. Also, she always says I can borrow any of her clothes whenever I want when she borrows mine. But the truth is, her fashion sense sucks. All she does is buy brand names and the clothes are usually the wrong size for her because shes in denial about being a size xlarge. So, she gives the clothes to our small friend who could practically wear them as nightshirts their so big on her. Anyway, so should I just keep kinda ignoring her requests to borrow my clothes or just let her borrow them once in awhile to keep her sated? Or just outright tell her that she stretches out my clothes? WHAT? (link)
just tell her your mom doesnt want you to do it anymore. shell believe it just have your mom go along with it. hope i helped!!! buh bye!!!


Ok im a guy and im lettin my hiar grow out cus it looks bad when short but its growing out straight so my question is how do i make my hair curl alittle with out specail shampoo or curlers or anything else that guys shouldnt us (link)
personally i hate guys hair when its long but its what you want so you do what you want. you could try putting mouse in your hair after you get out of the shower and try making it a little messy looking. hope i helped!!! buh bye!!!




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