Name is Megan, I'm 20 years old. I've gone through a lot in my life, and got through so much on my own. It sucked, and I wish I had someone to go to for advice. I like to help others who are in need of advice. I don't think anyone should ever feel alone. I hope to help some of you with the answer's I've giving. I try my hardest.
Gender: Female
Occupation: Student.
Age: 20
Member Since: May 2, 2010
Answers: 102
Last Update: May 29, 2010
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how do i get a girl friend (link)
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Be yourself..
Ask a girl to hang out.. See if she likes you, ask her on a date. :)
good luck!
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okay so...i was with this guy for like almost 6 months. i broke up with him cuz he was always lying to me and hurting me. i gave him 3 chances and after that i was done. that wasnt the only reason i broke up with him... i also starting talking to and getting along with other guys. it was hard. ever since then for the past month he has called me everyday like 5 times a day telling me he misses me and wants me to take him back and that he loves me and needs me and wants me. and i have tried to explain to him that like i basically need to move on. like when him and i were together he seemed so perfect... and now that he and i are juss friends... well he is kinda annoying and weird. =/ but then hes like its okay i will wait for you. and im like okay... do you not get it?! like sometimes i find myself thinking about him... but in a ifferent way and its so hard to get over him when he calls like everyday!!! i seriously juss want to move on... but idk how to!!!! i juss like want to make it clear to him that i have been talkiing to other guys and there isnt that much hope for him and i.... but i dont wanna like break his heart... any advice?? (link)
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Well one thing, you should change your number if you are able too. That would show him you are serious.
And you might have to just come out and tell him. If he keeps saying that he'll wait for you, and you not say anything, thats still leading him on and making him think there is actually hope. It may hurt him, but he'll get the point. YOU need to be happy too, and stress free, and I can see all this isn't. Like I said it may hurt him, but he'll get over it! Good luck!
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What do you want to be when you grow up? And when is your birthday?
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Nurse. (Almost there!!)
And in June.
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What made you want to start putting your pics online for everyone to see?
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People asked what I looked like. So I did, that and I have family on my facebook and what not, and they wanted to see updated pictures. :)
Don't be scared, but if you don't want to put pictures online, don't do it. Do what makes you feel comfortable!.
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This guy I know is really cute and i know he thinks I am too, but he won't initiatate conversation at all, except maybe hi or to ask what was the homework was. I have tried to talk to him but everytime I get near him I act like a total wuss. AND he is always near his friends and they don't like me. I've tried notes and phone calls (which he answers), but everytime we get to the subject of going out, he always hangs up.!!!! I just don't understand him. What should I do?????????!--------michelle (link)
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Either hes nervous, or probably don't like you. :/
Ask one of your friends to ask him, or simply just try your hardest to pull him aside without any of his friends and talk to him in person. He can't hang up on you then, and you'll be able to see his reactions.
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hey my sister is driving me crazy wat do i do (link)
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Well, that don't explain much.
Go in your room, shut the door and block her out.
The best advice I can give.
My sister drives me crazy too...And we don't even live together. haha
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Im female 15 and from scotland. I resently discovered that i had my feelings confused between my boyfriends and his best mate. I love my boyfriend he's sweet kind and generous but i with the realisation that my lust was completely directed at his best mate (who is currently going out with my bestfriend). I desided that i should end it with him, but how? i dont want him to hate me forever there might evan be hope to be friends, how can i end things without hurting him to much? And with out the cheesey line "can we still be friends?" (link)
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Well, you should explain you don't have the strong feelings you once had for him. That you would love to still be friends, but do understand if he don't want too. That you aren't trying to hurt him, but you don't want to be hurt either. That you do care.
There isn't any best way to tell someone that you want to break up, so if you care about him, just try to do it nicely, and don't get upset if he gets upset. Good luck!
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ok what is the age to start baby- sitting? and how much should i ask for them to give me and hour?
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I started babysitting at 13.
I still do every now and then.
As for asking how much, I never upfront said "I charge....such and such an hour"
I've babysat a ton of times, but the families that I babysat for years, well here is what they paid me.
One family, had 2 kids, I got 5 dollars an hour. I usually was there for 4-5 hours. Another family, had 1 kid, and I got paid usually between 10 an hour, and usually was there for 6-10 hours. They were really financially stable.
Its up to you on what you want, Usually I just let the family pay me, and I end up with good money. I also know that now a days its hard for people, money wise. I never upfront told someone how much I charged, I've got asked that question before, and told them I couldn't answer, so told them, whatever they could afford, and ended up watching there kids for 7 dollars an hour. Theres been times I've only gotten 10 dollars for 3 hours.
lol As you can see, its up to you. Babysitting is fun, especially if you love kids.
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why do people want to have sex so badly????????? (link)
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To have that emotional attachment to someone.
Some people need to feel loved, others, who knows.
I wish I knew the answer to this. Sex isn't so bad, as long as you are smart about it.
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This is a very strange question, I'm sure. I'm 14 years old, and most people I meet for the first time outside of my family and friends think that I'm at least 17 years old, because of my appearance and general demeanor. I met a guy who I thought was 17, and he thought that I was that age as well... but he turned out to be 19 years old. Anyway, nothing really happened but I still think of him after a year, and I haven't spoken to him in at least half a year. I'm upset because this happens a lot; people think I'm much older than I actually am. I get emotionally attached to some of these people, and vice versa, but consequently nothing ever works between us. I'm not sure what I should do in these circumstances, because I've been through lots of emotional trauma because of it. (link)
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I would say to stick to being around people more your age then.
I suppose being 14, and acting like a 17 year old is good, but also remember you still are young. Don't grow up too fast because other people think you are older than what you actually are.
It does suck when you get emotionally attached to someone and they leave. Try not to get so emotionally attached to someone right away, wait it out.
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I know that this question is gonnaa sound a lot like Legally Bl;onde, but I think my dog (pug) is gay!!! (Help...me...) (link)
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lol..
Why do you say that?
TO be honest, I don't think dogs can define what "gay" is.. So to them, whatever hes doing is normal..
No ones going to judge you either. lol It's just a dog.
I'm not sure how to really answer this but how I did..
Good luck!
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So here's the deal. I have never had a g/f. But I have a very nice personality and I am very very funny. Whats wrong. HELP (link)
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Do you talk to any girls?
If not, then do it!!
Girls aren't always going to just come up to you, you need to make an effort too!
You sound like a good guy.
You said you are very very funny, thats good too, just make sure you don't take being funny way too far. Because that sometimes can be a huge turn off.
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ok heres my quesion .......i get good grades in school i look somewhat good......and i have a great voice....but i feel like i need to be somewht popularr.....and plez dont answer " who cares wht other people think" wht do i do? (link)
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Why exactly do you feel the need to be popular?
I hate to say it but, being popular isn't always a good thing. You sound like a great person just the way you are!
If you want to be popular to make more friends, just put yourself out there more. Talk to more people. You said you have a great voice? I'm guessing that means singing? Audition for your schools talent show. That will get you noticed. :)
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I am having a very strange dilemma...I've noticed, lately, that I've been getting tighter the more I...pleasure myself.
I was wondering if anyone knew what this was. If it's something serious, or a random oddity, or what? (link)
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Usually no sex or anything would make you tighten up. I am pretty sure you have nothing to worry about.
Do you have sex frequently or is it just yourself? If you have it frequently then stopped for awhile, that could be the reason. Just make sure your wet enough, or have lube. If you feel any sort of pain, I'd go see your doctor.
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even when things are going fine, i still find myself wanting to end my life but not having the guts to do it. how can i keep my mood up and not get on everyones nerves? (link)
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Well there is obviously something stopping you. Which is good!!
I'm sure you don't get on peoples nerves, but it's understand the way you've been feeling to feel that way.
You need to go to the doctors and get on medication. They have depression pills that will help you.
Life isn't that easy, but it's not that bad too. You can almost always find some good in a situation. Just try to keep your head up!
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i used to smoke weed every day for months, but got a DUI for it so i quit/gave it up.
i have not smoked for about 11 days and have been drinking LOTS of water!
i was just curious on peoples opinions as to how long it would take for me to be clean??
i am 18 years old. i weigh 90 lbs and am 5'0.
thanks.
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Well first off, Congrats on giving it up. Sucks having a DUI make the difference in your life, but atleast you made me the right choice. You can search and search and you'll get answers saying you are clean from 3-30 days, 3 weeks, 2 weeks, so on. Just keep going being strong. Your doing good as it is!
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So theres this guy i like. Its more like a crush. Usually, when i have a crush, i dont do anything about it but i've been single for a looooong time and idk but i feel like i kinda wanna do something . But this guy, is interested in my friend . My friend doesnt like him and thinks i should make a move on the guy. I have TERRIBLE fear of rejection, and im 14/f but i've never done anything like this before. The only guy i ever dated approached me first. I also have low self esteem issues and I'm not someone that people find attractive. So what should i do? I was thining its best i just let him go and go back to admiring from a far since his got his sights set on my friend, tho she doesnt want him . (link)
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Well, you will never know if you do go for it.
I understand the fear of rejection, but thats part of life. There are things you will be rejected from. Nothing to do but brush it off and move on. I'd approach him, who knows he might really like you too. Ask him to hang out, just as friends. Hang out a few times, see how things are between you too. If things are going good, and he seems interested, then take the next step. Going on a date, being boyfriend/girlfriend. Trust me, you'll regret never going for anything in your life when your older. Like I said rejection is part of life, it's gonna happen. This whole thing might turn out good. :)
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I recently met this guy from this website.
He's really funny & doesnt take anything seriously. And he calls me names like 'bubba' & 'bum bum'. :D
Does anyone know what kind of names [like them ^^] that could call him ?
Thanks x
Btw, if it helps, his name is Tom. (link)
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"Boo Boo" "Tom Tom" "Tum Tum" LOL I don't know, just just of funny names like his haha :)
As for the other person They don't sound perverted. More funny & cute haha.
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my boyfriend was always way into me more then i was him, we broke up at a party because he wouldnt give me space like two months ago.. i know dumb. anyways we've been trying to work it out, and now i'm the one whose more in love with him, and now he only sees us as friends.. like he says all the feelings he use to have for me just arent as strong anymore. but we went to the beach on wednesday and he said we'll probabbly get back together.. and now friday night he was getting so annoyed at me for no reason. what made me want to be with him more and relize how much i loved him was not seeing him as much.. should i do that back? LOVEEEEEEEEE , SoOOOo confused & lost. (link)
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Sometimes when you let go of something you aren't too sure about, and then finally realize they aren't yours, you start to have all these feelings and start to really know how you feel towards them.
As for him saying you might get back together, then getting annoyed with you, it sounds like he isn't too sure. I'm sure he just don't want to get hurt again, so he's trying to take it slow. Just take it slow with him, and if you guy's get back together then great. :) If not, :/ Don't worry you'll find someone.
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i feel so irritated and angry.. whenever i see my mom i only have to look at her and i feel imediatley irritated and it starts me, sometimes i only have to speak to her on the phone and my mood just flips. im very sharp and short tempered with people especially those close to me. ive been feeling this way since sept 09. (link)
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Is there anything going on between you two that would make you feel this way?
I'd recommend you go see your doctor. They might have you go to consoling and get on some sort of anxiety or depression pill. Don't mean your crazy, but you might have a lot built up inside you that needs to come out!
I wish you luck!
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