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ive been fooling around with one of my guy friends that ive none for about 7 years.. were realy comfortable with eachother so every weekend lately weve been hooking up.. the first time he fingered me (not my first time getting fingered)it was fine.. but the last two times we've gotten a little out of controll and he fingers me alot...i was bleeding after and i was realy sore.. right after i noticed one side "down there" was swollen and realy sensitive.. it went away after a couple days so this weekend he did again and the same thing happend.. i bled after and im still kinda sore and swollen.. is this normal sense im a virgin and were getting kind of rough or should i be worried? (link)
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It might just tear the hymens being torn a little.
But it should be okay. However, you should advice him to be a little bit more gentle on your "South". Because remember, there's bacteria everywhere and they love open wound.
So don't get infected. Wash the area often. :)
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me and boyfriend have been dating for over a year and we just started have sex, but he doesnt turn me i always fake my orgasms and i also dont know how to turn him on. i also think im a lesbian because i think of girls alot and guys dont turn me on but i love my boyfriend,how can i get turrned on by my boyfriend?
im 19 (link)
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You and Me. I think we share the same problem.
My friends told me that I've grown sick of my gf, or probably had too much of her. Too much for my own good.However, the difference btw us is that, you think of people of your own gender, and you get your kicks, while I don't.
So I figured that you might be going both ways.
And I also figured that it might only be lust for something like lesbian sex.
By now, you should know that your bf is probably very lucky. *smiles*
Why not? Just a thought.
A threesome. Maybe to spice up you and your bf's sex life.
Nothing wrong. It's like a sport.
=)
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I'm a 19/F in my first student house, and I'm living with (gasp) four boys. We've got a really sweet arrangement going between three of us where each of us is responsible for dinner two nights a week... it's great because it means you spend less time cooking, and we're like a little family eating dinner together every night!
The thing is that although I'm a good cook and make up my own recipes all the time, I'm kind of short on interesting ideas for what to make for us. Does anybody have any cool, inexpensive recipes that will serve 3-4 people? The only real restriction is that one of us doesn't eat spicy food.
Thank you! (link)
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Hmmm... To answer your question, I'd have to know know what cuisine you and the boys prefer.
But it's all easy, of course.
Let's say, do you go for -
Lyonnaise Potato: Heat Butter till Melt,
Add in Onion(Yellow), cook till fragrant,
Add in Potatoes. Season with salt * pepper)
Saute till cook.
If your potatoes are sliced thick, deep frying will help the potatoes to cook faster.
Seasonal Veg: Veg in the Fridge, Most Kinds actually.
Wash clean, cut into bite size, then
blanch in hot water(hot water + olive oil + butter + onion + oregano + salt + pepper)
Main Course: Fish- Marinate with lemon juice, white wine(if you don't, a bit of vinegar), salt & pepper. Grill away.
Chicken- Easy as Pea. Marinate with any sauce you like, (BBQ, Black Pepper..etc).
Seal Fry. Bake.
Ready in Twenty minutes, 175 degrees celcius.
Depends on Size.
Hope I help. Abit. :)
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....and is there a way to make sure no one else can view them??
Thanks (link)
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Well, yeah, you could. Put it in a folder(usually in the Document area, maybe you'd like to specify a folder.). Then you save it into the folder that you specifically wants your saved images/videos to be in.
After that, if you want it to be "hidden".
Right click on the image/video, and tick the "hidden" box.
Now, make sure you do this.
Document->Tools->Folder options->View->
Click on "Do not show hidden files and folders"
Ta-dah! :)
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I just got my heart broken.he didnt reject me but i realized, he has no interest, which was a huge,hard step. i am trying to get over it as best i can,but its hard because hes about to ask out one of my best friends out and we hang alot with him. He uses me all the time and still sends me mixed signals, which i now know ( as much as it hurts) they r not mixed he is just breaking my heart every time he does it. I need to get over him. Im becoming deppressed and i just cant live with it anymore. i need a way out. i cant keep this up and all i want to do anymore is live and be happy again. please help (link)
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Hey, Cheer UP! One Door closes, the other one opens.
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Alrite i posted a Question on here about my dad critizing me all the time.
Today i came home from work and someone came into my room and messed with my computer. So i went out there and said "who was in my room" And he goes "no one". Well obviously someone was in my room because my computer and my light was on and my door was wide open. And he told me to shut hell up and leave his house. And i told him to shut up and he says "stupid bitch this house was quiet before you came home". then i went in my room and he was out there talking to my mom saying "she has no reason to come home complaining and accusing people of being in her room because first off its not her room, i just let her put her stuff in it."
Im so sick of his crap and hes just waiting till in turn 18 so he can kick me out. My mom will not allow him to kick me out because im still in school and i dont have money. yes i have a job but i also i have to buy all my clothes and everything i need for school and i had to buy a computer and everything to go with it.
Im almost 18 and i have zero privacy in this damn house. Alot of you guys said its because hes considered. But im telling you hes a complete asshole.
How do i get him to shut up and quit treating and talking to me like im a piece of dirt. Im so tired of it. its getting to the point that the next he tells me to leave im going to walk out the freakn door.
Oh and i dont i have family any where near me so i cant move in with them..
thanks alot. (link)
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Alright. Here's the trick.
There are many ways to deal with this, but I guess one particular method should be best for the long run.
Be best of friends with your dad. Well, at least, try to be. Make peace with your dad, there's clearly some sort of friction going on at home.
Older generations love respect. And all you have to do is give it to them.
We have to be smart in life, and you may not see it now, but what I'm trying to do, is probably the best investment for your future.
Let him nag and make all the noise he wants, that's what parents do. Do that change. Surprise him and be nice. Next time, he gives off a nasty reply. Just give him puppy eyes, and say "Sorry".
He'll definitely melt. Do not fight fire with fire.
And there, before you know it.
In a few months, there's lesser friction.
And who knows? He might change the term "His House".. to "Our House".
I understand if there's rage in you that wants to give a piece of your mind straight to his face.
But is it worth it?
Be smart.
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Dearest, do try to bear with it for a while. Do not move out, be a little patient with your dad. There's always a reason for people's actions. Be the better person and do not let yourself be influenced in this whole rage. I bet you're capable of tolerating this till hopefully, it gets better. Give it a year. Try a different approach. I could help you go through this, if you have any questions. You went through this for three years, what is another year? Moving out is difficult, trust me. You'd rather have this sort of problems, then those in the world.
Anyways, you're not gonna live with your parents forever, it's just a little bit more longer, till you're fully ready. With a good qualifications. And a Stable career. Then, you can kiss all this unhappiness goodbye.
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I have a boyfreind who is really really sweet,like the perfect guy, but i dont think i like him that much anymore.
Theres this other guy who i really like who might like me, im not too sure, but hes a major player.
what do you guys tink i should do? (link)
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The fact is.. You and I have the same problem. We're never contented with what we got. Not really a good thing. And another fact is, what makes you think that he got what it takes to make you like him for the long run? You have to put it on a scale and consider these two guys.
Your bf- Whom I bet majority of the chicks are looking for. In the market, it's hard to get a perfect guy kinda thing.
Or Yr Major Player- Probably a dude, quite a good league, have many fishes in the sea to choose from, ditches you after a few runs, and forgets your name after the next play offs.
Hmmm...tough choice.
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This kid on my football team, when me and him get in arguments he calls my girl ugly. and it makes me wanna deck him. now my ques is, next time he pulls that crap should i just deck him? Cause this pussy, right when we're bout to fight always apologizes. in a fight i don't know if i'd win bu i wanna deck him so bad. should i? (link)
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Nah, no point deckin him. Just pop him a few come-backs.
Boy: Your girls ugly.
You: So is your moma, but i aint sayin nothin'.
Boy: Your girls ugly.
You: Yeah? Imagine how you feel.
Best come-backs to the face. And make him a laughing stock and he'll quit disturbin you for sheezie.
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well ok, let me give yout he low down, im really upset, ive cut my left arm a few times and bit my right to let it all out and now im just sat here in tears, its my relasionship i think, im 18, and so is she, weve been together 1 year and 3 months and i donthingk its working anymore, she keeps sending me messages like, i love you, i hope you know that, which are scaring me now, ive been in other relasionships but she hasnt, im her first proper bf, and it seriouse, so im worried about brekaing it up! that worst thing ius afgter an awful night at work and coming home to my dad being a prick for no reason ive had some beer, probably too much, put on some Idiot pilot, (i would say music that helps you to be sad) (is very god though) and ive started to cut my self, not on my rists , just the top, i dont wanna take my life, i dearnt,i love my parents and brother too much, but i need something to let it all out, ive hit walls befor and done this before but not as bad, Thing is, and im so sad and upset (in tears) about saying this, but my mum would so freak if she new, my uncles an alcholioc and hes basicly messed his liver and other stuff up, had to have opperastions and alsorts, and seriosuly...if she new i was doing this, she die... i cant imagin it.. i dont wanna, im scared thinking about her, because i love my mum, and she doesnt need this right now, i dont think it would ebvre get any worse then this, i cant talk to my family , they dont understand, and all my friends have gone to uni, im scared, and i cant think for my self anymore, i keep gettin into the car and hope i get hit, just so everything will sort its self out, and i wont no, because ill be in a comma, or sometrhign, im scared because im think like this,its not right and i cant help it, and io cant stop it, some one plaease do something that will stop me feeling like like this,..... (link)
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Dude, You have to go counselling. You have some sort of depression going on. And it's normal to go into that phase at your age. I was there once, and it helps.
Or try going out with your friends more often, and get yourself all tired out.
Go exercise or something.
Once you tire yourself out, you have absolutely no energy to think about anything else, except for the bed.
Then, before you know it, the hormones are stable and there you go. Phase over. :)
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my friend was talking to the guy i like tring to get him to like me. he said if he got to know me better he might give me a chance. and he said he would call me tonight but the only problem is i dont know what to say. i mean i talk to guys on the phone alot but i really like this guy and im afraid there will be a awkward silence (i hate those) and i wont know how to break it or think of something to say. he might call me tonight or tomorrow. also i see him in school alot what can i say to him at school? (link)
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Alright, easy as pea. Take a deep breath.
And relax. Being all antsy and nervous won't help.
Maybe it might be cute to some, but it's a little irritating for others. You need to be yourself. Let him like/love you for who you are. Just be natural. He calling you already states the fact that he's bringing you into his life and that he's accepting you into his life. Slowly. So all you have to be NICE and float away. :)
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well my b/f and i have been going out for a week or two and all we have done is hugged. i want it to move a little faster. what should i do? (link)
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Well, it totally depends on the type of bf you have actually, if he likes to take it slow and play Casanova for a little while, why not?
Guys like to feel macho and sweep girls off their feet. There's no rush to anything, do take your time, and cherish the Slow-paced "game" you both are playing. It's much more kinkier, well, to me, at least. Anyways, if you do move in too fast, you might send the wrong message to your bf. Not a good thing for such an early stage in the relationship.
You should follow your intuition. Read his body language.
If he does try anything in about another week, dig in. :)
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