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Question Posted Tuesday December 18 2007, 9:24 pm

How do i help my friends that slits her wrists. What do i say to her when she shows me? I don't know how to help her.

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PinkLady4863 answered Tuesday December 18 2007, 10:56 pm:
First of all, have no tolerance. I know you're supposed to be her friends and not her mom, but when it comes to things that can indager her life you have to step up - she'll appreciate it later. Make her feel embaressed for it, tall her not to do it and if you see it again you will tell. Your friend will get mad, no doubt, but it's worth it.

But before you do that talk to her. She is obviously needing attention, possibly she has had some bad experiences. Talking about it can be her new therapy, instead of mutilating herself. Be there for her, listen and encourage her to be strong through everything. And again, keep an eye out for any new cuts. Let her know you're serious.

good luck <3

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