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Alrighty, well I feel like a big goob doing this but I figure what's it going to hurt? Well, I like this guy. A LOT. I've liked him for a while now and we've been friends for pretty much since we first met. Anyway, we'll call him "FRED". He's in a band (which will clear some things up in a moment) and he's also 24… I'll be turning 18 in September… Major diff there? I know. But anyway, I wrote down a list of he likes me/he doesn't like me…. And I just wondering if any of you could possibly go through them and tell me what you think? Do you think he likes me? And if he does, what's his deal? Lol Well thanks much. Sorry if this doesn't make much sense.
Signs He Might Like Me
1. Knew I was feeling bad one night so he sent me my favorite song and told me he was being my granny for the night.
2. Told me his band wasn't going to be able to sing my favorite song at their concert because it wasn't really the 'place' for it. But he surprised me and played it anyway. He knew I was upset because they couldn't play it.
3. My friend said that he looks at me. At one of his concerts my friend said he kept walking by me, looking at me out of the corner of his eyes. And would watch me when my back was turned.
4. Sometimes I catch him looking at me.
5. Made me one of his friends on myspace but didn't make someone who he had known longer than me a friend. He also replied back to me when I left him a comment but not to any of the others that commented him.
6. He keeps the bracelets I throw up on stage at his concerts and wears them when I'm not at his shows.
7. He called my name at one of his shows to show me his puppy and when I gave him a hug, he later had an away message up that said, "All I wanna do is hold you in my arms forever. I feel so safe in your embrace. My mind is telling me that there's no way possible I could actually be feeling this way so soon but my heart overrides my mind."
8. Replies to all of my messages I leave on the bands message board but sometimes leaves others out.
9. Confides in me about his problems and his ex girlfriend and his problem with depression.
10. When he found out another girl was trying to throw bracelets on stage at their shows he left a message on the message board that said it was my thing and for the other girls not to start copying me.
Signs He Doesn't
1. Sometimes he acts completely aloof when I'm around, like he doesn't even know I'm there. He says it's because he's usually out of it in the mornings (at church) and at concerts he doesn't notice people too much because he's too 'excited'.
2. Once seemed to flirt openly with my friend while on stage. Not sure if he was flirting or just wanting to scare her because she was just standing there and he likes for people to be energetic during the shows.
3. The away message he had up after the concert could have been about someone else and not about me at all.
4. Chances are he just talks to me because he wants to be my friend
5. He probably only sent me the song so I would compliment him on his wonderful singing.
So what do you guys think? Yes, no, maybe? Pathetic, I know (link)
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I think he does like you. I mean first of all there are more signs that he likes you than there are of signs he doesnt like you. Also he sounds very interested in you too. age doesnt matter [as long as you not tooooooo young...]
so go for it. maybe make a move? or tell him how you feel. maybe use lettered beads and spell out i like you [or i love you]on a bracelet and toss it up stage. and maybe when he writes an away messgae like how he does. write one back in response to how u feel.
hope you guys work out!!
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tommorow at school we'll have to do a run for 12 minutes and i have a soar throat. if i run for that amount of time my throat will taste like blood and i dunwant to make it worse so what can i do to fix my soar throat? (link)
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the best thing is to get ur medications to help it. another solution, breath in from ur nose and out through your mouth when running. it probably wont be as bad. or you can at least get a note to sit out the run.
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okay, i have no clue how to flirt...i don't know how to go about doing that, i don't know how a guys mind works, and all that. What are some techniques u guys use to catch a guy's eye? I like this guy, i just dunno how to flirt... (link)
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Just be yourself and act pretty, if you know what i mean. Show little signs that you like him and maybe he'll get the picture. Make him laugh and try to talk about things you both have in common.
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