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I like him but does he like me too?
Alrighty, well I feel like a big goob doing this but I figure what's it going to hurt? Well, I like this guy. A LOT. I've liked him for a while now and we've been friends for pretty much since we first met. Anyway, we'll call him "FRED". He's in a band (which will clear some things up in a moment) and he's also 24… I'll be turning 18 in September… Major diff there? I know. But anyway, I wrote down a list of he likes me/he doesn't like me…. And I just wondering if any of you could possibly go through them and tell me what you think? Do you think he likes me? And if he does, what's his deal? Lol Well thanks much. Sorry if this doesn't make much sense.
Signs He Might Like Me
1. Knew I was feeling bad one night so he sent me my favorite song and told me he was being my granny for the night.
2. Told me his band wasn't going to be able to sing my favorite song at their concert because it wasn't really the 'place' for it. But he surprised me and played it anyway. He knew I was upset because they couldn't play it.
3. My friend said that he looks at me. At one of his concerts my friend said he kept walking by me, looking at me out of the corner of his eyes. And would watch me when my back was turned.
4. Sometimes I catch him looking at me.
5. Made me one of his friends on myspace but didn't make someone who he had known longer than me a friend. He also replied back to me when I left him a comment but not to any of the others that commented him.
6. He keeps the bracelets I throw up on stage at his concerts and wears them when I'm not at his shows.
7. He called my name at one of his shows to show me his puppy and when I gave him a hug, he later had an away message up that said, "All I wanna do is hold you in my arms forever. I feel so safe in your embrace. My mind is telling me that there's no way possible I could actually be feeling this way so soon but my heart overrides my mind."
8. Replies to all of my messages I leave on the bands message board but sometimes leaves others out.
9. Confides in me about his problems and his ex girlfriend and his problem with depression.
10. When he found out another girl was trying to throw bracelets on stage at their shows he left a message on the message board that said it was my thing and for the other girls not to start copying me.
Signs He Doesn't
1. Sometimes he acts completely aloof when I'm around, like he doesn't even know I'm there. He says it's because he's usually out of it in the mornings (at church) and at concerts he doesn't notice people too much because he's too 'excited'.
2. Once seemed to flirt openly with my friend while on stage. Not sure if he was flirting or just wanting to scare her because she was just standing there and he likes for people to be energetic during the shows.
3. The away message he had up after the concert could have been about someone else and not about me at all.
4. Chances are he just talks to me because he wants to be my friend
5. He probably only sent me the song so I would compliment him on his wonderful singing.
So what do you guys think? Yes, no, maybe? Pathetic, I know
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First off, did you notice anything? You have more signs of him liking you then him not. I think he likes you a lot actually. Maybe you could try talking to him or getting the down low from one of his friends. Then you could take it from there and maybe start something up. And no, this isn't pathetic at all. I find it cute and he sounds like a sweetie pie!
♥ Krissy
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I think he does like you. I mean first of all there are more signs that he likes you than there are of signs he doesnt like you. Also he sounds very interested in you too. age doesnt matter [as long as you not tooooooo young...]
so go for it. maybe make a move? or tell him how you feel. maybe use lettered beads and spell out i like you [or i love you]on a bracelet and toss it up stage. and maybe when he writes an away messgae like how he does. write one back in response to how u feel.
hope you guys work out!!
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Hmm.. not sure. It sounds like he's at least interested, since he's been getting personal with you and also he defended you saying the throwing bracelets was "your thing" He might be being friendly, but it sounds like he's definitley going out of his way to do it! You never really know with guys, they're weird, but to me it sounds like he does like you. Perhaps the age difference is holding him back a bit.. he might feel weird dating someone 6 years younger.. though it really depends on the person.
I don't really know though, I think you need to suss him out. Try flirting with him and see how he responds? Perhaps his friends might know something?
Good luck!
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Its not Pathetic, it is cute! He likes you but sometimes he might just be uding you. Tell him to back off when he is using you!
♥ Michelle
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