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I am 23 years old. I have a daughter who is about to turn six ( I was 17 when i gave birth to her) and i am 3 months pregnant. I have never been married. I would like to let you know that my advice is genuine. I have been through alot in my life. From childhood problems, relationship problems, family problems. I have done my share of experiencing with drugs and alcohol. I have had suicide thoughts as a teenager. I have autistic triplet brothers and a sister with multiple sclerosis. I have not seen or spoken to my father in 12 years. I hope that i can help you and will do my best.
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what can i do to like get somewhere in writing i really wanna b a writer when i grow ^!!
you and me both!! First think about what kind of writer you want to be. Do you want to write books? What kind? Or do you want to be a journalist? Or a screenplay writer? Are you still in school? If you are, make sure to take a creative writing class. Then work hard so when its time for college, you can take a course in writing. If you have that college experience, it will be much easier to get into something when you are older. Also, check the web search engines for creative writing contest, or poetry contest..whatever kind of writing you do. You can earn scholarships this way as well, along with recognition. You have an awesome goal! Stcik with it!
There is a boy I like so much I mean i Have the biggest crush on and he's everything I ever wanted in a boi he athletic,funny, great dancer and so cute well there is many girls that like him.me and him are cool i think he knows i like him but everytime something might happen between us someother gurl gets in the way and im not the type of girl that messes up relationships so i just back off but school is starting soon and im gonna see him again and hopefuly he's single but im trying to get his attention without screwing up and i dunno how to handle those situations very well...HELP PLZZ
Try to make it clear that you like him, more than a friend, but dont try to hard. And stay his friend. He will see your loyalty compared these girls that come and go. The best relationships start off as friendships because by then, you know eachother and there are no surprises. Just be patient
how do u no if a guy really likes u?
Believe it or not, guys tend to have a hard time expressing there feelings as much as girls do. Be an observer. When you talk to him, does he make eye contact with you? Whats his body language like? When you sit close to him does he stay right there or scoot over a little? Try to learn from his reactions. If you are still clueless, than think of your own approach. Something creative but easy. If you know him well, than be honest. if you dont know him, use a line. Guys do it all the time! Tell him he looks familiar, ask him about school or work. Think of the things you like to do and ask him what he likes. Dont forget to smile! (winking works too) sometimes the guy wants the girl to approach first. Try it
what can u do to make a guy go crazy during sex? lol
AS weird as i feel answering this question because i don't know how old you are or what you have already tried, i will tell you that no matter what position you are in, you have access to his balls. They are extremley sensitive so when you ummm...fondle them....the guy goes crazy. trust me
one time my cousin and i went to the beach in florida, and we stayed in the condo. next to ours, there were two guys. so one day they walked up to us and just asked our names. and then they walked away and started laughing. and everytime we walked by their condo they like yelled at us and invited us to their pool and stuff. is that flirting or are they making fun of us???
Maybe when they asked your names, they were expecting more from you. Don't feel pressured. If you got a bad vibe from them right away, than i hope you avoided there invitations. It sounds like they were just looking for some action. Guys can be confusing, and immature.
i wear black eyeliner everyday, but into the afternoon it runs or dissapears.. any suggestions??
Whether you put it on your upper lid or under your eye, try a dark eye shadow to go over it. Take the tip of the eye shadow swab and run it along where the eyeliner is. The powder in the eyeshadow helps seal it in.
Lately my bestfriend has been acting all weird on me I mean me and her are so cool with each other but all the sudden she pops out with I've sopposly changed i am acting all weird but i dont see what she means and i think she thinks that i have a crush on her bf(i think cause i use to like him)but i dont and i dont know how to get that through to her.
It sounds like she is trying to make you feel bad about once liking her boyfriend. Maybe her boyfriend likes you to and she senses that. She might be insecure about her relationship. Maybe spend some time away from her, let her cool down. Then have a talk with her. Let her know that you are her friend and willing to talk to her about anything. good luck!
i was @ a lake w/ lyk 25 of my friends and i was on my way to the tent. 3 or 4 of my guy friends gagged my and took me in the water.they held my arms back and took off my clothes...one of them fingered me then held my legs open while the last one idk wut u would call it but he had sex w/ me...in the water...idk wut to do...help!
Call the police! You were raped. If you feel uncomfortable about calling the police, than first speak to a counselor or parent. You can even call an attorneys office and get free advice. DO NOT let this go. They were very wrong to do that. Stand up for your rights as a rape victim.
Does anyone know a good brand of makeup that makes your skin look flawless. Kind of like how the stars have their makeup that makes their skin look so beautiful. Or does anybody know a good way to apply makeup to make it look that way?
I use Igia Instant cover. Its water resistant, it covers EVERYTHING and i swear by it! (I dont have great skin) For a really good price, you get light, medium, and dark concealer that you can mix to match your skin tone, plus you get a spray that sets the makeup all day, plus you get a cover stick and vitamin serum. Heres the number. 1-800-716-8667.
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~i hate skool...i feel like no one likes me...we started skool yesterday and i mean it sucked right off the bat! i mean today sucked worse to! i feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore...and that no one wants me to be around...today at lunch i started crying cuz i jst felt like nothing was going right! i mean i only talk to bout 3 ppl and the rest everyone got to talk crap...i still gotta ride the darn bus and every morning my bus drivers pisses me off and the day jst start off all wrong! i jst don't know wat to do! last nite all i wantd to do was kill myslef or cut myself! i jst wanna be happy like i us to!!??
What made you happy before? If your boyfriend is doing something to make you feel bad, talk to him. If he is insensitve and doesnt seem to care, than drop him. Your crying episodes could be a sign of depression. Be careful. Cutting yourself will leave scars which will be a continous reminder of everything that makes you feel bad, and you dont want that. Killing yourself is not punishing yourself, its punishing those who love you. Do you have any close friends you can discuss this with? Maybe a parent or counselor? As far as your busdriver, he/she obviously hates his/her job? Dont let him feed off of your reactions. The less you let things bother you, the better you will feel. Keep attentive to your school work and to the things that make you happy. Join an after school program, or get involved in sports. You could also earn a scholarship that way which will get you into an awesome colleg which means the beginning of a wonderful life. You have so much ahead of you! don't let other people bring you down. I have been in your situation. If you need someone to talk to, just let me know.
My friend on my soccer team is one of the SWEETEST people in the WHOLE world..at her school these 2 guys like her and she dosen't like them and now she has to break their hearts and she dosen't know how to tell them...She's really sad and doesn't know what to do? PLEASE help!
- in need of advice -
If your friend has done nothing to lead these guys on then she has nothing to worry about. If they are asking her out, tell her that instead of saying no, flat out, have both of you invite them to hang out as friends, with all of your other friends. Just because a guy is not boyfriend material, doesnt mean hes not friend material. But make sure shes completley honest in telling them she is not interested in a relationship. Good luck!
i don't want a bf bc i luv 2 b sinlge but i never get ne action when im single. i mean there are sooooo many hot guys around and i really wanna make out wit sum but i never knoe how to approch them... any tips???
show this gurl sum luv and answer asap!
Trust me, there are many guys out there who would like a little action without strings attached. So turn the tables a little. Be confident too. Walk up close to a guy, or sit next to him, lean in a little and say "Damn, you smell good". Then walk away. He will be curious so let him come to you. Once you have his attention, there are so many different ways to start up the love. If you have a drink, say "mmm, you know what this tastes like?" When he asks what, say "Here, taste" and plant your lips on his. No drink? Than take him and the corner and go for it anyways! Men want to be dominated!
me and my boyfriend of 9 months dont have sex or anything but we make out alot, but it gets soooo boring..i dont wanna go TOO far (blow job/sex or w/e) but whats somethin REALLY hott and creative i cld do to suprise him?
But be sure that you both know where you stand. Make sure he knows you are not ready for sex. Then once thats out of the way, surprise him by (when hes laying down) lift up his shirt and give him soft kisses all over. Then lightly run your tongue from his neck up to his ear, while letting hot air escape your mouth. Whether a guy admits it or not, (most likely he will) his ear is his g-spot. So feeling warm breath on it or running your tongue from the bottom of his ear to the top, is something he will appriciate.
Ok my boyfriend and I just started going out. But the other day i was out with him at a club and this girl came to us and told us that she's pregnant and he might be the father of her baby. Im really confused i dunno if i should stick with him or lose him. bcuz he told me he wuz a virgin. HELP
A guy will say alot to hook up with you. Sometimes its harmless. But lying about being a virgin is a big deal. You could try to talk to him about it but be careful. Its hard to determine if hes lying or being truthful. And why is this pregnant girl in the club anyways??? My honest opinion? If you really like this guy but he tells you that this pregnant girl is lying, than the only thing you can do is wait until a paternity test is established. If you see this girl again, pull her aside and ask some honest questions. Make sure to tell her that if she contacts her local Child Support Division, they will pay for the DNA test when baby is born.
I'm starting school in like 2 weeks. I'm nervous because I made the cheer squad this year. Every one said I would make it but I wasn't sure. I did end up making it but idk.. iI'm just so nervous that I'll mess up. any advice?
Obviously, you have talent. You made the squad so they saw something they like. If you are nervous, it might affect your performace. Just be confident and comfortable. You'll be fine. good luck!
i have a boyfriend who i love with all my heart and he always says he loves me and all this and i say i love him back and hes like yeah yeah i know and all this but then when we talk online he like starts all this stuff like u dont love me and i know your gonna breakup with me and all kinds of things like that. how do i make him believe that i really do love him and im not gonna break up with him? please help me!
Thats a tricky question. It kind of sounds like hes looking for an easy escape out of the relationship. If you love him and he says he loves you, then try to figure out whats going on in your relationship. Do you spend time together often? Is he affectionate? Are you? If you are doing everything you can to show him you love him, than what else can you do? But you dont need to put up with that. Maybe he is insecure. Have a good face to face with him. Make sure to watch his eyes. Either he is trying to get out of the relationship without hurting you, or he is really afraid that you dont love him. If it is difficult to talk face to face, than write him a sincere letter. Explain how you feel as best as you can. Good luck!
mmk i need ideas on what to get my boyfriend for our one year...and i dont exactly have that much money to spend, so does anybody kno any good ideas for a 1 year gift? and not a scrapbook..cuz im waitin til i have more pictures for that. so plz plz plz lemme kno if you have an idea!! thx
What about a sweet card or something you write yourself. drape a dark sheet over your window, light some scented candles, pick out some nice music like alicia keys or amanda perez. Get him alone and just cuddle with him. make him feel loved. If you get bored, have some back up movies or something, like 50 first dates or the butterfly effect (2 awesome movies) Just be thoughtful. You dont need alot of money to prove your love.
Theres this group of really kool hot guys that r obsessed with me. They say all this stuff and they started doing it it front of my mom. like one time i was on the deck with my friend and my mom was in the backyard and there like hey sexy, they grap me in certain places, and they keep looking me up and down! SO UNCOMFORTABLE!!! they do in right in front of my oms face!! i dont want to lose the attention from them but i cant have them doing that in front of my mom! HELP thanx srry so long
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Tell your mom to speak up. It seems like these guys are trying to see how much they can get away with. Let your mom know that you feel ok with there joking around but you also want them to know that its disrespectful to do that in front of your mom. Ask your mom to be cool about it and see if you two can come up with some sort of approach to where they wont do it in front of your mom anymore but you dont lose the attention.
y r all guys the same! their all perverted dirty playas! god! i met this guy online he really proved to me that he would never b a playa never do drugs never drink! sounds like the perfect guy right? well wrong! once a slutty gurl walks by or w/e they always ditch the good gurls for them!! why is that? all guys r the same!!!! y can't there just b more sweet and sincere boys! i mean thats all a gurl wants!(well me n e ways)
Alot of guys go for the slutty girls because they are an easy lay. But trust me, all guys want love...it just takes them longer to realize that. Women mentally grow up faster than "Boys". We know what we want, they don't. There are good guys out there, we just tend to look in the wrong places. We go to clubs, or online, or popular hangouts, or partys. Try a different atmosphere. Trust me, there are good ones.
ok i am 13 5'6' and 116 pounds. girls in my grade that are bigger than me spread rumors that i am anorexic! i am not at all. my guy friends (who are like my only friends these days) say " what the f**k u eat as much as a guy" and its just my body type. how can i get people to stop these ridiculous rumors?!
At 13, you are very lucky to be 5'6". I am 23 and 5'6". You've got a lot of growing to do so i wouldnt worry about it. Rumors are spread out of either jelousy or because they've got nothing better to do than to make themselves feel better. Also, you can let those other girls know that they are obvioulsy uneducated because they have no knowledge on the human body and what it means to have a high metabolism. And let me tell you this, women and girls who are anorexic, will not just be skinny, they will look unhealthy too. They will have dark circles under there eyes and thin hair from lack of nutrition. You sound pretty healthy to me. Besides...who cares what they think. 116 lbs at your age is more than perfect. If you want real answers, talk to a doctor. they'll tell you the same thing, that at 13, your ht and wt are fine!