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my mom recently found out ive been cutting and now she questions me about it all the time and i just want her to leave me alone along with anyone else who questions cuts on my wrists or me wearing a wristband over them. what should i do??? please help!! (link)
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You cut, people notice, they ask. It's a fact, and aside from coming up with some great excuses, there's nothing you can do. I'm sorry, it sucks, but these people care about you and that's why they ask. Sorry.
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Well the other day one of my very close friends told me that she was a lezbo i mean lyk i totally support that n all but i feel wierd what should i do? (link)
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Well lyk it lyk don't matter coz lyke y do u lyke care?
Joking over, you can't change your friend's sexuality, it's great that she had the courage to tell you, but it's none of your beeswax my dear. It's not a big deal - so she's a lesbian. It doesn't affect your friendship.
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my mom recently found out ive been cutting myself so now she questions it all the time and along with alot of other people do! i just want them to back off, its kind of a personal problem. what should i do? pleez help n' thanks. (link)
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I'm sorry, that sucks. But it really it only because she cares about you, just keep yourself that. It might be worth having a talk with her, telling her that you know she loves you and is concerned, but that she's really not helping the situation. Good Luck.
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I go out with this guy and I REALLy like him, I mean REALLY. I want to do things with him like kiss etc but all our friends follow us around and tease us and we never get to spend time alone. Like, someone will say: Izzi kiss Jon and I just can't do it with everyone there. It makes me really embarassed and I get scared that Jon will think that I don't want to when I DO. I tried to tell my friends to leave me alone and they kinda do, but everyone else doesn't. (link)
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Okay, so yes, we're all guilty of thinking other people's lives are soap operas sometimes, and it really is just because we have dull lives. So just tell them to stick it. Make it very clear how you feel, and hopefully you'll shock them back into reality. Or you could try following them everywhere and watching their every move for a day - they'll soon realise how annoying it is ;)
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if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut?? (link)
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Well if it does I'm one hell of a slut. (That means no by the way).
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i used to fancy this boy and we went away together. than he started to be mean to me treating me like rubbish.i hate him and i started to cry wot can i do (link)
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Get of your arse, and move on. It's over. He was a stupid idiot little boy and you don't need him any more.
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I really wanna have a boyfriend that is not fridged. I really wanna snog someone but i dunno how u do it. it is really annoying coz all year I havent fancied anyone all year! IT IS DRIVING ME INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! does snogging and kissing come naturally???????? as I sed i havent fancied anyone all year but boys have asked me out and i have sed no. please help me with me kissing dilemma (link)
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Yeah, I think kissing comes naturally...just relax and you'll be fine. You've got to make allowances for boys when it comes to them being a little aprehensive, they might just be shy. Maybe you are letting your confidence and lust for kissing intimidate them? Think about it. I'm sure you'll find *him* soon honey, just keep your eyes peeled.
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my friends used to not get along. now they do and they keep leavin me out and ignoring me.we used to all ring each other up now those to ring each other up but they dont ring me. The go to town wiv out even asking if i wanna go wot can i do (link)
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You need to talk to them both about how they are making you feel - chances are they haven't even realised that they are constantly leaving you out. Why don't you ring them both up and arrange some fun stuff to do together, that's sure to remind them what great fun you are to have around =) And look at the bright side, it's great that you all get along now, it's got to make life a lot less awkward.
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ok first off, im kind of pale and white and i have ALOT of freckles....is their anyway to like make them go away? or tan fast? bc when i tan i dont really tan i burn n peal and its nasty and all my friends are like wow you need to get a tan..or dang you are so white!! what do i say when they say this and how can i tan to make my freckles like blend in?? (link)
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Freckles are great! Rejoice in your freckles!
If your skin does not tan, there's nothing you can do about it. I am in the same boat, but I think it's better to be pale and interesting than look like a red lobster. Over time your skin may begin to tan, it might not, but there's really nothing you can do about this. Fake tan can work wonders, but only pick a very pale shade, or you'll look totally wrong.
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my friend thinks that she is better than me at evrything and i got so pissed off one night and she pushed me and i pushed her back and then we startd makinout and we did *it* (lol) i dno how to tell my gf... should i?. I NEED HELP (link)
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Believe me, these things have an unfortunate habit of getting out in the end, and it's way better for her to hear it from you than from gossip. Yeah, it might not seem the easy option now, but it will be better in the end.
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#1:Im an alter server and we get a yearly trip 2 rapids water park.Everyone wears biknis.i dunt have the skiniest legs :/.Last year i was kinda used 2 it wen i wore a bikni but well i was used 2 it untill i saw the hottest kid in myclass!! -sighned kiked by biknis
#2:if yu dunt kno how old i am read my cloumn (miss-advice8) Well i am intrested in boys but i dunt seem 2 find any i like.Wen i meet one in public im scared 2 even ask him his name even though ive got a question set for him in my mind.Please help -signed hoplessley boycrazy (link)
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#1 Honestly, I'm sure your legs are fine. We tend to blow body issues way out of proportion. But if you really feel uncomfortable, get a sarong, or a bikini that comes with a skirt. You'll look great, won't burn your legs, and won't be self conscious.
#2 They are only boys. Seriously. Nothing special, and definetely nothing to be scared of. Just relax and be yourself - you'll have them fallign at your feet in no time. Promise.
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My best guy friend of 3 years asked me something really weird last week and I just can't stop forgetting it. We were hanging out w/ his friend, and we somehow started talking about the fact that a guy in my math class was looking down my shirt. Then my guy friend told me to bend over, jokingly. I was like "only if you pay me" sarcastically. Then he was like "I'll give you $6 if you give me a lapdance!!!!" And then his friend offered to give me $10 for one. I refused, of course, cuz that's just gross. I still can't get over that, though. I feel really disrespected. What should I do about it? (link)
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Guys can be pigs when they want to. Ignore them and they'll soon shut up.
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wow! this friday i lost my cell phone..and i went a lil crazi..i was at a teennight place (which is a place where u met ppl and dance and shyt like that) and i was askin every1 if they saw my phone and i asked this one realli hot guy and i was like heyyy do u have my phone..and he was like no and i was like are u sure???...and he was like u can check me and i was like ok so i lifted up his shirt..OMG He has a 6pac.. (link)
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No it does not make you a slut. We all do crazy things from time to time, it's releasing. And seeing as you weren't hurting anyone, it sounds like harmless fun to me. Just don't do it do often or you'll make a name for yourself, ya hear?
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ok, me and my ex broke up..and i want him back but he has a new gf now..and i dont think he wants me back..we went thro a lot..we are still good friends but i dont think he wants me back and ive tried to move on..i just cant...what should i do? (link)
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Just let it go. I know it's hard, but he's moved on and you are only going to get more hurt if you stick around clutching at straws. Good luck.
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I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment. (link)
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Possibly very true. You appear to only be talking about Christianity, and so not being a Christian I don't feel the need to defend them particularly. But I am religious. I think it's your own choice completely whether you have faith in anything - some people find religion very fufilling, others find it a little (or very) hypocritical.
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i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :( (link)
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First of all, don't kiss him just because your friends think you should. That's dumb, and you will regret it. However, if you are sure you want to do this for yourself, then just go for it. Stop stressing - you will be fine, and who knows, you might even enjoy it ;)
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My name is Isabel and I am 16 years old. My problem is that there is this guy that I am really interested in, but I don't know how to get close to him without him finding out I like him and me being totally humiliated. He is very sweet and funny not to mention very cute. He really respects women which is something you don't find often, but I'm scared to make a move. The only connection I really have to him would be his sister. I have tried to get closer to him when I visit her. I just hate using her because she is such a good friend. Even if I was willing to use her I'm still very shy around him. (I'm an actress I don't do shy. It just isn't me.) I guess I've just never been so into a guy before. What's wrong with me? What should I do? HELP!! (link)
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First off, take a step back and always remember one thing: he's just a guy. A pretty great guy by the sounds of it, but still, just a guy. Get some perspective and stop getting so worked up. Confidence is the key - and I don't mean cockiness, just confidence. Be calm - maybe findout what kind of stuff he's in to so you will have something to talk about. And ask his sister. I'm sure she'd be cool about it (after the initial "OH MY GOD HE'S MY BROTHER shock ;). Good luck! And remember, just a guy.
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i am a med student. quiet, stable environments are a good thing. i made a decision to move out of my GORGEOUS loft-style apt with skylights, claw-foot tub, stain. steel apps in a hip up-and-coming neighborhood because of construction going on below me to fix up some commercial spaces. i found a new apt, also loft style, less charm, less cool neighborhood. don5tgb-['t know if i want to go through hell to move v. hell of breaking a lease/being a jerk. i need quiet, i guess, but i will start working in the hospitals (surg 1st! aarg!). so i wonder how i should weigh quiet against a place with charm and good neighborhood for when i actually am home? moving is definitely a pain too... thanks! sorry abt length :( (link)
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If you are going to be working nights on med rotations ect, you will need your sleep. However, if you are not going to be happy in your new apartment, it all seems a little worthless. Perhaps find out how long the construction work will be going on for. It really is your decision. Good luck!
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ok so I have these friends and I tell them to stop asking boys out for me , but they keep at it,
and every guy hates me now (that I know) how can I get them to stop???
Thanks JayJay wb asap (link)
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Honestly hunny, it's just because nothing is going on in their love lives, they feel the need to interfere in other peoples. They are pissing you off big time. So tell them. Loudly, and cleary. Make sure you get the message across.
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im a 6th grade girl and i really need a b/f all the guys i like dont like me at all i want to ask them out but im afraid if they say no they will tell every1 that i like them and make fun of me. i give advice but i dont know wut 2 do. Pleez help!
Kate
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YOU DO NOT NEED A BOYFRIEND. It's the 21st century, get with feminism!
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