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its kind of about friendship too


Question Posted Friday July 9 2004, 1:11 pm

my question is going to sound confusing so im going to name me (girl) A, my bestfirned(girl) B, My boyfriend C, and his bestfriend (boy) D.
I have been going out with c for a pretty long time and then B and D got together but before they got together i kind of liked D while i was going out with C, and anyways while C was on vacation D came over and nothing much happened but enough happened were C would dump me.I want to tell him because my conscience cant handle it but i dont want to tell him because i really love him and it was a big mistake for me to do that.


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OreoGirl answered Friday July 9 2004, 1:32 pm:
yes that was confusing but i got wut u were trying to say.

well u should tell him because a relationship is built on trust. u broke that trust but thats wut happens sumtimes. i kno how much u like ur b/f and u wouldnt want to hurt him but i dont think i would want him to hear it from any1 else. that wouldn't b too fun. the longer u wait to tell him the more angry he will be.
there is another option. u could not tell him and start keeping a journal that u dump all ur feelings into and it will make u feel so much better. i keep an online jourmnal and i dont put personal stuff in it and i feel good everyday. u can think that wuts in the past is in the past and just leave it alone. thats fine too but if u r really scared that sum1 will tell him itd be better for him to hear it from u.

w/e u choose i hope all goes well and if he really loves u he will sit there and listen to u w/out exploding in ur face.

hope i helped!
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Oreo

p.s. tell me how it goes if anything goes.

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