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I'm full of random information, and I've found it to be veryyy helpful giving advice =] Plus I have ALOT of life experience so I feel that I could really help with anything. I won't lecture or judge you, because I am really trying to help you and answer your question. I know everybody says this but I really have been through it all, from family, relationship, and health prolems - I've been there. I'm only 17 but I feel like everything I've been through has matured me beyond my years. Chances are I can relate to your problems and tell you what really works. Feel free to ask me anything and i'll get back to you as quickly as possible x3

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Well, there's this guy who I have lessons with everyday :)
He's sexy and funny.
We talk a lot.
Do you think he's a little interested if he makes a lot of physical contact..?
And always comes to talk to me?
Like today he was there with his motorbike helmet and his friend tried it on. After he(sexy guy) picked up the helmet and pushed my hair back and put it on my head and laughed( because I looked like the crazy frog from like two years ago ((brinnngit a bring bring brinnnggittt a bring bring bring)))
And then I was sitting on a bench and he went behind me and pulled my head back, so I was like looking straight up and he put his face really close to mine and said ''sexy eyes''

Do you think he's interested...or just flirting?

depends, does he do this with everybody or just you? If you see him being "exra friendly" with other girls i'd say he just likes the attention. But if you only see him making googly eyes at you i'd have to say he is more than interested.

alot of the time guys are afriad to make the first move so they flirt until they are 100% sure they wont get rejected, so dont be disapointed if it takes a little while for him to really make his move.

good luck

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You know those detox foot pads that like remove toxins from your feet? Well, is there a brand that I could get a store, like CVS or somewhere like that? I really want some, but I don't like to order stuff from 800 numbers. Thanks.

Those are only sold on 800 numbers because it's a scam. I know it sounds really cool but your body doesn't work like that, if anything bringing toxins through the skin from your bloodstream, if it were possible, would be harmful to your body. Don't waste your money on things like that, if you want to rid your body of toxins do colonics or something of that sort.

hope i helped =]

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whats the big deal about cutting i cutt and i have never had medical problems what can happen whats at risk

the problem with cutting is if one day you get extra upset you may cut too deep. It's a dangerous way to deal with stress.

Self mutilation is often a trait most suicidal people have. People often react strongly against cutting because of this, and they maye think you have serious psychological issues, you might if you think cutting is okay.

good luck

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okay so this girl named jaslen is getting me mad she keeps on trying to steal my best friend erika & shes to nice that she goes along with it she cant say no. & they i got a pic comment from jaslen saying your to concieded i felt like screaming at her telling her that im not concieded im just prettier than herrrrr she cant get any guy! i wanted to scream and tell her the plain truth but i just wrote "no hun im not concieded trust me i would know / go get a life :)" & now im just waiting for a reply i dont mean to pick a fight with her but shes getting me madddddddd erika my best friend shes sleeping over her house again tonight and shes been selling me out a ton :/ can someone help me what do i do ?

ok i know this isn't the most "mature" advice and really, you should probably just let erika be friends with whomever she wants, but girls can be vicious and if you really want your friend back you have to fight fire with fire

right now, don't make any comments about erika to jaslen, it will make you look like you're jealous and nobody should have that power over you. just tell that jaslen girl to back off and ignore her. when she insults you laugh it off, because it will make her even more mad if she knows she isn't getting to you.

then, find one of your closer friends, and hang out with her ALOT. get close with her, usually all you have to do is tell a girl a couple secrets about you and bam, you're best friends. soon erika will be jealous just like you are with her and jaslen, and erika will start to call you asking to hang out all the time and ditching jaslen.

it's kind of sneaky, but it works. getting mad just causes a bunch of drama and you usually don't end up looking that great, this way you come out getting what you want and smelling like roses ;)

good luck

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whats the diffrents between catholic and baptist i never knew please dont say im an idiot

Baptists are those who claim a personal faith in Christ alone for salvation and who also reject the baptism of infants, believing that only adult believers in Jesus, (or those at least old enough to actually understand about trusting in Christ), should be baptized.

Catholics believe a child should be baptized soon after birth in order to rid the child of "original sin" so they can start their life pure in God's eyes.

Therefore, Baptists believe you should wait until adulthood to be baptized so you can fully understand why you are being baptized, and Catholics believe one should be born as an infant to start their life of God right away.

hope I helped =]

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Hi! Well I'm looking for a new perfume to get now that my current one is running out. I was thinking either Vera Wang Princess or Miss Dior Cherie. Which one smells better? any other perfume suggestions?

Thanks!!!

vera wang's princess is a great perfume, one of my favorites
but if you like vera wang's princess you will absolutely LOVE euphoria's blossom

it is an improved version of both vera wang's princess and Miss Dior Cherie, i suggest you look for it right away =]]]

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what is better...a zune or an ipod video.
its my birthday soon and i want a zune, the new one because i have alot of music and videos to put on it. but i have heard bad things about it and its battery. but the ipod video is more expensive right? what do you think is better to get basically?

In all senses a video ipod, or a cheaper version is the ipod nano, is the best fo the two. iPods have better warrentees and are better technology than the zune. the only thing is ipods have a new feature that any illegally downloaded music/videos will not be uploaded onto your ipod and the program will delete them off your computer.

so if you use limewire, aries, mytunes, etc. don't get the ipod. Other than that, the ipod has a much clearer picture and preforms better.

good luck!

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if you could say just one thing to that one guy you've though about for years, who meant alot but you meant nothing to what would it be.just one short sentence

I've always cared about you, and you've always looked past me, but by the time you finally see me for who i am i'll be gone.

or

i've always been there for you, even when you didn't care about me - there's a reason for that

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How do i help my friends that slits her wrists. What do i say to her when she shows me? I don't know how to help her.

First of all, have no tolerance. I know you're supposed to be her friends and not her mom, but when it comes to things that can indager her life you have to step up - she'll appreciate it later. Make her feel embaressed for it, tall her not to do it and if you see it again you will tell. Your friend will get mad, no doubt, but it's worth it.

But before you do that talk to her. She is obviously needing attention, possibly she has had some bad experiences. Talking about it can be her new therapy, instead of mutilating herself. Be there for her, listen and encourage her to be strong through everything. And again, keep an eye out for any new cuts. Let her know you're serious.

good luck

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Heyy i always puta bit of maybelline matte mousse foundation on my lips to make a sort of 'nude/pink' colour but it always like gathers in flakes

i put lip balm beneath it to stop them from becoming dry but it kinda clumps it up and i get like gatherings of something inthe corner of my mouth.

Is there any way to do this properly or any products that create the same effect?

I also have a nice light pink lipstick by barry M but its always gone an hour or 2 later.. i want smooth luscious lips =]

xxx

put the lip gloss over the foundation.

it will prevent flaking and protect your lips from getting chapped =]

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okay. i need a makeover because i amm soo dull looking. && imm scared too have myy boyfriend stick his finger upp myy cooter. HELPPPP MEE!!

-cooterlicious! :].

DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY ON MAKE-UP DARLING!!!
just ask him to wear a blindfold =]

it's muchhh cheaper

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Does anyone know what Emerson really means in his poem "days" thanks

First of all, here is the poem.


Daughters of Time, the hypocritic Days,
Muffled and dumb, like barefoot dervishesAnd marching single in an endless file,
Bring diadems and fagots in their hands.
To each they offer gifts, after his will,--
Bread, kingdoms, stars, or sky that holds them all.
I, in my pleachéd garden, watched the pomp,
Forgot my morning wishes, hastily
Took a few herbs and apples, and the Day
Turned and departed silent. I, too late,
Under her solemn fillet saw the scorn.

now let's break it down. "Days" does not really mean days, it most likely means "fakes" or "actors"
hypocritic, meaning swift, describes the "actors"
they act like "barefoot dervishes" a dervish is somebody who possesses frenzied energy, wild.
they march "in an endless file" file, meaning they follow, trying not to step out of line.
they "bring diadems and fagots in their hands" diadems are crowns that symbolize royalty, and fagots are ciggarettes which are suppose to symbolize somebody mature, calm, and collective. This means the "actors" or "fakes" are try very hard to make themselves look like royalty, and look good towards society. They are jsut playing a role, therefore nobody sees them for them.
Now Emerson has learned something at the end of the poem taht has taken him a lifetime. He has learned that he has taken from life according to his own will -- meaning he has lived up his life as much as he wanted to. Realizing this he looks back and refers to the actors from the past as "daughters of time"

He then states in the last few lines that he saw the scorn. This means he saw the pain beneath the acting exterior

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My boyfriend and I haven't even been going out for a month, but I want to get past this situation.

I was at his house the other day, and his sister started talking about his ex girlfriend, who is apparently calling their house and his cell phone all the time and sending him pictures of her on his phone telling him how much she wants him back. And I guess he told her that he's already taken and what not, but yesterday we were together and I saw that he was texting her. It's just really hard to trust him because I don't know him all that entirely well yet, I don't really know what to think. And I don't REALLY want to bring it up and have him think that I'm a jealous freak so early into the relationship. He is a really sweet guy, the nicest boyfriend I've had by far, I just don't want to think all that about him and then have him screw me over.

So what do you think I should do?

First of all, you're completely right in worrying about this. But maybe he isn't ready for a relationship just yet.

Does he ever make fun of her, say he hates her? does he talk about her, is her name really that far from his mouth? Even though he swears he can't stand her, that kind of passion means he still has strong feelings for her. He may know he doesnt want her back, but he can still love her. This may not be what you want to hear, but if he was with her for a while he will need time to get over her

and although this might be the case, i truly doubt she's just texting him for nothing. He has given her hope. He texts her back, probably talks to her on the phone when you're not around, or makes comments to her that make her feel wanted. Because NO girl chases a guy who says "BACK OFF, NEVER TEXT ME, I JUST WANT YOU TO LEAVE ME ALONE" if he's ever said that, he proably apologized if she's still trying to contact him.

I am not saying don't trust your new boyfriend, but maybe give him some time. He obviously is falling hard for you, and may not want to take a break, but believe me it's best for the relationship.

good luck

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im 15 and my girlfriend and i have been together for about 5 months and i really like her and she wants to take things further and i want to but im a bit embarrassed that my penis is not real big
and im worried what she'll think will she laugh
do girls care should i be worried?

Despite what guys think, girls don't really care. she didn't start dating you because the size of your penis she started dating you because she likes you! I say, if she's willing and ready go for it, and don't be shy at all. Don't worry, im not saying this to ease your mind, girls could really care less.

chances are, she won't even notice.

hope i helped in time

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14/f
There is something wrong with my breast.
But I dont know what it is.

My right breast started hurting really bad on Thanksgiving day,but I didnt really think anything of it.
Well Friday and until today it was hurting really really bad.like barely poke it and i wanted to cry.
I was looking at it today and on the inner side (the side furtherest from my right arm pit of my breast.) is pinkish. and really hardish. it doesnt feel like it my left breast which feels perfectly fine.

What could it be?
Should I tell my and get her to make me a doctors appointment?

Thanks in advance.

it is unfair to give me a low rating if you did not provide me with that information in your question.

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omg, help me cheerleaders, or tumblers!

ive been working on my roundoff backhandsrping tuck FOREVERR now. i have my roundoff tuck and i just cant land my tuck when its connected to a backhandspring. pleae help me, tryout and in like 5 months and i need to perfect this.

i know how to set and everything, i just dont know what to do!

please!

Chances are, your problem is that your handspring is too high! Handsprings should be long and low so you can get enough momentum to finish the back tuck.

and make sure to really push with your shoulders so you are verticle for the rebound.

hope this helped!

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..If you had the flu, and you threw up, well what if you got up and jumped around or something, and then you threw up again, and did the same thing over and over for a few times, what would happen?


would you lose alot of weight? or could possibly die?

p.s. i'm not doing this, or going to, i just always wondered that, and i get scared when i get the flu, i'm afraid i'm gonna keep throwing up and throwing up):
thankks!

well no matter how much you throw up, you will only lose as much weight as how long you had the flu. for example, if you have it for 3 days you are likely to lose 3 lbs. or so. But all of that is water weight and will be gained back in a few days. This happens because once all of the food you had eaten is thrown up, all you do is throw up stomach acid.

now, this is dangerous because it will ware away your esophogus. the acid will discolor your teeth and burn your throat. but you will not die.

hope i answered your question

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how do i get layouts for my advicenators site? i did'nt use mine for a while now i started to use it again but i cant remember how to get layouts and where to get them.

go to column settings, the link is on your left, under where it says "Welcome ______!"

then scroll down. you can make your own layout like i did. If you choose to do this simple reply back in my feedback and i'll walk you through it. it's not difficult.

or you can click on the pre-made layout links. it just shows a list of colors you can click on.

good luck!

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theres' this song that i love.
but the only part i remember is
"act sexy talk dirty"
it sounds like missy elliot?
or ciara? i can't tell.
any help would be wonderful [[:
thanks

i think you might be talking about Janet Jackson's song "so excited"

it's hard to tell with the little amount of information you gave, but "look sexy talk dirty" are lyrics.

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I am a 15 girl.

I have this bigish bumps on my nipples

what is it?

no worries, those little bumps are there to help produce milk for when you get pregnant, it's just a womanly thing and almost every woman developes them at some point.

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