Well to tell you alittle about myself. I'm a 32 year old woman. I have three children that are my life. I have been married for a three years now. It is my second marriage, my first one falled but that's ok. I love to help people when they need it. I will try and give you the advice that will help. Hope to meet new people too.
E-mail: eric.april@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: strykersville, new york
Occupation: stay at home mom
Age: 30
Yahoo: aprilericmc@yahoo.com
MSN: eric.april@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 30, 2005
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Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up last friday. I miss her so much, I truly love this girl, my best friend. I feel hurt and at the same time confused, even though we have talked over the phone and even gone to the movies once since the break up 4 days ago. I dont know what to do, all i do is think about her and us, I cant believe its over, i seriously thought this was the "one" i was gonna spend my whole life with. Im done crying but sadness is all over me, I dont know how to deal with all of this. Ive been in many relationships, however, none were as serious as this one. I wanna call her so bad and be with her, i look at our pictures together and i get the need to cry. My question is, should i call her and tell her how much i love her and ask her to get back with me, or should i give it time and not call her for sometime in order to get my thoughts and feelings straight, and allow her the same opportunity? (link)
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Well don't know who broke if off, but if she did, did she give you a reson. give her a little space and give your self time to really sort u=out your feeling for her.Try and do stuff with your other firends and try not think about her. I know you want to call her and tell her how you fell but it might push her away even more. She might have done something and can't tell you. Just wait and maybe she's not the one for you.
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Well last night my mom and I had a fight and she said well if your dads so great go live with them so I started to cry, I sent a text message to my dad and step mom and I was like well if it comes down to it can I live with you. They havent replied and so I sent them another one about a hour ago. Still no answer my mom has been a real bitch lately and I dont know what to do somtimes I want to go live with my dad but I really dont like my mom just its my friends and the skit we are doing for the variety show that makes me want to stay. Please help.
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Dear Tiff
Parents say things when there mad. I don't think your mom would really want you to go and live with your dad becaue she'll miss you. It's might be even harder when your at your dad's. Try talking to your mom and tell her how you feel and see if you too can work it out before you make the decision to go and live with your dad.
I like to be firends with you. If you want you can email me at keemkick@hotmail.com or white_grey_wolf@yahoo.com. Hope to hear from you soon.
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I believe in abstinence, which is not having sex until you are married. I was just wondering how many guys would dump a girl who wouldnt have sex with him if they were going out? Guys tell me if you would dump me. (link)
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There's about 50-50. there's guys out there who want someone who are a virgin and some who don't they want someone who has lost there virginity. But for you, don't let guys push you into something that you don't want to do. If they really care about you they would care about what you beleive in. Hope I helped.
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I haven't yet had sex with my boyfriend. He has told me that he hasn't had unprotected sex for 2 years, and so I shouldn't worry about STDs. However, he has been sexually active for 5 years - before 2 years ago he had unprotected sex with several partners. 2 questions: how worried should I be about him having something, that maybe hasn't shown itself yet? And how can I suggest to him nicely that he get tested? (link)
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Well if he really cares about you, and doesn't wnat you to get sick or that, he'll get tested . YOu could tell him that you really care aobut him adn would like it if he would go and get tested and you'll go with him. He might not even have anything but it's go to get tested. But if he won't then you have to make the desion if you want to sleep with someone knowing that they could have a std or even something else. hope I helped.
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okay so tonight my bf and i were in the hott tub.. kinda fooling around. no we didnt have sex. But i did end up getting alittttleee excited and i think he did too. But it was all touching n stuff. ANYWAY.. its pretty silly buttt is there anyway i could possibly get pregnant if he did ejaculate? i mean theres cylorine.. and stuff. but idk. just wanted to see if theres a possible chance.
dont be lame with your answers. its not a joke. An honest answer would be greatly appreciated.
5 for whoever can tell me. (link)
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Not being lame with the answer. There's no way you could get pregant with only tousching. He had to be in you and ejeculate. so don't worry you won't get pregnat. But it's go to ask. have fun and just be careful. Hope i helped.
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My math 10 teacher has been acting really strange around me. He came up to me the other day and said "my wife's maiden name is the same as yours". He also said I reminded him of his wife when she was younger, and said it in a kind of romantic (yuck) way. Another time he caught me and my friend writing notes, and then he came up to me, tried to read the note, and then said "oh it's a love letter to me". Another girl heard and thought he was joking, because she said "I highly doupt that sir". But I know he was being serious. I always catch him staring at me. One day he heard me say the F word. He told me to stay behind after class. Instead of giving me crap, he said "I'm really suprised at you, but I'm just going to give you a warning". He was talking seductively. I know he was enjoying having me all alone.
It feels really gross and wrong of him. I am only 15. He's like old enough to be my father. What should I do, and is he being inappropriate or am i overreacting? (link)
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I think your teacher is being inappropriate and you should tell your parents or you guidance couscler of this and have it stop know, before it goes to far.I hope I helped.
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okay say if you give someone oral sex and you do swallow their cum. well do you like always get STDS or only if they have an STD? because people make it sounds that everyone has an STD and if you dont use a condom then you'll get STDS. like im confused. (link)
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If you give someone oral and they don't have an std you can't get it, but if they do yes you can get it. Just make sure the person your with is clean. It doesn't hurt to ask them to get checked before you do it with them.
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How do you get someone to finally let you into their hearts. I'm totally in love with this person but they are so scared to let others in becuase they aren't used to having someone love them so they totally ignore the fact that I do. We're still very good friends but ... I dont know what to do. Can someone give me an idea on how to make him open up to me and be my boyfriend? We used to date but he broke up with me becuase he wanted to sort through some things he said he's never felt a connection like this with anyone else but he's pulling away from me becuase I know he's scared, its been 3 months since we broke up, all our friends say it seems like he wants to be with me but one week he'll be flirty with me and then the next he'll try to start fights with me even though I don't budge and I still stay by his side ... can someone help me becuase he's leaving for a week and a half, I just want to give him something to think about while he's gone, I want him to know I won't hurt him. How do I do this? (link)
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WEll you could write him a poem and tell him how he feels and give him a picture of yourself or if you have one you and him together that would help too.That might help him think about you and see what happens when he gets back. hope I helped.
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give.me.the.sifferent.ways.mc (link)
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do you have a regular email address that I can send it to because some of the stuff is not appropritate for here. april
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Every after sexual intercause my wife is geting a bad pain in her both knees. Please help!
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Well not much to work with. If your wife is on her knee during sex then maybe you should try doing it in a different way and see if that works.If you need different ways email me and I could give you some different ways that would help. Keemkick@hotmail.com
hope I helped
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My mom keeps giving my dad crap about how he doesn't pay the child support, but she keeps going and spending the money on stupid crap.
The question i actually have is, when does a parent have to stop paying child support? Does he have to pay till the child is 18 and legally an adult, or does he have to keep paying until the child has graduated from high school? OR, is it determined differently for each divorce?
I'm 18 and in California. If anyone knows the actual details on this, i would GREATLY appreciate it. If your info is right, i'll give 5s (link)
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Well for me, my son's father has to pay child support until my son is 21. It depends on what the court or your state has for the age of the child. That money that your dad sends is for you. Not for your mom to spend. If you are little then she should be paying for cloths and stuff for you. I have been putting the money in the bank for my kids for when they get older they have it. I have three kids that get child support,so each one of then have a bank account. I hope that I helped you.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He always compliments me and is very good to me. My problem is that I feel funny undressing in front of him and I can't wear sexy nighties in front of him. I have a very low self-esteem. When I look in the mirror, I see fat. I want to be able to wear sexy things for my boyfriend and feel good about myself. What can I do??
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Well you could try putting on a sexy nighty without him being there. Do this for awhile until you feel comfortable doing it in front of him. Take a little time and soon you'll be able to to undress in front of him and wear sexy nighties. I hope I helped.
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Can you have sex if you're 3 months pregnent? (link)
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yes you can. You can do it all the way until your 9 months if you feel comfortable doind it. It helpes to when your giving birth.
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hello my question is that ive been having my period for well over a month now the first two weeks i rarely bled and now its alot of bleeding especially in the morning or when i go to the bathroom before this my period would come on a basis of every 4 or 5 months and at one point it didnt come for 9 months im 21 years of age and im way to scared to go see a doctor please find out whats wrong with me thank you for your cooperation
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The only way you can find out is to go to the doctor. If might be nothing but it's better to find out from them. If there is something wrong then they'll be able to help you. what I might think it is, if you have alot of stress in your life it will mess up your body and your when you you get your period. But if your missing it for up to 9 months it's not really good. but if you miss it maybe once a month it could be stress. but I don't really know.But I would go see a doc. hope i helped.
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okay i have cut myself in the past and kinda still do...i am anorexic and get upset easily...when my mom found out i was cutting she said "Dont be a stupid f***"...and i asked to see a therapist and she said i dont need to..she jus doesnt understand...i dont know what to do...i am so anorexic ive lost my period and i am starting to cut again ((along with suicide poems)) and i obviously cant ask her...school counselours dont work..i've tried..please help! (link)
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You need a buddy that you can call or write to when you feel like cutting yourself. You say your anorexic. Well the first thing is you need to eat. There's alot of things you can do to eat healthy. Eat fruits and veg. Start off slow and then when you feel better. Eat more. The best thing is to eat yogurt and jello. When you feel that your full stop and do something like read or start writing poems that are good and not bad. Things that you want to do or what to try. I hope that I helped .
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My parents have been telling me Santa Claus is real..I mean I am trying to believe but my parents have given off to MANY clues. I asked my mom the other day and she gave me the whole pep talk. Is Santa Claus real or is it his "helpers" who live w/ me? (link)
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I still believe in santa claus and I'm 29. I feel that he might not be real but his spirit is still there. I have three younger children and they beleive that he is real and that is what the believe and when they get older they will understand the whole thing about santa claus. Don't let anyone tell you there's no santa claus.
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i suppose i shall put this here..
I want to find EMAIL penpals?
Were on earth Can i find them at?
sites please?
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if you would like go to goole.com and put in penpals and that should help you. You can put me on if you like.
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I am married, and want to know that during pregnancy when we stop sex, or during pregnancy when it is not safe to intercourse.
I also want to know that in 12th week of pregnancy is intercourse is suitable?
Please give more details about intercourse during pregnancy.
asif_jah@hotmail.com
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Having sex while your pregnant is fine. If you feel comfortable doing it's fine. I had sex all the was thru may preganacy until i gave birth. I felt comfortable and if helps alot when your giving birth. Hope I helped.
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Hi, I would REALLY apprecaite some advice :) OK, my partner (male 32) is driving me (female 26) up the wall! We have a 6 month old baby. My parner works, I am at home alone with the baby all day. He has this really annoying habit where he get's home, sits on his lap top and then only goes to bed at about 5am! His alarm goes off at least 6 times before he gets up for work (obviously making him late!) and then he has to stay at work late to make up the time. By the the time he gets home from work, I am so wound up that we argue! I have tried to comprimise by designating "laptop evenings" but when we do this, it lasts for a few days and then we are back at square one. The worst of it is, that he he has difficulty with "demands". He sees everything as a demand and then feels that he must rebel! This makes him worse. Please can you give me some practical advice to get him to sleep earleir and to wake up on time for work. We are due to get married in Jan and I feel that this is a real reason for me to call it all off :( Thanks :) (link)
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WEll If your having problems now. I would wait before you get married. What's so important that he has to get home and then go to his lap top. He was already at work, So he shouldn't have to get on it right away. Have you asked him what he does on his computer until five in the morning. If he can't change for you or your child, think real hard if you want to marry this man. Not to be rude but he's not putting you or his child first. I have been divorced once and my ex did the same thing and he never changed when we got married and after four years of marriage we just went our separte was even though we had two children together. I thought of them and not myself. Thinking that I don't need this man to walk all over me and my children. I have found a man that had put me and my children first. Hope I helped sorry so long. If you need to chat, email me if you want. keemkick@hotmail.com
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i had my period yesterday..is ok to take like one advil or aleve everyday to reduce cramp pains? (link)
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You should take advil as it's presided on the back of the bottle. If you take more it could really do some damamge. hope i helped
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