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Can you experience pregnancy symtoms [cramping, frequent urination, sensitivity to smell, et cetera] before you miss your period? (link)
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Absolutely. See a doctor.
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Ok...so im not a virgin but everytime ive had sex i told the guy to keep my bra on. My reasoning for that is my boobs look bigger in my bra and i dont want it to be a disappointment when it comes off. I really hate it because my boobs look like they are like an A when my bras off. What should i do about that? And my other problem is you know how people have hair on there stomach? Well since im full italian mine is like dark so it kind of grosses me out what can i do about that cuz that also bothers me? (link)
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Don't worry about it. Just relax, and enjoy it. It you're really self-concious about the hair on your stomach, you can shave it or wax, but that gets a little annoying after a while.
Here's the thing. Guys like boobs. It doesn't matter what size they are. Embrace it, have fun, and be safe!
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18/F
Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. I really want to lose my virginity to him. He is not a virgin but obviously I am.
I've talked to him about it and he says its my decision and he will stand behind which ever I make. (Wait or Not Wait)
Half of me wants to do something, then the other half is just like worried. I know I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with this man.
What do you guys thimk I should do?
Also, I heard you bleed a lot when you lose it. He has a rather large penis. So will I bleed heavy like on my period? Or just a little? And if I put my pants on afterwards, will I bleed threw my pants?
Thanks. (link)
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You have to go with your gut. If you have been dating for over 2 years, you should most likely be old enough to realize the consequences of having sex. It's good that he isn't pressuring you and will stand by your decision.
The bleeding that comes with losing your virginity is the blood from the hymen, which is broken when the vagina is penetrated. Your body will expand to accomodate his penis, don't worry about that. It may be a bit uncomfortable, but it shouldn't be bad.
The blood loss will be nothing like your period. Imagine a cut on your leg while your shaving and multiply that by 2. That's it. Not bad at all. I would recommend bringing a pantiliner with you, just in case. All girls are different.
Remember to use a condom, and be safe.
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What are the chances of being pregnant but still having your normal menstrual cycle? (link)
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You can't have both. A period is the release of the bloody lining of the uterus. The lining is there to nurture the egg, which could eventually become and embryo. When no egg is attached to the uterine wall, your body naturally sheds the lining. Now, if an egg is fertilized and attached to the uterine wall, the egg needs the nutrients from the blood to feed it and help it grow. Therefore, your body will not shed the lining and you will not menstruate. You could still have some light spotting at the beginning of the pregnancy, but nothing like a period.
The bottom line: It's not possible.
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Okay.
So, I've realized I have a fishy smell "down there"
What caused it?
How can I get rid of it?
Um...like you can get rid of it right? Its not gonna smell like this forever??
PLEASE HELP! I'm worried.
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It's probably just a discharge. It won't smell forever. Wash yourself every night with a product like Summer's Eve, and wear a pantiliner in your underwear. It should help.
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well see my issue is that i lost my virginity in the WORST way possible, and now that ive had sex i dont want to stop.. all i think about is sex and everything that comes out of my mouth is sex, and i know this sounds horrible but its not as bad as it seems but i have had sex with about 4 people and i have not gone out with either of them..even the person i lost my virginity to.. is that bad?? sometimes i feel like a whore and some girls call me a slut what should i do? (link)
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Just keep it to yourself. No one else has to know. Try having a relationship before you have sex, it's more enjoyable, and there's a guy there whenever you need/want it. Make sure you're safe though.
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I'm concerned about a couple of friends I have...I was wondering what age is appropriate to have sex...12?...14?...16?...18?...older?...they say they love the guy but come on...what's too young? (link)
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It all depends on the person. Personally, 12, 14 and probably 16 are too young. My advice to them is to wait until after high school. When they turn 18, they become adults and manage their health.
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which is a more trusted brand:
trojan or lifestyles? (link)
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Trojans have always worked for me, a Lifestyle broke once. I'd go with the Trojans.
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im worried about the size of my penis, i think its too small, ive never really seen another penis so i dont know whats big and wats small, and like wats the average guys penis size, if it helps mine is 7 inches, is that good or bad? please help (link)
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Don't worry about your size. Every guy is different.
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13/F
Okay, I just starting going out with my amazing boyfriend, (who just happens to be my best friend's ex, but she knows and she's not mad)and we went to the movies last night, and had an incredible night. We kissed, we told each other we loved each other, and pretty much everything else. He tried to make out with me the whole movie, but after I got my point across that I wasn't going to make-out with him the whole movie, he finally stopped, and we just held hands, cuddled, and flirted. I thought he was going to stop liking me because I didn't want to continue as far as he wanted me to, but he called me after our date, and we only talked for a few minutes. Now, here's the thing: I told my best friend (his ex) about our date, and all she could tell me was that everything he said and did was only a game to try to get in my pants. I believe her, but I really like him. (I would never give in to having sex with him, though) So, is there any advice anyone could give me on how to deal with this whole situation?
Thanks so much!
P.S. And he's definitely not as perverted as he seems, he's actually very nice. (link)
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Play it safe at the beginning. Make sure this guy really likes you, and isn't just looking for sex. If your best friend feels this way, try talking about him to her. Hopefully she'll see that he's not a bad guy.
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