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well i have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and my mum said im 2 good for her but ive known her for ages and i feel we r falling aoart (link)
im not really sure what your question is, but if you feel like you still want to be with your girlfriend then you have to keep your guy's relationship together. talk to her and tell her how you feel, do the same with your mom so she understands that you really like your girlfriend


yea well you see im really worried b/c today my boyfriend for about 1 month and a couple weeks IMs me and is all like do u think were moving too slow? and i asked him in what way and he was like well u know...so i asked him what he wants...but he didnt tell me yet. I like him and all but i dont feel ready to go farther than 2nd base with him... i know him pretty well but not well enough. I dont want to hear that i should just break up with him becasue its easier said than done... if i want to talk to him... break up with him... what are some ways i could do it?

PS if its helpful we havent gona to far... like weve hooked up and hes felt me up but thats pretty much it. hes tried to drop hints that he wants more i think. (link)
well thats normal. if he really likes u then he'll respect you and wait for you to b ready. but make sure he knows your not ready, and when you are also make sure he knows


What are the 4 bases? ( you know, making out and so on) (link)
1st*-making out/getting felt up
2nd*-getting fingered/handjob
3rd*-head/eating out
homerun*-sex


I want to gain more muscle and tone up my body. Already, i'm 5'3'', weigh 100 pounds and i am 13. I want to do exercises that will tone up my body in my areas of my arms, stomach(abs), butt, thighs and calves. I want to notice an extreme improvment in the next 5 weeks. I want an exercise that will tighten my butt and thighs extremly with out making them larger or look to musculer. For the stomach and arms, i want an exercise that tones my stomach fast and quick, along with my arms that won't decrease and burn off the fat on my breast. I'm also up for sertain healthy foods that will help!! Also, are there any foods out there, or herbs, that will make my breast larger? I'm only a 32AA. Thank-you for the help (link)
i think theres some website like toneteen.com go there! also just google a bunch of different excersizes.


Do you guys think it's okay to think that no matter what you do to me, if you apologize and are sincere about it, I will forgive you. That's how I've always been. I just feel that it take courage to apologize to someone after you've hurt them and if you do do it then you are truly sorry. I know sometimes people just throw around the "I'm sorry's" but most don't. Everyone makes mistakes (I know I do) and they need to be forgiven. What do you guys think of that? (link)
i agree !


I need to make a cd for this dance/party. What are some good songs,like hip-hop or something you can dance to? Thanks a bunch.Oh, and by the way, what was that onesong from last year with trick daddy ... ahh i forgot who else and what it goes like. maybe someone knows? thanks a bunch. easy rating. =) (link)
anything by ciara, britney spears (totally serious)50 cent-shake that ass girl, black eyed peas-hey mama, destinys child-lose my breath, gwen stefani-holla back girl..just stuff like that


So, theres this guy and he shows all the signs that he likes me and this other chick but I dont know if Im really his type.We have gone out sevral times and it has been GREAT but it seems everytime it ends he goes back to his emo ex!!! and I alwaz get hurt what should I do to get his attentions and make him love me NOT HER!!!??!!
Sighed,
~Helpless~ (link)
well obviously he still has feelings for his ex. mayb while you 2 are broken up, you should try to move on from him or atleast wait to go out with him till he is over her


I'm so stressed because I'm going to be taking my last gateway tomorrow and it's my worst subject--biology. I make good grades in there because I do the work, but I don't understand it. And I tried studying, I just don't get it and it bores me. But I really try. And my teacher tries to explain it but I get lost and I can't figure out anything. And the gateway depends on if I get my high school diploma. I get another chance to take it next year, but I want to get it right this year. And I don't get over half of it. Can somebody help me come up with overnight study tips or something to keep my stess level down? I rate really high. (link)
well make sure you get enough sleep! eat healthy, trust me it helps. make sure you take breaks, not long breaks, but just enough so that u dont go crazy ! haha...good luck tho !!!@


i have sweating problems.. i sweat when im not even hot it just happens.. i got secret deoderant bcuz its a good brand but that didnt help.. do you think i should get a strong mens unscented deoderant? or get like prescribed deoderant? HELP! i dont want to sweat during the day anymore. thanks!! (link)
go to your doctor, they can get you good stuff that works!


im looking for some help/advice as to why i always have to buy things in large amounts. for example i cant buy just one pen i have to get 4 or 5 at a time its the same with everything. if i go to a store to buy one thing i buy at least 5-6 things that i dont really need but buy anyway. any help or ideas would be appreciated. (link)
dont bring a lot of money. if you only have enough money to buy 1 thing, then you can only buy 1 thing


Hello, Im havin some guy problems see i started datin this guy named jason* and we lasted for about 3 months but we never talked to much around each other, and i moved so we broke up but then i came back and i still had a lot of feeling for him and we talk a lot now.i wanna get back together with him and he knows i still like him but doesn't do anything. i don't think he wants to date again because he knows before it was kinda werid when we were together but now we now one another better and aren't bashful around eachother. but i dunno what to do cause i really LOVE him but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it i mean he flirts and stuff but thats it. like he wants to to come over and do stuff but he doesn't seem to wanna date and hes not the type of guy to do that...so i dont know how i can get him back or if i should move on?

Sign confused girl from tennesse* (link)
maybe you should just move on, unless he is the shy type, because normally it seems like guys ask girls out if they both like eachother. so if he isn't shy, then maybe he has moved on


Hi everyone so the problem is i have this friend and shes really nice but i cant STAND her, shes soooo clingy, but i cant tell her that because she will be all mad and bitchy. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! thanks bye -krodehtyllek (link)
just slowly stop talking to her.


Well my boyfriend of six months just broke up with me and we both are totally in love with each other and always have been but this isn't the first time we've broken up. Though the reason we have broken up is because we have both been really hurt in the past and are really scraed to let any one get close to use even though we are really already close to each other. I know I want to go back out with him but how do I tell him that I want to go back out with him but can't break up again because of him being scared to let me get close. I mean this time it really tore me up I haven't got any sleep and been crying all week. Plus the thing is we are already both superclose to each other. I rate high please help!! (link)
you 2 gotta communicate. but mayb you should consider why you 2 broke up in the past before. see what he has to say about it, mayb you 2 would be better off moving on? :(


what is a good excerices to get rid of cellulite in the butt and thighs and to make the butt look nice (link)
go to goggle and look up excersizes. run a mile. and do monster walks n lunges. make sure you eat healthy !!


I want to be rich. I love money but I also know that I should appriciate wat I have now. My faimily isny poor at all but I just have to watch how Im spending my money. i want my parents to get new jobs and better ones also. I know that everyone would like to be rich but I dont know. People are probablly going to say rude things but still. Thanks. (link)
ya your right, everyone most likely wants to be rich. and you should watch your money, but if you want more money you probably should look for a job, because i doubt your parents will get a new job, but who knows! hope it works out!


my friend is goin out with the guy i like and my other best friend likes him. how can i win him over the other 2?i rate high.

p.s. the other 2 girls are mad at me for certain reasons (link)
well if your friend is dating him then you and your other friend need to stay off. how would you like it if you were dating him and your friends tried to get with him? i guess you just gotta move on


Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;) (link)
you can get all of them free, but if you do that then you have a greater chance of getting a virus, but a lot of them have ones you can buy. i suggest WinMx, it kinda sucks but no viruses!


Whats wrong with me? I always fantasize to be with a certain guy that i kno. Or sometimes ill cry becasue I know i cant have him. He is poor and spanish pluss hes ghetto and he stayed back twice for getting into a lot of fights. That not my type at all. but theirs so,ething about him. Hes funny and makes me laugh all the time. Out going and hes hot. Tons of guys are funny outgoing and hot but i dont know what it is about him. I dont know about him though i would never go out with him. i guess its just a little crush. I cant see him my mom doesnt want me to go to my grandmothers house and he lives across from her. I never reall ytalk to him he doesnt have aim and i dont know his number. what is it about him?
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you probably just like that he is a badass.


I recently started going out with this guy, I am 16 and he is 18. We make-out tons and tons, and its great and it feels great. But then that makes me wonder if he is only in it for the physical aspect, I asked him if thats all it was, he said no and that he likes being around me and he likes hanging out with me. Whell things dont feel right at all, I feel like im just his toy or whatever and he doenst tell me how he feels about things. Its often hard to express myself as well because I dont know how he would react. Its just weird, I just want to make things better (link)
well i guess it depends on how long you guys have dated. try to get more on a personal level. get to know eachother, and talk on the phone a bunch. im sure itll work out!


a girl at my school has been going through a very tough time lately. her dad left 3 weeks ago and she just found out that she might be pragnant. this would be much easier if she WASN'T 13!!! but she is and we are best friends. im the only one that knows about the pregnant thing. what do i tell her i rate high for a real answer
thanx (link)
well she needs to tell her parents. there going to find out sooner or later. just make sure she knows that you will always be there for her no matter what. mayb have a girls night out and dont think about everything that is going on




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