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Ever since summer started- I've been sleeping in until at least noon everyday and going to bed at like 1am. I'm really sick of doing this. I always feel like I'm wasting my day when I do this. Its really annoying and I would just like to know if anyone had any ideas on how to get up earlier and how to possibly make myself go to bed earlier.

Thanks! (link)
same problem here.. the way i got it fixed was going to bed at 10 pm ... or you could take sleeping pills. ask your parents what to do.


Hi. I'm Female and 14 and my boyfriends 16 in october. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now, I know that isn't that long, but i have been thinking about having sex with him. He keeps talking to me about it and he said he doesn't want to rush me into anything i don't want to do and he will wait for me, but because he is going to be 16 soon and I am going to still be 14, he can get arrested for having sex with me. (I'm from England and the legal age for sex is 16, if anyone didn't know) He therefore said he doesn't want to have the risk of being arrested so we can either have it before october or wait until i'm 16, which is over a year. I'm stuck :( How do you know when your ready for sex? I think i am, but i aint sure... Can you be ready? I'm confused, How do you know? And can anyone help me out with my situation? (link)
you are ready when you think your ready :)


I'm 18/f he's 21/m. My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for over a year now. Yesterday we tried a new position and if made me queef (I think that's what it's called). Anyway the point is I was really embarassed about it. My boyfriend is sweet and said he didn't care, but I don't know. Does that kind of thing gross guys out? (link)
it wouldnt really gross me out.. i know its natural. and there is no bacteria down there.. so i wouldnt care.


wat could i sell on ebay tht would make lots of money so i can buy a xbox 360 (link)
your old video games :D!!!!!!!! or you could just look around the house and sell stuff you dont need anymore


Does any one know of any good hair products to help Split Ends, Breakage, Fragile Hair. Thanks (link)
you should try herbal essences conditioner and shampoo.


is there any way to heal a small cavity without going to a dentist? i'm going to one, i just DREAD having to go through the process of getting it filled, because i've never had one before. (link)
its not that bad..... going to the dentist.. its mostly the sound thats irritating.. it dosnt hurt. its pretty fun if your dentist gives you a toy afterwards :D


I suck at kissing. Ive made out once, and I told the kid I had not done it before. but this kid was like WAY different then the one im with now. he doesnt want to move to fast, and im ok with that. but we are like really in love with each other. and on our first date we did kiss once, I think I kinda did it. but I could tell he wanted to. I get really nervous... and like I did kiss him but I don't know what to do with my lips???? It was a tiny kiss. so yea... but like I really need to know what to do! I want him to take control but that doesnt always happen so... I need to know what to do so I don't look stupid haha. thx so much!!!! (link)
watch a movie.. and when they kiss.. look closely at the lips... this helped me ALOT


Okay, I don`t play any sports & I`m not the most athletic person. My parents really want me to do something & so do I, but there`s nothing fun that I`d think I`d be interested in doing. So, is there anything else, like besides sports that I could do? (Acting classes, etc.) (link)
Well it sounds like your parents want you to become more athletic.. but idk... if you were me i would try football.. it is REALLLY fun. or basketball. basketball is really fun to. everytime you tackle somebody or shoot a hoop and it makes it... it feels awsome. :). everyone cheers for you.


Why is it whan i take a picture it looks really bad but when i lok at myself in the mirrori see myself as somewhat pretty??????? (link)
Its the lighting of the camera.. it changes the skin tone and everything.


ok i'm not freaking out or anything i just cant really tell if this guy likes me because my friends keep saying he does but they have never even met him and ok his name is Kyle and i met him in my summer school study skills class and i had to sit next to him first reason my friends thinks he likes me he would talk to me alot i didnt know anyone in that class but then he started talking to me and yeah then another reason is that he just talks to me alot and one time he came over and sat next to me and said i'm gonna sit next to you because your my friend then he always like does things to make me laugh and today he kept taking my pencil and wouldnt give it back to me and there's other reasons i just cant think of them right now but i dont know if he likes me or if he's just a guy (link)
sounds to me he likes you.. :)


okay i'm very responsible and love kids so i started putting flyers in peoles mailbox's that have kids i did it 6 times and only 1 person responded and they havent called once so how can i get more costomers? (link)
How much are you charging? you could be overcharging... There was this AD on a pole and it said mowing lawns for 20$ for 5 minutes and that is wayyyy to much.


i want to get a pet rabbit. i want a reeallllly small rabit. what type of rabbit could i get that is really small?

thanks! (link)
you could get a rat or a mouse :D


Last night I was on the phone with him and we had plans to go to the movies this weekend
he said "dont be mad but i'm still going to the movies this weekend but not with you"
I didn't mind and I was okay with it but it still was rude the way he said it and just because he ditched me for someone who he doesn't even know and were best friends so it got annoying.
Well then he started being really mean about things so I said " alright I'll talk to you later I'm just going to hangup the phone"
And he said alright I'll call you in a few days maybe or tomorrow.
He went on myspace (hes kinda like confused about his sexuality so everyone thinks hes gay and hes kinda like a girl)
But he said ew your such a bitch i hate you.
And sometimes we say stuff like that to eachother but jokingly
and he deleted his myspace and made a whole new one and never added me back
i dont care about myspace but just because of that i knew something was up.
Well he won't anwser his phone and I know its right next to him.
He got on myspace again today and I messaged him asking what was wrong and he called me a fake ass bitch
I said what the hell are you talking about and he told me to stop playing dumb and to fuck off.
I messaged him again but no reply yet.
I really have no idea whats going on and why hes being like this
at this moment im confused and pissed off the same time so i dont know what to do about it.
cause he wont pick up his phone and talk to me about it either. (link)
i know the problem... a rumor probably went around that you called him something bad.. when it really didnt happen.. you both will get over it in time. just ask whats the problem and if he finally awnsers.. tell him you didnt do nothing..


okay so i have this really old sn and its getting totally boring but i cant think of any!any ideas? heres some info about me.............
my name is emily, ppl call me em tho
i am crazy (in a good way :]) i like to dance, cheer
it can have any thing in it, but i want it to be fun!
thank u soo much :] (link)
emiliy_CRAZYDANCER


i have this friend whom i knew since kindergarden ( lets call her hilt-is-built) and all summer she's been hanging out with her best friend whom she's known for two years ( calling her hanny ferguson) and shes my friend too. hanny ferguson is in disney world for a week and then the next hilt-is-built is going to louisianna for a week. all hilt-is-built talks about is how shes going to go 2 weeks without talking to hanny ferguson and its getting on my nerves how i never get to spend time with hilt-is-built and when i do all she'll talk about is hannah it makes me feel like she doesnt really like any one else but her. im going to hilt-is-builts house tomorrow and no doubt she'll be depressed about hanny leaveing so my question is do you guys have any ideas on how to make her happy and how to make myself stop being jealous and upset about their friendship (link)
you kiddin??? tell hilt-and-bilt or whatever that you miss her


Kay well my parents' are spliting up , and I've been expecting it , I'm not sad or anything [no I'm not in denil either] and I have a desision to make , who I want to live with.

1) My mom : She sooo nice and I can tell her anything , But she can get moody and emotinally abusive [just a little bit].

2) My Dad : He is always asleep or a work or on the computer ,I can't really talk to him about anything.He is always in a bad mood and is vitiamin D deficiant [usually really bad mood in the winter] and he over grounds me for everyhting.BUT he brings me places and gives me money and treats me my age. (link)
by the way it sounds i would be with your mom. she is with you longer in the day and she seems nicer. and if your a female you will need her to help with your female problems. it dosnt matter if your mom gets moody. all parents do :)


okay so I admit I put a suggestive video of myself on youtube a long time ago, like in september. (it contained NO personal info whatsoever)

I took it off about 3 months after that though.

I got a disturbing phone call on my cell phone last night from this REALLY sketchy sounding guy with a new york accent and he says "Hi, is this Liza?" and i said "Why do you ask? Who is this?" And he said "My name is John. And I saw your video on youtube." Then I said "I have to go, bye." and I hung up.

I then called the non-emergency police number and they started a report number in case this does develop into a stalking case.



I'm so scared still, and I'm worried that he's going to call me again/rape me or something. (the call was anonymous)

What should I do?

I'm really really really worried about this.

any advice appreciated. (link)
dont worry about it.. tell your parents (if you havnt already) and just try to stay in a safe enviroment


I am a 14yearold girl with a bazillion guy friends. ok maybe like 10 and only 2 gal friends. Some people think i am weird but i honestly feel more comfortable around guys. These guys are not the hunky-hunky-baywatch guys they are more the nerdyish-computer-advanced classes-bandgeek guys. Now i have to tell you that i am much like them besides the computer part. Everyone else besides my friends talk about me and my gal friends and think that we are gay because we hang around guys. and that we are "nerdy girly girl virgins". I hear them talking down the halls and in the classroom and at lunch.
But now that summer has come i have mostly forgot about besides the fact the Drivers Ed. came up and i am now constaly reminded. It drives me crazy.
Should i drop my guy friends or what?
HELP ME PLEASE!!!! (link)
Boss up and tell the people who are making fun of you to stop and give them a reason.. or you could just beat the crap out of them.. dont drop your guy friends because that will make them feel sad




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