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ive been fooling around with one of my guy friends that ive none for about 7 years.. were realy comfortable with eachother so every weekend lately weve been hooking up.. the first time he fingered me (not my first time getting fingered)it was fine.. but the last two times we've gotten a little out of controll and he fingers me alot...i was bleeding after and i was realy sore.. right after i noticed one side "down there" was swollen and realy sensitive.. it went away after a couple days so this weekend he did again and the same thing happend.. i bled after and im still kinda sore and swollen.. is this normal sense im a virgin and were getting kind of rough or should i be worried?
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It might just tear the hymens being torn a little.
But it should be okay. However, you should advice him to be a little bit more gentle on your "South". Because remember, there's bacteria everywhere and they love open wound.
So don't get infected. Wash the area often. :)
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My best advice is to either be softer (haha, awww) or I think you might have to ask him to trim his fingernails.
Or have some lubrication.
Hoped I helped, and good luck =D
-Ce
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You certainly don't want to be hurting for a couple of days each time. Next time get some lubricating jelly so it doesn't hurt so bad. Also tell him to slow down and not be so rough if it gets to hurting.:)
I don't think it is anything more than just his being a little rough. But if you aren't lubricated enough it doesn't take much for it to hurt.
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