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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for around two and a half years and everything so far has been great up till this point. Last weekend we had a home basketball game and we usually hang out afterwards, but he said that he wanted to hang out with his cousin which i just thought okay thats fine. But I really wanted to hang out with him and I told him that, but it didn't change his mind so I just went home. And then later on that week I kept hearing stories about a lot of the freshman girls went out and partied and got drunk. And somehow my boyfriend was also mentioned during this, but he always promises me that he doesn't drink. But anyways now all of a sudden he is like best friends with some of these girls and has there number and texts them. And every time I ask him about what happened he just jokes around as says stupid stuff and never tells me. I'm really scared and just want to cry because i'm afraid that something happened that he doesn't want to tell me. What do I do please help and Im afraid to ask him if he cheated on me because then he will get mad. Please help.
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Have you asked other girls who were there? Or maybe some other guys too? He may not have cheated persay but yes, he may have just become good friends with them. Try reading his texts sometime, I know its not right but they can tell alot about a person ;]
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Thats a difficult position, but you only have a few choices.
As your boyfriend as made you feel insecure, you will have to do some snooping.
When hes asleep, or just when you know you can, check his phone for these texts, or text a girl saying this is my new number, and give them yours, see what they reply, then text and see.
Apart from this, the only thing you can do is ask him on the spot and see what his answer is, if he stutters about it too long then you know something isnt right, and you will have to put your foot down just to make things better for yourself.
And if you can blatently tell hes lying, but hes like I love you so much, your my baby girl and all this, then do the same to him, I know 2 wrongs dont make a right, but dont take it that far, just say your going out but dont tell him exactly where, say with some guy friends, he will get funny about it but still go out, and when you come back and hes all funny, say thats what I feel like. Either he will say hes really sorry and admit what he done or he will back himself up still but apologise for making you feel like that, in which case he probably isnt to blame for anything.
Good Luck Let me know! <3Marizzlex
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