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Q: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=530414

hey. so i sent one picture to my email address and it worked fine, but i tried sending another one and it said "internal error.. message not sent" or something and it won't work! why won't it work anymore?! is there a limit or something? is it because of how many bars i have?

It could be how many bars you have yes, or also their site could be experiencing picture download problems.

Is there a link saying, ''if you are experiencing problems with out multiple picture downloaded try downlinad a single at a time'' cos if so then click that, if not then the only way round this until the error is corrected would be to send one at a time.

Annoying isnt it !! Good luck

Q: Righty-Oh :P

I have the Slayer Limited Edition Christ Illusion DVD+ CD

And I have a DVD Decrypter.
How can I decrypt everything from the dvd, rather than one part of it :S

Thanks :)

Im answering this as it seems noone has an answer, the only thing I can suggest is too ask any dvd shop, or possibly a computer repair shop as these people know best :) Or google it? Good luck

Q: How do you add a custom trivia pack onto the iquiz, then to your ipod. I want to get a drivers ed trivia pack onto my ipod. I followed all the directions, put the file in the iquiz folder in my Itunes folder and synced my ipod but it doesnt not appear on my ipod. What can I do to get this on my ipod?

( I don't know if this is really gonna help but...) here is the link for the trivia pack that i want to get on my ipod

http://www.drivingdirectory.com/ipod.htm

thanks in advance

Have you ever purchased the Iquiz from Itunes? Its the only way you can use this utility.

If so then I would suggest checking the format.

Q: ok well im a skinny girl 16 and weigh 117lbs but i have not so skinny ankles is there anything i can do to fix that????

Tbh I wouldnt try not to change that if I were you. Your ankle are whats supporting your body. The last thing you wanna do is weaken your ankles.

But if they are seriousley that bad I would suggest LIGHT flexes, and cycling.

Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for around two and a half years and everything so far has been great up till this point. Last weekend we had a home basketball game and we usually hang out afterwards, but he said that he wanted to hang out with his cousin which i just thought okay thats fine. But I really wanted to hang out with him and I told him that, but it didn't change his mind so I just went home. And then later on that week I kept hearing stories about a lot of the freshman girls went out and partied and got drunk. And somehow my boyfriend was also mentioned during this, but he always promises me that he doesn't drink. But anyways now all of a sudden he is like best friends with some of these girls and has there number and texts them. And every time I ask him about what happened he just jokes around as says stupid stuff and never tells me. I'm really scared and just want to cry because i'm afraid that something happened that he doesn't want to tell me. What do I do please help and Im afraid to ask him if he cheated on me because then he will get mad. Please help.

Thats a difficult position, but you only have a few choices.

As your boyfriend as made you feel insecure, you will have to do some snooping.

When hes asleep, or just when you know you can, check his phone for these texts, or text a girl saying this is my new number, and give them yours, see what they reply, then text and see.

Apart from this, the only thing you can do is ask him on the spot and see what his answer is, if he stutters about it too long then you know something isnt right, and you will have to put your foot down just to make things better for yourself.

And if you can blatently tell hes lying, but hes like I love you so much, your my baby girl and all this, then do the same to him, I know 2 wrongs dont make a right, but dont take it that far, just say your going out but dont tell him exactly where, say with some guy friends, he will get funny about it but still go out, and when you come back and hes all funny, say thats what I feel like. Either he will say hes really sorry and admit what he done or he will back himself up still but apologise for making you feel like that, in which case he probably isnt to blame for anything.

Good Luck Let me know!

Q: how can you make your jeans look old but still wearable?

Maybe trim a couple of little holes, and tear them yourself, there is certain ways you can bleach them to make them look oldish.

Stick some safety pins on there somewhere, or even inside creating a rippled effect. Good Luck

Q: how do i make my pussy looser

You cant actually make it loser.

However you can ease the pain when you have sex where its tight, by using Lubricants and well lubed condoms, or have a play with yourself beforhand to arouse yourself and you will become naturally lubed.

Q: how come ppl the option of choosing Looking for: doesnt have random play and other stuff anymore?

I cant put a pinpoint on that, but I would suggest as its been in the news so much lately, they need to cut down with things like that. Cause ''random play'' as a relationship status could attract unwanted attention from people who could be potentially quite dangerous.

Q: Does anyone know what to do for makeup for me? i have blonde hair and hazel-brown eyes...i really like the look JennyLee is going for because i look like her...and i really like her eye makeup. I just dont know what to do heres a pic of her:
http://realityexploits.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/01/jennylee-twinkle.jpg
she is from beauty and the geek. anyway, i dont have as blonde hair as she does, but its close...and i wear eyeliner on the top of my eye sometimes if that helps! thanks

I usually use two tone, and Im the same kinda hair colour as her, it all depends on what you wear, but I would suggest white eye shadow, cos that goes with everything.

Depending on what you wear try...
White & Light Blue
White & Metallic Light Green
Light Brown & White.

Try using a lighter blusher to brighten up your face and bring out your blonde hair colour better. And try to stick to black eyeliner.

Q: okay when I masterbate I feel like I have to pee and I heard that means you are about to orgasm so I keep going but then it kind of itches and I get impatient very quickly so I rub it faster and harder and it goes away. Did I so something wrong? Help.

Usually thats actually when you have already had an orgasm.

You havent done anything wrong, just keep experimenting and see what you find best.

Q: I always get stressed out about how much homework I get and I dont know how to sort it out. My school always gives work home that I didn't finish and I am not that much of a fast writer. what should I do to not get so stressed out?

Buy yourself a filer, its got labels for different sections, label the sections with each subject, and put the homework in one, ''completed'' section, and one ''uncompleted'' section, good luck!

Q: In the movie "Yours, mine, and ours" what is the song they play when the kids have that party. I think the song goes "All the girls and the boys and people makin noise" or somthing like that. Thanks to whoever answers.

Visit this website, it has all the song listings for Yours,Mine & Ours =]

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0443295/soundtrack

Q: 14\F
I had a Catscan done Wendsday and that was when I did have a cold. Well now I have really bad sore throat and I'm weazing when I breathe. I don't know if it's the radiation they put in my system or if I'm being paranoid.
My parents don't have the money from some walk in check up... It cost like 150 just to walk in the Fast Track. But I can't wait a month or two on my actual doctor if tis is serious.
The doctor said that alergic reactions happen like 1 in 1,000,000 or whatever people. She also said that it's also rare to have trouble breathing or hives.
I donno if I should tell my parents or if I should wait it out.
The only time I can breathe clearly is right after I hack a lung which is starting to really hurt.
Any help would be awesome.

Its probably just you worrying. It sounds like you could have a throat infection, its highly unlikely its anything serious, or you would have had an almost immediate reaction, tell your parents, phone your doctor. If they both say its nothing. Then dont panic over it

Q: A few days ago I started to have a lot of trouble with my computer. Command prompt is opening by itself, usually two windows at a time, and then an error pops up and closes them. Why is command prompt opening? Is it dangerous?

Another thing, I always use firefox [latest edition] and never ever use IE [for many reasons]. Now though, I'm getting pop ups that open in IE, stuff like 'crush calculator' or that pop up that says to run a system scan. Yeah, I exit out of them.
I ran AVG free edition and it detected some threats labeled 'virus lop', so I moved them to quarantine, but now when I start up windows I get an error "rundll" or something like that, is this something I need to be concerned about?
I'm getting a lot of errors with stuff like 'winlogin' and 'explorer.exe' and 'ctfmon'. I have been trying to get screenshots but my computer has been restarting automatically when these errors show up.
AVG also found some trojans and removed them.

I'm on my college's internet connection.
I'm running Windows XP and my computer is about 5 years old and getting kind of low on hard drive space [I don't know if that matters with this problem though].
I have to get through the rest of the school year with this computer. It ran fine until this started happening, now it's slow and error-ridden. :(

My main question is: what's the deal with command prompt opening without me doing anything?
and
is there anything I can do, besides run AVG, to figure out what's going on with my comp and how to fix it?

I'm not the most tech-savvy person, but I'm not completely ignorant either [at least I hope I'm not that dumb haha], so is this something I can fix on my own?

thanks to anyone who reads this and helps.

Some of these are vital windows exe's that obviousley are missing the path they need to run correctly, also I had a similar virus that attacked my computer, and it restarted pretty much over anything, even during playing a game, You need to flatten your computer, make a back up dvd disk of everything you want saved, but ONLY save music and pictures, and reinstall XP, use automatic updates, and run AVG at the end of everyday, leave it overnight, if it should find anything, find the path of the threat, go to start, run, then type the path in and delete the file.

Q: Does that even make sense?So basically,I have high self esteem but I'm not the most confident person in the world.I'm still confident,but not as much as I'd like to be.Any advice? 13/F

Without you realising, its a sort of cover, because inside you know you're not that confident, your self esteem is covering over that to make you someone your not.

Its completely normal but best avoided! Try to just act calm in all situations, and remember your not the best at everything lol. Even if you are! Good luck

Q:
Okay, so me and my boyfriend are going out for 7 months it will be our 8 month anniversary on February 27th. He is absolutely amazing and i am really in love with him. He literally is like the perfect boyfriend. but for a little while we had a period where we would like get "testy" with each other over everything, even jokes. but now we are okay is that normal in a long relationship like this?

(I'm 15 (almost 16 in september) and hes 17 (almost 18 in july) and we had sex for the first time at the end of our 6th month. it was Both of our first times if that helps at all.) (i was ready to do it, so please dont say i wasnt even if thats what you really think)

Hell yea its normal.
I still do it now.
Its really difficult aswell, but you know once your throught that bit of the relationship you know you can get through anything, and if he loves you and you love him then theres nothing stopping you.

Q: my knee has been hurting for a week or two now. i dont remember doing anything that hurt it, but its my right knee just to the left of my knee cap. its usually fine just walking but shoots pain when i extend it or bend my leg up. anyone know what it could be or what i could do to help it? i cant really afford to see a doctor about it.

I have the same thing every once in while. It really hurts sometimes.

You have pulled a muscle/tendon or just maybe slightly sprained it, however sometimes if you dont correct is asap it doesnt heal properly like mine, its not expensive to go to Tesco/Asda or a pharmacy and get a support bandage, helps alot. Good Luck Marizzle

Q: spotting and your period??

if there a way??

Well yes and no. Usually you ''spot'' when your either just starting your period (for the first time) or just ending your period each month.

Sometimes girls ''spot'' after sex, but not often

Q: How can you tell if a get-together with a guy was possibly intended to be a date? Assuming that there was no kiss or sexual stuff at the end. If you could give me some characteristics of a date (in your opinion), that'd be great.

Well its usually down to body language, like is he flirting with you, does he move as close to you as possible, and encourage you to do the same?
If hes just relaxed flat out on the sofa watching a movie, or just casually playing games with you then you can't really class it as a date.

Do you think he likes you? Has he previousley shown any signs of liking you?
Its normal to have guy friends over but not mean anything by it, I had a friend of my boyfriends stay over last night, just for company nothing more!

If he flirts, you know its a date or gets generally intimate, even just sitting right next to you. If he doesnt, then its a casual get together!

Good Luck

Q: ok so i broke up with my bf not too long ago because i think were better friends. but now latley i cant stop staring at him and hes got a new gf already and im soo jealous. i dont want to go out with him because i like us being friends but at the same time i dont want him going out with anyone else. now lately hes been acting diffrent around me and not talking to me much and i kinda miss him. any advice could help.:]

It sounds like, when you broke up you werent fully over him, or fully ready to do that.
I was the same when I split with my boyfriend, I cried when I saw him kiss another girl, but now Ikm completely over it.

Its all down to time, you gotta keep yourself busy, and reassure yourself that your really happy you have a friend and a life. And you never know, he may start talking to you again properly if he sees you are moving on. Guys often get jealous over things like that. Just participate in your favourite hobby, or go shopping, meet friends, chat online to your other fit guy mates!

Good Luck

bio

Well...

Im just under 6'0, Im a model, I enjoy horse riding, figure skating, and shopping :)

I have blonde hair, blue eyes & Im a slim build.

Im your average teenager who has suffered the same as any other teenage and much more, or maybe much less compared to some :)

Ill give you my answer as I feel is correct, if its a question I have familiarity with then you will get an answer which I find best suited :)