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I moved here in 6th grade and I've always wanted to be popular...So I tried hanging with the white popular people and it seriously was HARD work!! Each year, things got better..and now I'm at that point where we'd be better friends if I'd invite them over (I haven't invited them over yet because I'm embaress that they will say that my house is small compared to theres..or that they will make fun of my lifestyle..and everything) I'm now in 11th grade..and I really want to be friends with these people..I don't think I can keep a close relationship with them if I never invite them over...I'm just very embaressed of the way I live...Compared to them, I'm so much uglier and poorer..and they're rich...Please don't judge..Thanks

if they wont be friends with you because of money then they arent worth your time

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im 16 and had a baby 3 months ago today.my mum and dad are strict catholics and demanded that me and my baby)s father to get married.well me and the babys father split. so my mum and dad were like "i told u so". i left home and moved into a council flat.i have got exams this yaer and im finding it so hard.even tho i have paid childcare thoughtout the day im so tired to do anything.my mum said that i had her and so shes my responsability.im getting desperate now and even thought about adoption.has anyone got any good advica on how to cope. the last thing i want to do is say to my mum that she was right.sorry its long.

i read some of the advice given to you and most of it was good saying that you should go to your mom and talk to her tell her that your sorry and that you need her help, like someone else said your her responsibility and she just cant leave you either, do NOT pu your baby up for adoption, a baby needs its mother, and if you want your baby to not be in this mess when he/she is older then it will be more likely for him/her not to be if you keep them. love your baby, thats what it and you need.

for school, study study study and relax take a break or a vacation do something for yourself once in a while

talk to your ex, even if he dosent want to marry you its his problem to and he needs to help you out when you need help

and as for the advice that someone gave you his name was shaken i believe, ignore it TOTALLY IGNORE THAT PERSONS ADVICE.your child is your blessing even if you dont feel like that now,and what they said totally made me feel like crying it was so cruel, you didnt mess you life up like they said and if you work your hardest you will probably be better off in the end than they will,

its whats right and what you know is right

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i like this person and he's 25 and he is kind of a teacher at my school. i can't get over him. how do i get over him?

why do you have a crush on him? is he cute and funny? arent there any other cute and funny guys in your school? what make him so diffrent? his age mabey? or is it just a silly thing you like? think of it this way, there are more people out there that will work for you, go find them and dont wait for a teacher you wont get. especially since it might affect your grades later(or now). to get over your techer think about why you really like him why you dont why he cant work for you and who else at your school has his pros that you can hang out with

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Ok, well I have REALLY dark circles under my eyes! I don't how to get rid of them , and i get almost 9 hours of sleep! Ive tried falling asleep earlier, but it wouldn't work even if i could actually fall asleep earlier. I hate them and they look so ugly! Any ideas of how i can get rid of these ugly things, or at least cover them up?

well i read the other peoples answers and i have to say they werent to helpful, make sure to keep getting sleep and doing things to make you smile, and if your putting on mascara correctly then it shouldnt be that, also get some concealer, and you dont have tto have three layers like someone else said, all you need to do i buy one that is LIGHTER than your skin tone, the circles under your eyes are already dark so why put dark color on it right!

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Ok, well I have REALLY dark circles under my eyes! I don't how to get rid of them , and i get almost 9 hours of sleep! Ive tried falling asleep earlier, but it wouldn't work even if i could actually fall asleep earlier. I hate them and they look so ugly! Any ideas of how i can get rid of these ugly things, or at least cover them up?

well i read the other peoples answers and i have to say they werent to helpful, make sure to keep getting sleep and doing things to make you smile, and if your putting on mascara correctly then it shouldnt be that, also get some concealer, and you dont have tto have three layers like someone else said, all you need to do i buy one that is LIGHTER than your skin tone, the circles under your eyes are already dark so why put dark color on it right!

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Im 14/Female and i havnt had my period yet. But i discharge...its heavy (been heavy) since maybe october. Not all the time though. Is it normal for it to be yellowish white? Because i will be in school sometimes and i will discharge and i will always look down to see if i had my period and i dont but its scary. When i do get my period and if im in school will it just come out when it wants to (like people could see it) that would be embarresing! Please Help Ladies! i rate high and give feedback!!!! Thank U

i would say that its coming, start wearing and carrying pads and make sure to keep a jacket in your locker, if you leak at school and you can see it through your pants then youll want the jacket to tie around your waist and cover it up,and when you start make sure you always have enough pads and go to the restroom often or else youll be more likely to leak

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I know this guy since we were 7 years old. I think he is gay. He always talks about gay people. He always points out who is gay. He has no male friends of his own and he goes to gay clubs and claims he is just watching to see who lives a secretly gay life. He also has a lot of woman friends and gossips very much.
He dates women have no flaws. Very pretty women that look like models.He is very picky. He calls every body ugly. when i date a guy he tells me he's not that cute. I've seen cuter. Is it just me or is that something a girl would say? What do you think about this situation.?

well the dating pretty women thing, guys are shallow like that, not saying he is but mabey he prob. just like that more, the gay bar/club thing, huh, interesting ,mabey he just finds it interesting, and saying the guys you date arent cute, mabey hes just saying that cause he wants the best for you, thats my fight against saying hes gay, now do i think he is though, could be but i dont know him, ask him, mabeys hes bi. or shy about being gay or not even at all

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theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them

ummm ok so is this your first date cause if it is then a girl wants respect from a guy and not to just start making out on the first date, if it is and you want to kiss her dont get all over her with it,save that for later on, if your not even on a date then once again dont try making out with her,only give her a kiss to let her know how you feel if you cant just tell her, and dont try to get into a situation where you start kissing, if its right itll be right

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I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long!

well other people told you to write a note, but i wouldnt say that is the best approach, my friend at school has been friends with this one guy for a while and he wrote her a note saying that he wanted to move theie relationship to the next level, she didnt know what to do, she dosent like him like that but she couldnt just say no to him, now their dating but only cause she couldnt say no, even when she dosent like him that way, so what im saying is that it may be a little awkward if you write him a note, ask him yourself or your brother, it'll turn out better

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My sterio CD thing wont open. I have a Cd stuck in there and it won't open. i'm worried. Anyone know how i can get it to open? answer QUICKLY!

pry it open but dont use a metal object, itll scratch yor cd, if it still wont open call the store you bought it from or bring it to that store and ask for help

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okay My Kitchen is all white. My cabinets are that weird plastiky white kind with red handles, the appliances are white and everything. The whole thing looks horrible. The floor is old and disgusting linolium, and since we moved our door to the other side of the room theres sheet rock showing below some of the cabinets.We aren't getting the whole thing done until summer possibly. Does anybody have any suggestions on how to make it look not so white? Is there any kind of decorations i can use to liven this mess up? is there any some typical things out there that make the kitchen look any better? becasue really, nothing matches, and looks good.It's just so horrible looking sometimes. I really can't bear it.

get a new floor and paint the cabinets, try watching the home decorating tv shows also , they always give you great ideas on a low budget on how to make it look great even when your doing it yourself

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I am a 15/female and am redoing my bedroom (besides my furniture.) The furniture I currently have is like a beige color. My carpet is also beige and my walls are bare and white. My room is fairly large. Right now the design is like roses, but not cute ones, like old lady roses. I want to make the room more teenagerish, less my parents designing it when I was in second grade. Please, any ideas for my room or if you are a teenage girl, could you tell me what your room is like. All advice would be enjoyed! Thank you!!

if you have a bigger budget then put in some hardwood or the laminate hardwood stuff to break up the beige, and dont go to wild with the color or youll get sick of it, do greens or blues, purple, or if you do want it brighter dont paint all the walls the same color, paint one or two the bright color and keep the others white, look for the beding and accesories first so that you can use them to find theme colors and the perfect shade for you, its easier than finding the shade then the stuff

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Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o)

it depends on what your room accesories are like, going with a more greeny color would be better, but try something green with a little sheen of another color in it

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This is sortof long but please!!!


Ok i have this EX friend Rachael. She hangs out with William and Laura. We aren't good friends but we used to be best friends. But one day we got in a big fight and got back together. It hapened 3 more times. Then just last week William told me that Laura recorded me on her phone saying that Rachael is a b@#$% but i only called her that when i didnt like her. i asked Laura but she said she didnt.. And Rachael is like going around telling peoeple bull about me and telling people to stay away. She is just so ARGH!! i don't want anythig to do with her, but shes in my french class and she always sets her infront of me. I JUST HATE RACHEAL!!! how the heck can i get her out of my friggin life? as well as Laura and William

Tell them off! tell them off! Tell them off!
jk jk jk jk jk dont do that itll make it much worse
just dont talk to them, tell them you dont want them to talk to you
if you want them out of your life them make it so they arent
and when racheal sits in front of you, move

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ok well when i was younger i had an agent and i did small tv things, and i remember it taking up a lot of my time. ITs been awhile since i have done n e thing involving tv and broadway, and now my dad thinks its a good time to start up again. I have been re hired and everything but when i talked to my agent she says i would probably have to quit a lot of my activites. I am involved with a lot of things right now and i dont no if its the best for me to do this. I really want to act right now and do this again but i dont want to regret it in the long run.

Plex Help

if you really want to act then why shouldnt you? why would doing something you love and want to do hurt you in the long run? you cant just say no because of what you think might possibly happen. youll gain alot of expiriences you need in life by taking on acting. quit something that you dont really enjoy and you dont have the passions for. doing something you dont like, not acting for example, will hurt you more in the long run
Never look past today,or your tommorow will be nothing but dejavoo

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Me and my mom are just not close. I can't talk about anything to her and she has never told me that she loves me. How can we get closer? If I try and talk to her about anything, like boys or make up, she just gets this look on her face, this kinda stupid grin. And then she tells me to shut up. What do I do?

have you ever seen that pretty recent 7th heaven episode where the girls mom acts really cruely to her and has never said she loves her, it was because she was treated that way as a child, tell your mom that you love her, she does love you, spend some time with her, you dont want to end up that way, and she dosent want you to

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i was going out with my ex boyfriend for 2 years on and off (10 months str8) and around dec-jan he was changing big time.. and i got fed up with it so i broke up with him (he never had time for me, he called me all these names n everything..etc.) and now i love him as friend but im not in love with him, i like this new guy who once was his close friend and the guy likes me, but i would feel so bad if my ex found out what should i do? should i not go 4 the new guy or should i and not tell anyone

Go for it, who cares what your ex says, he was being a jerk to you and you have the right to date whoever you want

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so, its schedule planning time in my High school. and this year ive taken classes in this program called Middle Years Program. Ive found my 4.0 grades last year imp[ossible in this program, its rigorous. i have a 3.0. its a 2 year program and i can drop out niext year, and take honors and AP classes instead, but i dono if i should. the pros of this program is that ill get a MYP certificate of completeion, i dono if that is important to any college. in addition to next year, id have to ocomplete a "personal project" which is a 6month long project. its tons of work. i need to get a job next year. i can barely do MYp now, i don if i should drop out because next year ill have to have a job, and do the personal project, and get reasonable grades in MYP. im working hard to rise my GPA but so far i find myself very swamped and confused. on top of ALL of this my mom most likely wants me to keep being in MYP, because she thinks i can handle it. but i cant and i want to get into penn state, and i cant with 3.0 grades. please give me advice, i dono what to do with myself.

it seems like your stressed and overworked, id say that what you need to do is go and get some info on peen state, see if they are interested with students who have an MYP, if they like that kinda thing then you should think about whether you want to continue or not, when you graduate your two years in the MYP will be on the application, even though you didnt have four, correct? and advanced classes and honors also impress, a 4.0 + honors/ap will impress more and if you think by next year that you can take MYP + have a 4.0 then go for it, just remember to take a break once in a while, when your really feeling overloaded

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hello. i apologize if the english that i speak isnt as good. i have moved to USA from brazil one month ago.since i speak portuguese(the language used in brazil), german, spanish, italian, french, and english, sometimes i do not remember to speak in english. at my school it is hard to join with friends. if a person has knowledge on joining with groups of people it would be helping.

you speak alot of languages! its amazing and extremely impressive, i dont know many people who can do that, just try to have fun and be yourself if someone you find speaks a language you do talk to them in it, join a club and smile alot, youll make plenty of friends,just have fun :)

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I have to do 5 hours of community service for school and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what I could do that would involve things that I like to do. Some things I like to do that might involve any kind of community service are being with little kids and dancing. Any help would be appreciated... thanks.

well if you like kids and dancing then go to a local dance school for children around the age you want to help with and voluteer to help instruct for a while itll be fun

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