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does it hurt you or feel weird when you take out a tampon?!?!
thanx,
anomonyous
well if it hurts when u take it out, u obviously put it in wrong. when it goes in and comes out, u shouldn't feel a thing.
my family is very racist and very controlling when it comes to mixed relationships and recently i started goin ot wit an 18 year purtirican/black guy. i am italian/mexican and im 14 my family stilll does not no and i dont no what i should do bout this i wanna be with him but i dont want my family to disown me at all. what should i do ?
ok well its sad that there are racist ppl in this worlds but there are and we have to deal with it. i have ppl in my family who r racist, i am half black half white. well i just ignore them. but since its ur mom and dad and stuff u cant really ignore them. i dont think u should c him tho because he is 18 and ur only 14. that makes it illegal for u guys to do anything because he is 18. so if u dont want him to go to jail then u better stop seeing him. and also dont hide different ethnicities of ppl from ur family. i think, and this is my personal opinion, the more u expose them to it the more they will have to learn to except it. if they disown u then they r really dumb and i think ud b better off sumwhere else anyways.
Sometimes I wish I wasn't born mixed I like having diffrent cultures. But I get sick and tired of people always judging me by my color. or say i am a certain race because of how i act. I hate it when i have no friends in school cause they think i act fake. I hate it when people say i am a certain person when they know NOTHING about me. I hate that everytime i get into a serious relationship with someone i care about. it get's flushed down the drain. Just cause they want to believe something about me they heard from someone els instead of trying to get to know me.
i think that it has a good topic and all but u should really get it into a pom format. when u have it like that it just looks like a story. also i think that maybe getting a rythm would help too. sry if u dont like my advice.
Choose one or the other 4 each question!!
Chad Michael Murray or Johnny Depp??
Ruben or Clay??
Bush or Kerry??
Hilary Duff or Lindsay Lohan??
Apple or Banana??
Ben Affleck or Matt Damon??
Paris Hilton or Jessica Simpson??
Chicken or Tuna??
Chad Micheal Murray!
Ruben!
don't follow politics
i hate them both but i guess Lindasy Lohan
Bananas lol
Matt Damon
Jessica Simpson(her stupidity amuses me)
Chicken
What do girls my age (14) like in us guys?
it all depends on the girl. some girls really go for looks and other girls go for sensitivity. there isnt just like one thing. the biggest thing that i've seen is girls liking personality. me personality likes the eyes(dunno y) and personality.
Okay...for the past 3 days I have had nausea, indigestion, and some dirrahea!! I have run out of ideas and don't know what else to do!! Can someone give me some suggestions on what to do??
nausea
heartburn
indigestion
upset stomach
diarrhea
Yay Pebto Bismol!
other then pb i dunno wut you could use. if it is sumthin like IBS go to a doctor and they can probably give u some medicine that will help you.
does anyone know any good sad quotes about drinking and driving, death, losing someone, cutting yourself, someone cutting or hurting themselves, suicide, ect or anything else you can think of thats sad
i am reading a book of poems called ANGST! it's really good and if u live like near balboa in san diego u can get it at the balboa public library or see if theres one in the library by where u live.
Help! i think i might be anorexic-you know, when you dont eat anything? well ive had friends that were in the hospital bc they almost died and i know its rele bad but i cant help it. i only eat 1 meal a day-if that i only eat meals when there is no way to get out of eating them-please help me! i cant tell anyone in my family thell just think im stupid. wut do i do? im a 14 year old female.
thanx 4 helping if u can!
i understand y u dont want to tell ur parents. go to one of ur friends that u can trust the most(if u r one of my friends u can totally cum to me!) and talk to them about wutever it is ur going throuh. i think friends can help the most because they will listen more then family. after talk to ur friend work out an eating schedule or sumthing. that friend can b ur support!
hope i helped!
my question is going to sound confusing so im going to name me (girl) A, my bestfirned(girl) B, My boyfriend C, and his bestfriend (boy) D.
I have been going out with c for a pretty long time and then B and D got together but before they got together i kind of liked D while i was going out with C, and anyways while C was on vacation D came over and nothing much happened but enough happened were C would dump me.I want to tell him because my conscience cant handle it but i dont want to tell him because i really love him and it was a big mistake for me to do that.
yes that was confusing but i got wut u were trying to say.
well u should tell him because a relationship is built on trust. u broke that trust but thats wut happens sumtimes. i kno how much u like ur b/f and u wouldnt want to hurt him but i dont think i would want him to hear it from any1 else. that wouldn't b too fun. the longer u wait to tell him the more angry he will be.
there is another option. u could not tell him and start keeping a journal that u dump all ur feelings into and it will make u feel so much better. i keep an online jourmnal and i dont put personal stuff in it and i feel good everyday. u can think that wuts in the past is in the past and just leave it alone. thats fine too but if u r really scared that sum1 will tell him itd be better for him to hear it from u.
w/e u choose i hope all goes well and if he really loves u he will sit there and listen to u w/out exploding in ur face.
hope i helped!
hi im 15 years old and a guy...and i dig this chick alot, we went out before for like 8 months and then we took a "break" and a few days later shes going out with my buddy and to make a long story short, me and her were hangin out at my house and her b/f dumped her and she acted like we were goin out or somethin and then the next day her and her ex are doin the same thing...what the hell do i do?
well it mite be hard since u like her alot but u need to get over her. she sounds like she is the type of person who will use ppl to get others jealous. that is not the type of person u wanna be with. girls are beginning to use guys and hurt them and its just not cool. a lot of my friends do it and it makes me feel so bad for the guy but i think u should just be friends with her and dont let her use you.
k well hope i helped!
Im sorry this is gross but I really dont get how to put a tampon in...i keep trying but i cant do it....what is wrong with me?
*pulls paper bag over head*
dont b ashamed. i have had my period since oct of 2003 and i cant get it all the time. no1 can really tell u how to put one in cus its kinda hard to explain but i can try.
actually it depends on wut kind u have. i use the ones with the cardboard cover, i think tampax. u have to find the right hole. there is the one u pee out of, the one for ur tampon, and ur butthole. if u can feel the tampon when u put it in u r doing it wrong and if u leave it there it will hurt! trust me, i put one in wrong and was at magic mtn all day..it sucked. um well u push the bottom of the applicator up until u have the tampon all the way in. if ur doing it right u shouldnt even fill it!:)
hope i helped and ask me for advice if u wanna!
Are crunches or sit ups better for you?
i like crunches better cus i think they work more on ur abs.
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my boyfriend is 15 and i'm 13/f well i think that his friends are telling him that he is stupid for going out with me, i want to talk to him about it but i'm scared to. he is my neighbor and i want to call him but i'm to scared that he is going to break up with me. what should i do
well u cant hide from him forever. he lives next door to u so thatd b kinda hard. just talk to him if ur so worried about it and if he breaks up with u then thats wut happens. hes really stupid if hes gonna break up with u cus his friends said so. not worth the time.
hope i helped!
i'm 13 and all i ever want is to sing and listen to music. I really want to get alot better but besides lessons idk how. i just want to be a good singer that people want to hear.
how do i do that?
practice practice practice. lessons can help but u can just practice on ur own if u dont have the money or w/e. tape urself and listen to how u sound and then work on the rough edges. if u dont get any better maybe ur not meant to b a singer.
hope i helped!
I have a large very sore lump on my head near my neck. I want to know what it is and if it is serious.
it mite just be a knot in ur neck. they hurt a lot and u get them when u sleep in an akward position or when ur really tense i think. it mite not be that so i would go c a doctor about it.
hope it's nuthin serious!
Ok me and my ex-boyfriend got in a huge fight and we are no longer friends! He was so mean to me and I knew it wasn't a real friendship but I still loved him from the realtionship we had! I think about him all the time and we aren't even talking! I tried apologizing but he said he wouldn't take it b/c he didn't want to deal with me and called me a bitch and hung up! I moved to California so now I will never see him again or speak to him EVER again, but I just can't get him off my mind! Any tips? ASAP!
u r right, if he was mean to u when u guys talked it wasnt a good friendship. it sounds like ur kinda hung up on him which i totally understand bc he probably is a great guy. maybe just start doing things to get him off ur mind. meet new ppl and go out at night with them. just forget about him and go have fun. dance, read, cook, w/e it is that u like to do that doesnt remind u of him is good.
hope i helped!
this aint a love life question...but here it goes ~~~>everytime i try to burn a cd....it melts...i tryed couple of times but it dont work...keeps on melting...wtf am i doing wrong??!?! also...in another ocasion my computer told me to press "any key" to continue...but i cant find the "any key" to press so acidently i pressed something n KABOOM...i dunno wut happend but i'm scared my computer is gonna blow...oh n one more question b4 my computer blows on my face...i watched southpark and theres this episode where they said its healthy to stick food in yr ass and shit it outta yr mouth.. so u tried it and it didnt work so then...i tried hangin upside down and it still didnt work...wut can i do?
HELP PLZ PLZ ASAP!!!
k if u actually tried to burn a CD with fire u r an idiot. im sry but u are.
if u burned music onto it and it melts then maybe ur computer is too ot and needs to b shut down for a while. u need to let it cool off.
when ur computer says ress any key it means press any key. ur computer wont explode. hopefully...
with the southpark dilemma i think ur doing sumthing wrong. just keep trying and maybe u'll get it. good luck!
hope i helped!
pls tell me how it goes.
are you starving yourself if you eat one salad per day?
if ur hungry for the rest of the day yeah. salads r gr8 and everything but u should eat a lot more then that a day. thats really unhealthy.
this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap?
i dunno i guess it just gives them sumthing to do or sumthing to talk about ya kno?
*Oreo*