Member Since: July 12, 2007
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Last Update: July 13, 2007
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i am going into my second year of college and i need to pick a major soon...i am going to san jose state. i hav no idea what i want to do these are my interests:
art
decorating
taking pictures
making collages
colours
flowers
being outside
being active
weight lifting
some areobics/cardio like running
looking at different outfits
animals
any suggestions on what i could do with these skills and interests??? thanks so much!! (link)
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It's grueling, isn't it? I need to pick a major, too. It's one of the hardest decisions to make.
Interior Design
Fashion Design
Veterinarian
Physical Therapy
Sports Medicine
Do any of these sound appealing?
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I am a 16 year old female. I gave my virginity to a good friend. He acted like he liked me then and when we talk. Should I ask him if he likes me and if anything is going to happen with us? (link)
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Well, yeah.
You slept with him. It's your right.
He wanted to sleep with you, he talks to you in a flirtatious manner.. it would be unhuman if he didn't like you. He's probably too scared to ask as well.
Break the ice.. don't leave a question like that lingering..
Best of luck.
Jen
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ok well i'm pretty good at keeping friends (when i'm in school) but anyways i don't know how to keep them interested,you know? people get bored of me fast,i hate it ! i just stop my energy for some reason after a cirtain point. how can i keep my energy up? i'm not sick of them, its nothing to do with them,its me. i just loose energy and stop being so talkative,its weird because i'm usually so much more talkative. any help? this is probably confusing.sorry. (link)
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No, no.. it's not you.
These people are boring because THEY can't keep a conversation with you. They cling on to anyone who makes them feel good and praises them 24/7. That's the truth. Why should you be expected to carry on the whole conversation? They're the boring ones. At least you try, you know?
You're mature compared to them.
It gets better as you grow up... some grow up and aren't so selfish.
Don't put yourself down or let people get you down. You're worthy of anyone you want to be friends with. So choose wisely. :)
Jen
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okay so I admit I put a suggestive video of myself on youtube a long time ago, like in september. (it contained NO personal info whatsoever)
I took it off about 3 months after that though.
I got a disturbing phone call on my cell phone last night from this REALLY sketchy sounding guy with a new york accent and he says "Hi, is this Liza?" and i said "Why do you ask? Who is this?" And he said "My name is John. And I saw your video on youtube." Then I said "I have to go, bye." and I hung up.
I then called the non-emergency police number and they started a report number in case this does develop into a stalking case.
I'm so scared still, and I'm worried that he's going to call me again/rape me or something. (the call was anonymous)
What should I do?
I'm really really really worried about this.
any advice appreciated. (link)
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Yeah, that is a little creepy.
He could be one of your friends playing a joke, like previous people have said.
Or..
Does your profile have any personal information in it or a link to a myspace/other networking sites?
Is it possible that this man could have went in your profile and clicked those links?
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ok hi im jenny
im 15 years old and i have been having a terrible 5 months.
ok so i dated this kid who is 2 years older than me for 2 years. He also lives across the street from me. I also would like to believe that we were in love once or so I thought. He really seemed to love me and i sure as hell loved him. Then after about a year and a half of dating i felt like i was kind of getting tired of him and so were my friends, so i broke it off. I dated another guy that was his age and it made him terribly jealous. He would still call me every night and I would talk to him. Every night he would tell me he loved me, even when i was dating someone else. But the bad part about that was i told him "i love you" back, because I really did. Your probably wondering why I did'nt just break up with the boyfriend I had then and go back to dating the one that I really loved. Well, I thought he wouldn't take me back and that he was just messing with me. So I dated that one guy for a few months making my ex jealous and then I finally broke it off. When i told the guy that i like that I broke up with that one guy he seemed happy, but that was it. After that we didn't hangout as much as I would have liked to and he didn't call me every night like he used to. I was so depressed. We kept talking occasionally and sometimes we would hangout, but rarley. Then one night I was going to introuduce my friend to him so we went outside and met up. He was acting VERY strange..he didn't give me a hug or even say hi to me, he was in a terrible mood. So my friend and I were not going to stand for it so we went back inside. I was SO MAD! I stayed up all night waiting for him to call me, but he never did. Then the next day he called, but being stubborn I did not answer thinking that i would call him back later. And yes i did call him back way later that night, but no answer. I kept trying and he never answered, so then i knew something was wrong. Now on this very day I still love him and want him back, and it has been 4-5 months. Oh by the way he has a new girlfriend that he is in LOVE with and he wont talk or even look at me. I REALLY NEED ADVICE and im sorry if this is confusing or too long but please read it all.. i want advice. just answer me back or email me if you have any questions. BUT PLEASE DONT TELL ME TO MOVE ON..TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN TRYING BUT HE LIVES RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET I SEE HIM EVERY DAY! (link)
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I know it's confusing and hard, but he IS your ex boyfriend, you know? You have to let him go eventually in your lifetime. Let that relationship make you wiser and more knowledgable. You'll have more men in your life to love.
He has another girl that he's "in love" with just as you'll have guys that you'll be in love with, too.
You ARE at a disadvantage for him to live so close to you, be be strong about it.
I'm not telling you to move on. I'm just telling you to live your life and don't let anyone get in your way.
He is your past. Live for your future.
Jen
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Kay well my parents' are spliting up , and I've been expecting it , I'm not sad or anything [no I'm not in denil either] and I have a desision to make , who I want to live with.
1) My mom : She sooo nice and I can tell her anything , But she can get moody and emotinally abusive [just a little bit].
2) My Dad : He is always asleep or a work or on the computer ,I can't really talk to him about anything.He is always in a bad mood and is vitiamin D deficiant [usually really bad mood in the winter] and he over grounds me for everyhting.BUT he brings me places and gives me money and treats me my age. (link)
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You should definitely go with your mom.
Yes, your dad has the money to give you, but money can't buy happiness and money can't raise you properly. I know that lifestyle sounds appealing at your age, but once you get a little older, it will seem less appealing, trust me.
You need a woman figure in your life. All people get moody sometimes, it's just a part of life. You need love and someone to always be there for you. I'm sure your mom will bring you places and give you money when you need it, too.
Your decisions now will affect your future greatly. You need the supervision and love of your mom. Tough love sucks but it's beneficial in adolescence. If your father isn't going to be home all the time and let's you go about as you please, what does that say? That isn't fathering, that's just offering a free place to live with bonuses. You know what I mean?
I hope you choose what you feel is best!
Jen
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