My name is Isabel and I am 16 years old. My problem is that there is this guy that I am really interested in, but I don't know how to get close to him without him finding out I like him and me being totally humiliated. He is very sweet and funny not to mention very cute. He really respects women which is something you don't find often, but I'm scared to make a move. The only connection I really have to him would be his sister. I have tried to get closer to him when I visit her. I just hate using her because she is such a good friend. Even if I was willing to use her I'm still very shy around him. (I'm an actress I don't do shy. It just isn't me.) I guess I've just never been so into a guy before. What's wrong with me? What should I do? HELP!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Magenta answered Monday May 31 2004, 5:19 am: First off, take a step back and always remember one thing: he's just a guy. A pretty great guy by the sounds of it, but still, just a guy. Get some perspective and stop getting so worked up. Confidence is the key - and I don't mean cockiness, just confidence. Be calm - maybe findout what kind of stuff he's in to so you will have something to talk about. And ask his sister. I'm sure she'd be cool about it (after the initial "OH MY GOD HE'S MY BROTHER shock ;). Good luck! And remember, just a guy. [ Magenta's advice column | Ask Magenta A Question ]
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